Can you spot the warning signs in this real phishing message? The messages aren't always this obvious, but remember to think before you click!

It wasn't about the banana. In 2024, a redditor made a post titled "My bf asked for the banana & now I've got the ick." At first, it almost sounded like a joke or a minor relationship hiccup. But two years later, she returned and shared how serious it actually was.

“No one would believe me” is one of the most powerful and deceitful tools an abuser can use. When survivors speak, our first response matters. Learn more:

Leaving can be hard. Leaving and thriving can be even harder. Take a look at our quick guide for rebuilding your financial independence after leaving.

Give yourself the same patience you give tacos. When tacos fall apart, we pick up the pieces and they're still delicious. When you fall apart, you're still amazing, too. Happy #tacotuesday

Ending a relationship used to mean returning keys and picking up boxes. Today it also means passwords, shared streaming, smart thermostats, and phone plans. A "digital breakup" is deciding, on your terms, which doors to close. Check out our digital breakup guide here: safeescape.org/toolkit-digi...

You matter. That's it, that's the post. You. Matter.

Abuse doesn't always "look like" violence. Sometimes it looks like isolation, surveillance, financial control, threats, humiliation, or making someone feel like they have no safe way out. Listen to your friends and loved ones, they may be saying more than what they're saying.

Love doesn't hurt.

July 10 is National Kitten Day. Take a mental break, enjoy these kittens.

Don't forget: You're allowed to set boundaries without apology. You're allowed to protect your peace. You're allowed to choose distance, silence, privacy, and safety. You're allowed to take care of you.

Some of the most dangerous moments happen after a survivor tries to leave. That is why “just leave” may sometimes be dangerous advice. Survivors need careful planning, trusted support, and resources that understand escalation risk. Learn more:

Do what you love, and you'll never work a day in your life.

We just hope both teams have fun. ESPECIALLY... well, we all know which one <3 #superbowl #SuperBowl60 #havefun

You've done a lot this week. Please accept this picture of a sleeping baby bunny.

Of course- privacy matters.

Most people know about fight or flight responses, but did you know fawn and freeze are also responses to stressful, traumatic, or frightening events? Understanding your own reactions can help make sense of your feelings when something happens around you.

Hope grows even in the darkest places. Find your light.

Operation Safe Escape has an important mission- to help survivors of abuse and trafficking escape and stay safe. But we can't do it alone. This Giving Tuesday, be the hero someone need right now. 100% of donations support survivor safety. safeescape.org/help/donate/

Just a reminder: Your voice matters. Your feelings matter. You matter.

When reviewing your digital devices, start by checking which accounts and apps are logged in. Remove any access you do not recognize and change passwords to something you've never used before. A strong password should not be based on personal details that someone else could easily guess.

It's been a long week. How's everyone doing today?

Do any of these look familiar? Abuse isn't always physical and doesn't always leave bruises. By understanding how abusers try to maintain power and control, you can see the signs before they escalate. Your safety matters.

Fun fact, before Operation Safe Escape shifted it's mission to focus entirely on helping survivors of intimate partner violence, stalking and harassment, and trafficking, we were an educational org called OSPA, focusing on Operations Security (OPSEC) going back to 2004. This image is from one of our

first conferences. We've focused our mission, but still use the same concepts and resources for safety and escape planning today. We're proud of our history, and proud to have evolved into what we are today.

Today, we like to reflect on the things we're thankful for. We're thankful for the amazing people that trust us to help them stay safe. We're thankful for the heroes that volunteer their time to make it all possible. We're thankful for the support of people like you. Happy Thanksgiving.

Security tip: Regularly update your phone and computer software. Security updates are designed to patch vulnerabilities that could expose your information. Keeping your devices current is one of the simplest and most effective ways to improve digital safety.

This is what love looks like. Your partner should always make you feel loved, respected, and safe.

You deserve safety without conditions, peace without fear, and kindness without pain. These are not dreams or distant hopes, they are your rights as a human being. Hold on to your truth. #safety #peace #love

The steps may be small at times, but they are still progress. Celebrate each one.

Protect your identity with better password practices, strong passwords, MFA, and smart habits for safer online accounts.

Therapy helps survivors heal—court use of mental health records is rare, and confidentiality is strongly protected. Dispelling Myths Regarding Mental Health Treatment and the Court System

Stalkerware is a serious threat to privacy and safety, often used in domestic violence situations to monitor and control victims. It's essential to be aware of the signs, like unexpected battery drain or unusual activity on your device. If you suspect someone is using stalkerware against you, seek h

Help Us Help Them Save Lives Your support is vital. By donating today, you empower our mission to provide essential aid to those in need. Together, we can create a brighter future and save lives. Click the link to donate: safeescape.org/help/donate/ Every contribution saves lives. Thank you for y

🌟 Make a Difference Today! 🌟 Join us in creating a brighter future. Every donation, big or small, helps us change lives. Be the hero someone needs—donate now! safeescape.org/help/donate/ #GiveBack #ChangeMakers #SpreadLove

@safeescape.org is on the leaderboard at mygivingcircle.org/operation-sa... A vote can be as little as $1 and can result in help for some folks going through the worst time of their lives.

Hi everyone! Share with the fam as you deem fit ))) We are working with a company called MyGivingGroup to share a $500k grant. We can also use your support in voting just as much, and it doesn't cost anything. Go here, and vote for us please 🙂 mygivingcircle.org/operation-sa...

Friends... we won. TN HB315 was rejected by committee. While strong and healthy relationships- to include marriage- is something that should be celebrated, we can't give abusers additional tools to perpetuate the cycle. Our work is far from done, but together we can make a difference.

🚨🚨 URGENT. Action Needed 🚨🚨 A critical bill is being voted on Tuesday by the Tennessee Children & Family Affairs Subcommittee, and we need YOUR voice to ensure the safety and well-being of vulnerable children and families! wapp.capitol.tn.gov/apps/Committ...

We're excited to announce Alyssa Miller as the ProtectCon 2025 keynote speaker. Her experiences and insights will make a major difference to the domestic violence advocates and allies in the audience. Learn more at protectcon.org

Some great speakers lined up for ProtectCon 2025! Still time to get free tickets over at protectcon.org (and see the rest of the lineup!)

For all those who love an #AdventCalender at #Christmas please watch this powerful video by @philbeastall.bsky.social please share with as many as possible. I do not have the followers here so will ask others to. Please also add links to #WomenSupport groups. #BrightSky www.mnafeasa.com

We just heard about this thing called "clickbait" and apparently it's all the rage. So we figured we'd give it a shot. Anyway, just a reminder that there's only a few hours left to make a tax-deductible donation to Operation Safe Escape in 2024! Donate here (please): safeescape.org/help/donate

An open letter to all of our volunteers, partners, and allies. We couldn't do it without you. And to you, our supporters and friends- thank you. Your support means more than you know. May your day be filled with happiness and joy. #HappyThanksgiving

Time to be chaotic good

Learn about the legal and practical considerations for recording conversations as a survivor of abuse. This guide covers state laws, safety tips, and how to use recordings effectively while protecting your privacy and safety. safeescape.org/recording-co...

The Crow soundtrack didn't need to be as good as it was. But we're all better off for it.

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