Back in the US I see you all didn't burn the place down while I was gone. How disappointing.... Time for late night taco bell in MY apartment, with MY fiancé, on OUR couch by ourselves. Feels good to be alive right about now. *waits for incoming meteor*

Basils debut at Confuzzled was a success! First time wearing him and I got so many good compliments.

My husband is my rock and I'm not the problem. I keep telling myself that cause my family keeps reinforcing it. I haven't done shit but people who want to punch down on me keep winning and I'm not going to let it happen anymore.

Sorry for ranting I have been sharing these stories with people at Confuzzled and they have made me feel better to advocate for myself. I've suffered slander and racist shit for years now and I don't want to hide my pain anymore.

Years later I have so many people who support me and convinced me I'm the victim not the problem. This con has been a mental health sanctuary for me. Thank you Confuzzled.

I'm glad my husband called out that level of abuse. I just stayed in my room afraid of being the but if racist jokes. I owe him the world for advocating for me. Smokey/Lucky Dragon Co is a fuckin racist piece of shit and I don't want people spending money on them.

Smokey/Lucky Dragon Co used to bring my skin color into the mix as a "joke" in many convos and I just didn't know how to respond. Then they accused me of SA because someone at a different con said I did it. Had proof it was a lie...still racist remarks.

One time I bought some watermelon flavored candy and gushed about how tasty it was. Smokey said "oh is it cause you're black?" And I wished I could of beat the shit out of them on the spot. Trace , Arago, and Max just laughed at me. I hate it. I hate them so much.

Also as a runner up the most racist creator I've lived with is Lucky Dragon Co. Absolutely avoid their products cause they kept making jokes about me being black and decided to tell people I SA someone despite showing proof I didnt. Don't support racists. We need to kick these people out.

Trauma bonding with people in a DIFFERENT COUNTRY over how Remy and Scales treated others

You ever have someone you give all your energy to and they just don't give it back and make you feel like you're just an emotional black hole? I hate the feeling that my issues are a burden on others. I'd rather suffer alone than be unnecessary stress for another.

Out here at @confuzzled.org.uk and living my best life with my fiancé.

You want to know what's wild? I have experienced 0 racist comments or underhanded racist behavior here in the UK. BUT every American furry con someone crossed the line either intentionally or unknowingly. That's why #Confuzzled is my favorite con ever.

Getting ready for Confuzzled this week! We’ll be in the dealers den from Friday to Monday with lots of merch and costume supplies #cfz2026 #confuzzled

Need a sign that says "House Brotocol" with rules for the horny friends when they're here. A big fucking fuzzy blanket, and a bed couch for people to crash on and group snuggling. Absolutely gonna fuckin spoil people with my southern hospitality finally.

Something I'm eager for is creating a safe crash space for my friends to come over and feel like themselves. Between my desire to cook for my bros and brodettes and cocktail experience.... I no longer feel embarrassed having company over and explaining the trash and smells that aren't ours.

Let's all go to Paradise [ #wolfsrain #fanart #anime #artsky #wolf ]

Tee hee I have my own kitchen and hubby keeps asking me to make a list if appliances I want so he can find deals on them. This is so exciting! I get to cook all my family specialty foods and good southern dishes.

It still shakes me up mentally that I thought I had a dream smelling flammable gas thinking it was a nightmare via bonkers pain medication. Only to find out no your two roommates sat in a room and just didn't do anything when they smelled it and I was high a lot...one lighter flick...we'd have died

I want to turn our dining room into a food/cuddle space. With a soft area rug and beanbag chairs. Drinking on the floor with pillows and beers with the homies.

Despite the shit people I've lived with the satisfaction of pissing off people who can't manipulate you is free serotonin. Especially calling someone's bluff trying to threaten moving out cause they can't make us clean up after them. Lol

Crimson Desert feels like a prologue to DLC

Buying a couch with a ottoman to convert into a bed. But also to snuggle on and sleep with Trev if we wanna Netflix and chill. -wink-

I'm not the only person who's thought about what their own Domain Expansion and Curse Techniques would be....r-right?

I felt lazy and made one of my childhood Midwest struggle meals and it slaps even today. Ramen and Hotdogs 🤌

You know I've been the only poc in most places I used to rent and I loved cleaning but none of my roommates didn't know how. From my perspective I had to stop because I don't like being the one POC in a house of white people who knows how to clean but that was the expectation at my old place.

Life Update: First time I've ever had surgery was in February. Last year the necrosis caused by #SickleCellDisease damaged my shoulder joint and I had to have mandatory replacement surgery. I've been stressed and terrified for a year but now it's done and I have another scar...blegh.

Story Time: my previous living situation was figuratively and literally toxic. No communication, gas lighting, chasing people for money, and...smells. Me and my partner were depressed. Then said roommates sat in the living with gas leaking from the stove and did....nothing.

13 years in Boston and for my birthday I have finally moved into my own apartment with my fiancé. New chapter of renting with my partner and I'm so happy.

My one wish is that people could stop messaging me only stickers and vague bullshit. I really hate passive non-verbal bullshit cause it makes my brain spiral to figure out what they want and I just get angry.

I find it hard to find someone that cares about me sometimes but when I look at the news and the world we live in it makes sense.

This idea of "I deserve to be respected" lingers on my mind but that doesn't apply to me. I can be ignored, I'm often ignored, and deep down that's just natural to some that they don't even see the hypocrisy. I don't know what to do but just keep moving on.

I'm so ready to die sometimes. Not in an edgy way but like I have been so close so many times part of my brain says "life goes on you're just a random negro" but also I wanna achieve something in my time I want to help others I just suck at...life? But I'm not white so I can't unfortunately.

Sorry to worry anyone I haven't had my painkillers in two days because the pharmacy is out and after being 5 months pain free it's coming back and I'm feeling incredibly irritable again but the realization I can never not take these pills and opioids hits me hard.

Clair Obscur: Expedition 33 is one of the greatest games I've played. I wanted to show my love for the game and did so in the only way I knew I could, by learning how to make baguettes! Recipe can be found here: pixelatedprovisions.com/2025/10/08/c... #Expedition33 @sandfallgames.bsky.social

FUCK Sickle Cell Disease dude. I hate relying on painkillers my whole life from now on just to feel normal.

The biggest downside to having two powerful long acting painkillers going all day is the afternoon crash I suffer. My strongest drugs "activation" time I can almost clock in 4 hours after taking it. Help me please

I legit have not had any issues with Borderlands 4. I think there is a level of people just want to complain and gang mentality on the internet is rampant. Cyberpunk 2077 was a buggy mess and I was upset but not shitting on the developer nonstop for it.

Thank you @borderlands.2k.com for adding this. As someone recently diagnosed it's made shooters much more tolerable.

Getting to go out with the hubby, see friends, go home and have the most fresh and crispy Mcdonalds fries ever and some burgers on the way home was really nice.

Clarification, since a comment made me realize my wording could be misconstrued: When I say "a payout and an apology," I mean ABC/Disney should apologize and give a huge check to Jimmy Kimmel for their rush to bend the knee, not Kimmel apologizing to anyone. He owes nobody anything.

Today I'm attending my first walk/run for Sickle Cell in Franklin Park. If you wanna share or donate it'd be appreciated. This is my team. sicklecellhope.myevent.com/participants...

Stop letting people convince you being an Empath is some great cool thing it's not. It really really really really sucks and hard to control. I've always hated this feeling I get and it literally drove me crazy at one point. It's not fun when people are at their lowest.

I grew up having to accept never really understanding why is "The black person always dies first" a universal trope in media? And now just a funny ha ha we've become so accustomed to?

Oh the shooter was a white republican who loved guns(shocker). Great so now everyone on the left can respectfully ask the conservative party to fuck off and deal with their own. But of course they will somehow blame everyone else.

1/2 In case you were wondering why the incorrect rumor of “trans activist” and “fascist symbols” on ammo started, it’s because arrows and initials are common ways manufacturers stamp ammo. Including “TRN” the ironsight and a direction broad arrow:

Let's not forget the two democratic lawmakers who were shot and killed a month ago. Escalation has already happened and the right makes it very clear they want to kill everyone else.

Bitches out here making million dollar movies and documentaries about white guys who are renown serial killers. Don't see any Michael Brown or George Floyd movies or specials? We only matter to the media when we are suffering.

What happens when all the criminals in America are gone and Trump finally defeats us but there's still mass shootings and killing? Who's the next target demographic to villainize?

"Political violence only brings out more political violence" Well as long as the gun loving right wing sycophants are empowering their own to kill each other I'm sure we've gone way past escalation. January 6 did happen and the one who are out there Trump released from prison.