Cycle of filling men void, til they work things out with their baby mama or ex & they end up leaving without saying shit. I’m tired of going through this.

If you were to ask me how I feel about the mass deportations.. I'd say I'm scared-scared for myself, my loved ones, my friends & my community. No one is illegal on stolen land!

I’ll probably be signing off for the new year, see what lies ahead for me as I do me privately. Much love & hugs to you all. May 2025 be gentle to you all, for you all deserve a good year. I may be gone but I’ll still be rooting for you all. ❤️🥂✨

the more chances you give someone, the less they value you. they’re not afraid to lose you because they know no matter what, you won’t walk away. never let someone get too comfortable with disrespecting you. know your worth.

Me as a GF when it comes to VDay but yk.. 🙂‍↕️😫❤️

I am afraid of loving someone because what if one day they replace me or cheat on me? It happened to me before and i was unable to process it not until years later

Honestly if a someone wants you, you won't have to ask for effort. They will make time, they will call/ text you. Trust me! No one is too busy for the person they truly want..

At some point you have to get serious about ur life. Delete numbers, stay away from love that isn’t genuine, hustle harder, get your health right, ur spirit right, ur mental right. STAY FOCUSED. You gotta demand some respect. Not just from ppl but YOURSELF. Claim it, speak it, see it everyday.

Here’s to 2025 🥂✨

I swear to myself that 2025 is the year I stop putting up with what I do not deserve. You don’t want to make an effort with me? Bye. You won’t message me unless I message first? Bye. Only keeping me around for when it suits you? Bye. Any kind of disrespect? Cyaaaa

Just got done giving my doggy a hair cut. Now she needs a bath but she shall get one tomorrow morning.

My plan vs my budget 🐮😫❤️

The BEST thing I learned this year was how to still enjoy my life during my storms. As long as we have life we will have problems. My entire world can be in chaos & I'll still try to find a reason to laugh & smile.

I will not beg anyone for their time or try to convince anyone to choose me.. forced isn’t genuine or heart-felt. If they feel they can find better somewhere else respectfully let them.

I really love the people that are upfront & direct. I hate confusion & I don't like weird energy. Just tell me what you are feeling & what you want.

when im laying in bed by myself on a Sunday night & it finally hits me that i genuinely am lonely & barley have any real friends.

always choose yourself first, then choose who chooses you.

Sometimes i just wanna vent without someone telling me a positive affirmation.

Before I give up on somebody, i try, i try & i try until there's nothing left to try for.

& so another year comes to an end. Whether the year was good or bad, u made it. U got through 100% of ur bad days & thats pretty incredible. So if no ones told u yet, I'm so proud of u. I can't wait to see what the new year brings for us, With both the ups & the downs. But we'll make it once again.🥂

You can’t control anyone’s actions; loyalty comes from the heart.🫀

Leaving a lot of ppl in 2024. So whoever I take with me in 2025, don’t make me regret it. For I just want genuine ppl by my side, who actually care about me. I’m too much of a good person to let ppl treat me wrong.

In the mood to love one person in every way for the rest of my life. 😫❤️

Yk what’s crazy, I finally had my first cuddle nap session at the age of 25 on December 25, 2024. 🥺

Lmao fr

Looking for a future, not a moment.

Never really had anyone that was serious about me. For they were always hooked on an ex & ended up going back to them.

“U can’t love someone til you love yourself” but nobody talks about how sometimes being loved the right way, by the right person, makes you also fall in love with yourself again because they bring out all the best parts of you that you forgot existed.

To my MAMA. May you stay healthy until my dreams come true & to witness your lil girl be happy. 🥺❤️‍🩹

Do you ever get secondhand happiness... like someone is happy so you're happy because they're happy.

If you got me, I got you. That’s on everything. ❤️✨

It's either u r in an exclusive relationship or not. It's either you're sure u want someone or not. U can't act like couples, have sx, speak/ txt for hours every day & call it just a 'talking stage' It's emotional fraud because you're enjoying relationship benefits without commitment.

May 2024 be your last heartbreak & last time you ever deal with someone who isn't sure of you. May 2025 be the year you experience the love you desire & most importantly, deserve. 🙏🏽❤️

Can't wait for the day when somebody tells me I'm the best thing that ever happen to them & they actually mean it.

Why do you stay loyal? cause I would never want them to think they’re an option or in a competition with another person. i know how it feels when someone else isnt & id rather be 6 ft under than make them feel how ive felt before… I respect my body at the end of the day. 🤷🏽‍♀️❤️

You get to an age where you just want to progress with someone, not waste time. 🙂‍↕️🤞🏽

The age of 25 to 30s isn't easy. You lose friends, you make mistakes, you fall, you fail, you realize things, you hit reality, you lose yourself but in the end you find yourself & you become stronger.

I’m happy how today ended 😫❤️

Merry Christmas Everyone, hope you all have a fun safe holiday with your friends/ family! 💚❤️

Ngl I am slacking today for work. I keep getting distracted. I just want to nap tbh, all the crying I did earlier, made me sleepy. 🥱

Me as a gf: