Genuine question: how do other people with dogs handle spending the night at someone else's place? Do you just... leave your dog alone overnight? I have a situation where I can't really meet someone physically unless I visit them, but I don't want to leave my dog alone overnight. Ughhhh.

DR4X is wild because (spoilers) it’s a haunted 4X game built into a diegetic haunted terminal, built into a simulated haunted operating system, built into a hidden haunted FNAF, style game. Its arussian nesting doll of scope and most people havent even seen a quarter of it. :3

UH WHERE DID MY GAME GET MENTIONED

SS is just my baseline. #beatsaber

Lindsey Grahm died on my birthday. What a great gift.

I wish there were a way to communicate that my lack of romantic advances isn’t a lack of interest. It’s that I have almost no practice flirting, and I haven’t been in a genuinely mutual romantic/sexual relationship since 2020. I tend to move slowly because I have no clue what I’m doing.

Wow. I’m actually hung over this morning. I haven’t felt this way in years! An actual headache! Wild.

Being everyone’s emotionally intimate friend but nobody’s partner is a uniquely painful experience.

You can’t love someone into choosing you, and you can’t worry someone into staying either. The only thing you can really do is be genuine and let them decide for themselves s’pose.

If you’re arguing that someone born a few months earlier or later then u belongs in a completely different culture and should be excluded and like ostracized, you’ve probably lost your fucking mind. Like. Congrats on having fallen for boomer generational infighting bait while they parasitize you.

The internet’s obsession with policing who’s “allowed” into arbitrary age categories that were made up by boomers is exhausting. Zillennial literally exists because people born around the transition don’t fit neatly into either generation. That’s the entire point.

I just saw some posts about Elliot page. People on Facebook really are fucking disgusting transphobes aren’t they. What a fucking hell site filled with loser boomers who have no better things to do with their time then mock someone for being trans. Fuck them. Elliot page is awesome.

An update.

My arms and legs hurt lol

4 Expert Full Combo runs in one day is absolutely nusto.

Who doesn't love **pumping**... www.youtube.com/watch?v=aAfb... #beatsaber

Rude.

This is probably because men are generally expected to be more forward becaus emen are generally so forwared its creepy, so people assume that if a guy is interested, he’ll just say so.

TLDR: I think the complaints about men being too forward & creepy are valid.But there’s another piece people miss: when you’re a quiet or subtle man, people assume you aren’t interested. So some guys learn that being forward is the only way to be noticed,and then overcorrect into being pushy/creepy.

It’s frustrating. And i know, there is some middle ground between being invisible and being creepy. But im autistic so i can be bad at reading people. So its actually really fucking hard to know what is enough and what isnt, and I end up being too uninterested seeming im pretty sure.

I’ve always been quiet,and I’m pretty sure there were plenty of people I had crushes on who probably thought I was uninterested because I didn’t make it obvious.Recently I was trying to be a little more flirty,but now I’ve kind of stopped completely because I’m worried about coming across wrong.

They blamed it on socialization and privilege, and I think that's part of it, but I also feel like people are missing another piece. It's not just that men are socialized to be forward. It's also that, being forward is EXPECTED. From men or people assume you are uninterested.

I just watched a video where a lot of people were complaining, completely validly, about men being too forward or creepy, specifically gay men, though obviously it can happen with any sexuality.

Maybe I have been. But I certainly don’t remember. Either way it’s kinda sad tbh.

This is kinda personal,but I’ve always liked to think I’m a sweet and thoughtful person.No one’s ever directly called me “sweet,” though, and lately that’s had me wondering if I’m just wrong about myself. And actually people don’t see me that way or something /:

“Thanks for supporting your local caffeine dealer”

I just made a terrible financial decision

30 bucks to go 3 miles is wild. I wanted to go to a coffee shop today. But Lyfts surge pricing is ridiculous.

How the fuck are North Korean agents landing$270k software engineering jobs by larping as Americans and using ChatGPT,while I’m making way less?Maybe I need to start approaching interviews like a North Korean agent. Or ya know, try to get a higher paying software engineering job then my current one.

Me: “I’m confident in my appearance :3” Also me: “I’m afraid to post a selfie on the r/enby subreddit because I think I look too dude-like to be non-binary” Also me: “Demiboy :3”

I give up.

The other day, I held the door open for several people, and one girl kept staring at me. She walked past, looked back at me, and immediately tripped on the mat in the doorway lol.

It sucks that Susie and Noelle can have such a great date, while the only date I’ve been on in the past few weeks went absolutely horribly. :( Good for them tho. Well, I guess I did go to Pride Fest with my friend, and that went well, but that wasn’t a date.

It keeps doing this to me every time i listen to it yet i kepe listening to it. Building up tolerance.

it did make me cry btw

Oh god the festival music is beautiful it makes me want to cry :(

lol Susie is a duck.

Ugh. Can’t do the climbing challenge either because I’m missing the stupid fucking Shadow Guys, even though I literally recruited everyone in Chapter 4.

Also I really didn’t like chapter 3 either. Tony Faux why would you do this to me!

Fucking hell. Okay,I have a problem, guys.I might have to restart Deltarune entirely just to recruit all the Shadow guys in Chapter 3.I had no idea you could interact with the lawnmower,so I missed it.Now my save is basically ruined because I don’t have Tenna, and I can’t use the Battle Dojo bakery.

This review made me laugh. Translates to: "An amazing game. First of all, it’s a high-quality *Advance Wars* title, and then... there’s a *Pony Island* hidden inside it—what the heck?" Its also true. DR4X is wild. Thanks for your review, cloudwu, you absolute chad.

Oh hey! Rogue Outsider Did a video about this Minecraft Mod @untrustedlife.bsky.social and I worked on! www.youtube.com/watch?v=fJqK...

These last few days have been wild.

Good. I was worried he had stopped!

It appears that Bobby Prince has died. Doom - Quake - Rise of the Triad - Duke Nukem. So SO many more. I can say this is someone who composed a song just for me. Not many people can say that. Dude's a legend. RIP my old friend. www.legacy.com/legacy/rober...

Just realized I might have a problem:I almost never complain,even to my friends.Complaining is apparently one of the ways people invite each other into their inner lives,and I may have accidentally made myself harder to connect with. Hm. God I feel like a fucking alien analyzing human relationships.

It’s actually super surreal seeing people backseat game Thrive now. It’s like “I helped make a game that’s reached the point where people are debating optimal strategies and acting like experts about it” The idea that there’s people doing this about something I worked on is honestly wild. :p

It’s kind of annoying being good at a niche version of a niche game.I’m getting genuinely insane Beat Saber scores lately but because I mostly play vanilla Hard+Super Fast+Full Combo,it doesn’t really register with the broader Beat Saber community because everyone is obsessed with Expert+modded maps

Came out to my parnets as bi today.