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looks like astroseek got an update. has anyone else noticed?

today.

tbh i hate being called miss. ma’am will do.

i hate how reddit is forcing me to use the app on my phone (even though it’s already downloaded 🙄).

with the venus-pluto opposition exacting tomorrow (6/17), it’s a great time to be mindful of boundaries, whether it be creating them, enforcing them, or being made of aware of someone else’s

oh my goodness, what a beautiful piece. i’m getting choked up 🥹

Can somebody explain to me why the rule is "if you can't make rent, cut out the streaming apps, lattes, and avocado toasts" but it's never "if you can't afford your workers a living wage, cut out the mega-yachts, rockets, and spaceships."

connecting w ppl on here and then seeing that they deleted their account months later sucks. i know ppl gave their reasons and i wanted to say goodbye.

everything costs one hundred dollars except an hour of your work

Just a reminder, the company you work for does not care about you. You could drop dead today while working and they will replace you in a short amount of time. I say this only because we collectively need to stop giving these companies all of our energy even when we’re off the clock.

i’m so bummed when artists misuse alt text or don’t even try. no repost for you.

i’m realizing that my friends aren’t changing. i’m changing. thus, the dynamics change.

i listened to this and oof, I cannot recommend it enough. in this essay, my friend talks about the plight of being a plus-sized asexual Black woman. more specifically she talks about the vertigo-like experiences of being desexualized and hyper-sexualized at the same time. my thoughts are below. 1/

loving people.

It is literally a #BlueSkyMonday Though I took this photo last week. I learned this type of cloud is called "mare's tail," for obvious reasons.

Knowing who to be mad at is part of the work. So is not adding to the confusion.

i hate that i still manage my mothers stress, even though i try to let it be her problem

i haven’t used tiger balm since i was on line 10 years ago 🙃

i don't have anyone to go to juneteenth festivities with. booo. 😔

i don't want to make any more friends who are not curious about me. no judgement. i just don't have the capacity.

if anyone else would like to talk about their journey with asexuality and listen to mine, lmk!

understanding my attractions while having an atypical relationship to sexual attraction specifically has been quite the ride.

damn, i do like old niggas.

i’ve been briefly interacting with men who have a gentle vibe about them. it’s lovely and confusing af.

hanging out with someone who sees me has me feeling on top of the world.

The patriarchy is why gossip has a negative connotation on it. Literally saves us, children, the community SO MUCH! Daphne: He will only deny it. Who will believe a group of women over a man's word?? Violet: Perhaps no one.... but they will if LW does. So we shall do what women do, we shall TALK.

oh that’s why ppl are doing fireworks. for reference, i’m in the midwest.

shera is pulling cards on yt lololol, when did this start?

i feel like a pot boiling over and no one is home. the food is burning the bottom of the pot.

bc i struggle with loneliness, i put a lot of weight into hangouts that may not have the same level of gravity for other folks. that’s okay.

my internal rage has a hair-like trigger

wtf they wanna change plans! well the time… u know in the grand scheme of things, it’s not a big deal… i’m just tired of accommodating everyone, when no one will bother to accommodate me

i know things will get better one day.

i’m glad i don’t have to work juneteenth. thinking about going to the festivities, but id probably end up going alone which i just can’t take right now. im also not trying to be stuck in the house…

this may sound fucked up, but sometimes i wish i could trade being nonbinary and queer if it meant i could feel more connected to others in this life.

what makes it worse is that i was a good student and did all the things right, so now i feel like a failure in other ppls eyes. i was also destined to be different. i was just hellbent in conforming for the first 25 years of my life.

I need folks to stop being too embarrassed to admit they were wrong, because the shit y'all be doing instead of that is way more pathetic.

my friends’ adhd (forgetfulness/out of sight, out of mind) is so triggering as a person who often feels unwanted :( i genuinely don’t know what to do. i’ve shared about this and that i know it’s not personal, but it still hurts. im open to responses.

looking forward to reading laverne cox’s memoir! i’m pretty far down on the waitlist, but that’s okay.

i struggle to cook and listen to podcasts, doing them at the same time helps.

i’m starting a running list of mercury rx things since the shadow period started yesterday. this should be interesting.

is this why i’m single? lmao

i love being both asexual and lesbian

i just ate a baked potato after barely eating today. progress.

i’m realizing how much i’m masking internally. maybe this is just dissociation.

so often, i feel like i have no reflection.

i still struggle to “be myself.”

i’m tired of not having close relationships. doing life alone is exhausting.