Looking for something to do tonight in, I’m co-moderating a panel on Pleasure, Play and Taboo things. It should be a fun and liberating convo w/ the creators of @handballchi.com , Witch-O-Rama and a plant medicine 🍄 advocate. Tix linked up, come thru! #gaychicago www.eventbrite.com/e/queering-c...

Y’all have already seen it. So, Happy #fcf #gaychicago

For some odd reason, a person thought they could extort me by screenshotting my Grindr album and threatening to send it to fam, friends and work. The thing is…I’m 44, been out for almost 20 years at this point and not ashamed to be a sexual being. So, I’ll just post it myself.

And really…nothing puts a shimmy in your shake like a fresh load in your cakes

Last night, I served caramel corn…

Whew, got a bit drunk at brunch. There’s a whole night ahead of me. Reminder to pace myself.

There’s a palpable excitement that builds when an idea moves from a nebulous form to something more tangible and attainable. Can’t talk too much, but things are taking shape, even amidst the chaos of the moment.

Tonight’s fit #marketdays #gaychicago

Okay. So, the final #marketdays plan is Brut tonight, Mafia tomorrow and Queen Sunday. Catch me outside!! #gaychicago

Some reflections ahead of #marketdayschicago. Last year, I had a lot of fomo bc I hadn’t built my #queer community yet. This year…very different. So, immense gratitude. See y’all outside!

Okay #gaychicago… what are we doing for #marketdays? I’ve got Brut and Queen tickets. What else is going on?

Another night out..,

#chicago, can we come to a consensus on what kind of driving we’re doing this weekend? It’s #summertimechi and #pride, so I’m gonna be outside. Just lmk what we doin

So, I’m kinda amped for the weekend. It’ll be my first handball. No clue what to expect, but I’m hoping for a good time and an experience…we shall see #gaychicago

My co-conspirator, Dr Nicole Rawls, and I landed on the theme of #pleasure for our first #chimarronage led event to facilitate new pathways to #resistance through #art and #dreams. So, if you’re in #chicago on May 22, we’ll be in #humboldtpark at #DorothyDownstairs. Join us. 🎫link below

Took some promo shots for an upcoming show. More coming

So, this was the @funkstick.bsky.social fit. It’s finally time for crop tops 😂😂. Then, I went to @cellblockchi.bsky.social to dance more. All in all a good ass night

#chicagogays what’s good? I’m doing @funkstick.bsky.social Sunday, but what else is popping this weekend?

Me as a teenager: “I’m more than just my sexuality” Me today: “I am first and foremost, a fag”

The city is thawing and so is my seasonal depression. Let the heauxing commence!

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Currently dreamin of thot season

I wanna engage on here, but I feel like I haven’t unlocked the way this place works. I still feel like I’m speaking into a void and then ultimately feel unmotivated to post here. Idk 🤷🏾‍♂️ how’s everyone else finding their way here?

I wouldn’t mind posting videos here, but that 60-second limit is hella limiting. I’ll keep my eye out, tho

Trump is such a stunt queen. It’s bout to be Barnum and Bailey round this heaux

A lot of folks can only imagine resistance in models that look like martyrdom and struggle. This leaves them stuck on the same strategies and tactics that may have worked at one time but are no longer viable. That just ain’t how me, my ancestors or my culture get down. But by all means, do you.

It really feels like folks are making moves out of being reactionary, rather than having any sense of strategy or forethought. Needless to say, I’m gonna let folks pioneer this #rednote migration and see how it plays out with my popcorn.

Oh deadline, you musty bitch, why must you taunt me so??

I woke up and chose violence today…and it kinda felt good. Is this…could it be…do I have a villain arc loading???

So…I’m realizing how much I’ve gotten used to posting my thoughts in video format. BUT working an essay is slowly pushing me back into writing. Maybe I’ll engage here more, especially if the clock ban goes through. Le sigh

I mean…I’ll allow it. Though, I’m not sure it’s much of a transformation

Happy New Year!!

Embrace illegibility. The ability to not be immediately perceived or understood can sometimes be an asset.

Next up in this series of my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, we have #luckydaye with his #album “Algorithm”

Next up in this series of my fave #music releases of 2024, we have #Beyoncé with her #album “Cowboy Carter”.a

Next up in this series of my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, we have #raekhalil with her #album “CRYBABY”.

Happy Christmas to those that celebrate! Happy Day Off From Work In The Middle Of The Week to those that don’t!!

Next up in this series of my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, is #fanahues with her #album Moth. It’s an evocative body of work that feels wistful and romantic. It’s a perfect winter listen.

Next up in this series of my fave #music releases of 2024, we have #nxworries with their sophomore #album “Why Lawd?”.

Next up in this series of my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, we have #lalahhathaway with her #album “VANTABLACK”.

Next up in this series of my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, we have #doechii with her #album…well, #mixtape “Alligator Bites Never Heal”. What can I say? It’s everything. She’s everything.

Next up in this series of my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, we have @ravynlenae with her sophomore #album “Bird’s Eye”

Next up in my series covering my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, is @Fousheé with her #album “Pointy Heights”. It’s a brilliant body of work that expertly walks the line between modernity and nostalgia.

“To heaux or not to heux: that is the question Whether ‘tis nobler in the buss to suffer, The slings and and arrows of outrageous fortune, Or to take arms from a sea of tops”…or something like that

Next up in this series covering my fave #music releases of 2024, we have #tde artist #sir with his #album “Heavy”. I thought was an introspective and cohesive body of work that took some pretty strong swings that paid off.

Quote with your full avi. Let's see the whole pic #blacksky

I’ve had similar experience in the reverse. It just seemed like an obligation rather than a desire. So, there was a lack of enthusiasm. That said, when I’ve been with women, I enjoyed giving head much more than penetration. I was able to just lock in, focus and improvise.

Next up in my series covering my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, is #maeta with her fully #kaytranada produced #album “Endless Night”. It’s a dope, efficient body of work that gets right to the point of setting a good vibe.

So, next up in my series covering my fave #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, we have #GavinTurek with her sophomore #album “Diva Of The People”. It’s a fun and effervescent piece that manages to be grounded with heart.

Next up in my series covering my fav #music releases of 2024, according to #applemusicreplay, is #kaytranada with his #album “Timeless”