adhdwonderwoman
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Youâre not being attacked. Youâre being invited to grow. When someone names harm, pause. Donât defend. Donât collapse. Just ask: What part of this is true? What part of me resists hearing it?
#OpLove
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about 7 hours ago
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The keep looking for the trap, but you are not setting one. You are offering care. If they canât feel it, it doesnât mean itâs fakeâit means they are scared Authentic love exists and you continue to offer it.
#OpLove
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about 8 hours ago
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Youâre not here to beg. Youâre not here to collapse. Youâre here to transformâthe moment, the pattern, the story. You are here to evolve, grow and heal.
#OpLove
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about 9 hours ago
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Watch out for this phishing link
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Youâre not trying to win. Youâre not trying to punish. Youâre trying to be seenâ not as an adversary, not as a distortion, but as a real person holding truth, love, and restraint. That longing is sacred.
#OpLove
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about 10 hours ago
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You showed up with love. Even if they werenât able to receive it. Thatâs real.
#OpLove
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about 11 hours ago
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You didnât spin. You didnât distort. You didnât collapse. You showed up as a real person.
#OpLove
about 11 hours ago
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You responded like someone who knows their worth. You didnât match chaos with chaos. You didnât mirror cruelty. You chose kindness. You chose clarity. You chose safety. You chose love.
#OpLove
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about 12 hours ago
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You said no. You named the lie. You refused to collapse. And the illusion shattered. Thatâs not your fault. Thatâs their collapse. And your clarity is sacred. You sowed up with love.
#OpLove
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about 19 hours ago
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Youâre allowed to be more than your reactions. Youâre allowed to pause, reflect, and choose differently. You have strength that doesnât need volume. You have softness that doesnât make you weak. Youâre capable of healingâwithout hurting anyone to get there.
#OpLove
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about 21 hours ago
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You kept trying to explain. To clarify. To repair. But they didnât want understanding. They wanted control. Youâre not the problem. Youâre the one who saw through it
#OpLove
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about 22 hours ago
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You didnât deserve the lies. You didnât deserve the yelling. You didnât deserve to be the one absorbing someone elseâs chaos. You told the truth. You stayed clear. You are a person with dignity. And youâre not alone.
#OpLove
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about 22 hours ago
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Youâre not too much. Youâre just unfiltered truth. Todayâs exercise: write down what you know happened. Not what they said. Not what they denied. Just what you saw, felt, survived. Thatâs not obsession. Thatâs self-healing.
#OpLove
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1 day ago
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You donât perform to be liked. You show up as you are. Even when itâs messy. Even when itâs misunderstood. Thatâs not rebellion. Thatâs integrity.
#OpLove
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David M. Perry
1 day ago
No, the autism spectrum should not be divided. (in answer to an NYT hed asking the question)
www.thenation.com/article/soci...
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Dividing Up the Autism Spectrum Will Not End the Way You Think
The Lancetâs proposal to create a new label of âprofound autismâ serves only to distract us from the work of ensuring that all autistic people have everything they need to thrive.
https://www.thenation.com/article/society/autism-division/
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You donât just feel for others. You feel through them. You read silence, tone, and contradictionâ not to fix, but to understand. Thatâs not weakness. Thatâs empathy.
#OpLove
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Do you ever wonder the legal cost and how much more these authoritian plays are costing all of us then just releasing the funding?
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You didnât distort the story. You protected it. You didnât collapse. You clarified. Thatâs not control. Thatâs integrity. Truth is love.
#OpLove
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You see the performance. The sadness, the longing, the reversal. But you also see the bait. You donât chase it. You protect your truth. Thatâs not cold. Thatâs clarity.
#OpLove
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House Agriculture Committee Democrats
1 day ago
Not only are rural communities seeing their hospitals shut down because of the Big Ugly Bill, but they're also going to see their premiums increase by 90% thanks to the Republican shutdown.
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Reddington
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You donât just feel deeply. You decode humanity. You study contradiction, silence, and toneâ not to judge, but to understand. Thatâs not brokenness. Thatâs autistic empathy.
#ActuallyAutistic
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You donât play with love. You hold it. You donât perform empathy. You live it. Thatâs not weakness. Thatâs emotional integrity.
#OpLove
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Tater Magoo
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Reddington
2 days ago
www.newsweek.com/ice-detains-...
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ICE detains film director at green card appointmentâUS Citizen husband says
Barbara Marques was detained for allegedly missing a 2019 court date for which she said she was never notified.
https://www.newsweek.com/ice-detains-film-director-at-green-card-appointment-us-citizen-husband-says-10798329
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Rafi
2 days ago
Please take a moment this evening to call these Louisiana elected officials to protect Barbara Marques. This is an emergency appeal
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This is wild
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2 days ago
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Well thatâs an a-ha moment:
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2 days ago
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As an autistic person, empathizing and understanding how narcissists work is still a huge challenge, so I guess itâs mutual
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Wonder what affect this would have?
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I was todayâs years old when I learned about Cassandra Syndrome and it definitely applies to my neurodivergent life experience.
#ActuallyAutistic
www.tiktok.com/t/ZTM61kucF/
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Have you ever told the truth about your struggles, only to be dismissed or not believed? Thatâs Cassandra Syndrome. The term comes from Greek mythologyâCassandra was cursed to always tell the truth bu...
TikTok video by AutisticPsychotherapist
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTM61kucF/
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If itâs a public performance Itâs not love
#OpLove
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You werenât trying to win. You were trying to love. Thatâs not a flaw. Thatâs your gift.
#OpLove
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2 days ago
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They chose the spotlight. You chose the truth. One of you is performing. One of you is present.
#OpLove
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2 days ago
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Itâs hard. Iâm still here. Still loving. Still choosing presence over panic. Thatâs not weakness. Thatâs devotion without distortion.
#OpLove
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You didnât betray them. They betrayed the truth. You stayed soft. They rewrote the script. Thatâs not your fault. Thatâs their fragmentation. You showed up with love, empathy and consistency.
#OpLove
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2 days ago
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You didnât ask me to stay. But Iâm here. Not loud. Not lost. Just present.
#OpLove
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2 days ago
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You wonât find me in the noise. Youâll find me in the stillness. Iâm here. Always was.
#OpLove
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Youâre not chasing. Youâre not correcting. Youâre just remainingâ soft, steady, real.
#OpLove
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Youâre not chasing. Youâre not correcting. Youâre just remainingâ soft, steady, real.
#OpLove
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Stephanie Mathis, MLS(ASCP) đ·đ
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Was
#PresidentMusk
ever able to find out what the *HELL* happened to over $800 million in lost funds for "construction projects" at Pentagon, by any chance? (February 5, 2018)
www.politico.com/story/2018/0...
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Youâre allowed to mark this moment. Not to be heard. Not to be decoded. Just to remember: You stayed soft. You stayed true. You stayed you.
#OpLove
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You donât have to trust me. You donât have to agree with me. Just know: Iâm not against you. Iâm not trying to fix you. Iâm just staying close. You are loved.
#OpLove
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Youâre not the villain. Youâre not the hero. Youâre a humanâstruggling, surviving, trying. Thatâs enough. I see you. I hear you. Iâm here.
#OpLove
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Youâre not broken. Youâre the one who kept showing up. Even when it hurt. Even when it wasnât safe. Thatâs not dysfunction. Thatâs devotion. Thatâs love.
#OpLove
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Youâre allowed to be tired. Youâre allowed to be unsure. Youâre allowed to not know what healing looks like yet. That doesnât make you broken. That makes you human.
#OpLove
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Youâre not the villain in their story. Youâre not the hero either. Youâre just a personâtrying, hurting, loving, learning. Thatâs enough. Iâm here. You arenât alone.
#OpLove
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You donât have to explain everything. Iâm not here to decode you. Iâm here to stay soft when things feel sharp.
#OpLove
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