When you set boundaries, you don't lose people. You never had people who don't respect your boundaries.

The great thing about content creation is that you get to choose who to be around. The bad thing is watching people choose to be around people who suck.

Duke says Good Morning

Honestly taking care of me has been great for my face card.

There’s not much better than seeing a puppy alter his course to come visit you.

The shenanigans my discord server gets up to makes me giggle.

If you’re in the US VOTE

With the government shutdown, and SNAP benefits set to lapse for 42 million people nationwide, food bank donations are more important than ever before. I’ll be doing a giveaway this month to help the effort. Each donation of $10 will be good for an entry to win a Warhammer 40K Battlebox! (1/2)

I might be extra spicy because I have to spend Halloween at home because my kid decided to be an asshole and punch my other kid. 🙃 But probably not. Maybe tho.

You know what pisses me off the most is I never bothered to talk about the months of pushing boundaries or making me uncomfortable and boy howdy do I have a list. I never said anything because I knew most of you didn’t give a shit about me and wouldn’t believe me anyways.

while we're talking about it

I don't think enough of you are upset that someone who SA'd someone else got an ambassadorship from Wizards. AGAIN. This was reported. Yet nothing.

I would never work with MTGO. It's a terrible program from the 90's that needed a code update like you wouldn't believe. I hated every minute of trying to use it. Don't get me started on how they really feel about creators. Especially of a certain community and size. Just saying.

If you're struggling right now there is help. This is just one resource.

Reminder that you are a reflection of the company you keep. If you continue to like, comment, share an abuser’s content, you are saying you condone the actions of that abuser.

You’re in pumpkin patches and I’m here. We are not the same.

I'm finally climbing out of my hole post Atlanta, and I even slept in this morning. Maybe next week I'll have enough energy to put my clothes away.

Clowning

If my name is still in your mouth well I hope you choke. I’m literally over here living my life.

Art by Liberal Jane. ☕️💜

The videos of NYers absolutely NOT giving ICE a second of peace is making me emotional. I am so proud to be from NY. A woman in business casual standing in front of an armored truck, flipping both birds? They're downtown on Canal. This is going to be the calmest reaction ICE will get in NYC.

I might be over love is blind. It’s just depressing this season.

I'm not gonna lie, I'm lonely and I'm still HELLA mad but I'm doing myself no favors by hiding. So here's what I've been doing. I bought a house and moving in has been a process, I basically haven't stopped moving since Atlanta. I work for a gaming company and that will take up a LOT of time.

This. Right. Here. 💯

I love the new season of Marvel Rivals where no one wants to play Tank or Heals. Wheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

If you were a "good person" but the world is exactly the same as when you arrived, if you never fed a hungry person or reduced someone's suffering or comforted a grieving person, what was the point of being a "good person" except your own ego? It's not about being good. It's about doing good.

i’m a firm believer that people can change and better themselves but sometimes it’s best to have them do that very very far away from you, and that’s okay! proud of everyone who spoke up and stood up for our fellow community members 🤍

Sometimes you use the big account to post big things just because it still exists even if you don't.

It sucks a lot when someone thinks of you as an acquaintance but you thought of them as a friend. Navigating parasocial feelings is hard, near impossible when you add in the spice of neurodivergence. All I can say is this, sometimes people will move on from your life and that’s ok. It has to be.

Hey, it's not just you. Everyone is going through it right now. You're not losing it, and more importantly, you can keep going. No matter how hopeless it feels, you can make it through this. So long as you keep getting up and keep moving forward, little by little, you'll get there. I believe in you.

Unironically I recorded this with @untappedlibraries.bsky.social before Chris Cock's statements about women in the space. Community building is important. Women play games too. Thank you Untapped Libraries for letting me speak on this and still putting this episode out.

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The #GatheringForGood Chaos Commanderthon guest list is about to be revealed! Running through Monday the 11th August and ending Sunday 17th August, 6pm - 3am BST daily! Want the info on who's raising money for @warchilduk.bsky.social? Keep your eyes locked on this thread for all the reveals! 🧵

What if you’re not falling out of love with the game, you’re falling out of love with the grind? Do the things you enjoy and don’t let anyone tell you you have to do it any other way.

One of the things I am still struggling with is getting more than 3-5 hours of sleep or sleeping at normal hours. Who would have thought after months of getting sleep in 2 hour increments that sleep would be near impossible to find. So I’m curled up on the couch watching a movie hoping for a nap.

wow

If your body is feeling tired it’s telling you to rest. Take a break before you fall down.

Oop

Playing Rivals with @halfmoonxtori.bsky.social and the fam might be one of my favorite things ever.

Guess who isn’t asleep yet????

MtGO is that guy who you dated 15 years an ago because he was the only thing available at the time but you outgrew him and he’s never changed.

Imagine thinking being kind *isn't* punk rock...

THANK YOU EA FOR MAKING CHOICES FOR YOUR COMMUNITY.

I have a controversial take. People who collect squishmallows would have collected porcelain dolls if they grew up in the early 1900s

If you’re hurt, it doesn’t matter if anyone else thinks you don’t have a good enough reason. Pain doesn’t require approval.” @sarahbethdurst.bsky.social, The Enchanted Greenhouse

Bury me with this.