WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work Day 12: What does consent mean to me outside of sex — in my friendships, work, and daily life?

WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work Day 11: Who modeled (or didn’t model) sexual communication for me growing up?

WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work Day 10: How do I self-soothe after intimacy that doesn’t feel good or aligned?

WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work Day 9: In what ways has trauma shaped how I show up sexually? What parts of me are ready to soften or release?

WEEK 2: Touch, Trust & Trauma healing, sexual self-awareness, boundaries, and trust work Day 8: What are my current sexual boundaries, and are they rooted in fear, care, or both?

WEEK 1: Rooted in the Body reconnecting to self, grounding, and body awareness Day 7: What does safety look, sound, and feel like before, during, and after intimacy?

1st #TalkMeThroughItTuesday of 2026! Now let's get to the nitty gritty... When is the first time y'all watched porn? What has your porn journey been like since you started? Do you still watch? How has your experience been? You can also share privately via the IG story question.

WEEK 1: Rooted in the Body reconnecting to self, grounding, and body awareness Day 6: How do stress, trauma, or grief show up in your sensuality or desire?

#Sexuary Day 3 ❤️

GET TESTED! But not just for STIs!

WEEK 1: Rooted in the Body reconnecting to self, grounding, and body awareness Day 5: Write a love letter to a body part you’ve struggled to accept.

WEEK 1: Rooted in the Body reconnecting to self, grounding, and body awareness Day 4: What’s one belief about sex or the body you inherited that no longer serves you?

WEEK 1: Rooted in the Body reconnecting to self, grounding, and body awareness Day 3: Name a moment you felt deeply at home in your body. What made that moment possible?

Hey Kinfolk, We're prioritizing our sexual health all 2026 & beyond, you hear me! I'm sick and tired of my people being impacted by state-sponsored ignorance (lack of quality sex ed) and reproductive oppression that cuts our lives too short and/or doesn't honor our authenticity.

WEEK 1: Rooted in the Body reconnecting to self, grounding, and body awareness Day 2: How does my body ask for care, rest, or touch — and how often do I listen?

Hey Kinfolks and Happy New Year! I thought it was time I reintroduce myself that way we're all on the same page. SWW is for Black folks and our allies (please act like y'all have some sense or at the very least home training) seeking truth, joy, and justice around sex, pleasure, and body autonomy.

WEEK 1: Rooted in the Body reconnecting to self, grounding, and body awareness Day 1: What does pleasure mean to me today? How has that meaning shifted over time?

Happy New Year’s Eve, kinfolk! Starting January 1st, we’re kicking off "SEXUARY". This is a 31-day guided journal experience all about slowing down, softening up, and turning inward. This month, we're reflecting, reimagining, and reconnecting with our eroticism.

Trans Day of Remembrance is a solemn day to honor trans, nonbinary, and gender-diverse lives lost to violence, suicide, and systemic erasure.

Before the heartbreaks and “healing eras,” there was Black puppy love. That flutter when somebody wrote your name in bubble letters. <3 That anticipation that came from sending your homegirl over to see if your crush liked you back.

We honor the women, queer folks, poor people, and disabled folks who were experimented on, sterilized, or denied choice. Their survival made our access possible. And we acknowledge that birth control isn’t the enemy. Control is.

It's been a birth control heavy week, and I love that for us! Today's post goes into the different types of birth control, where you can find them, and how birth control fits into the politics of it all.

Today, I'm wondering about birth control. I'm looking for the good, the bad, and the ugly. Which options work for you? Which absolutely did not? What have you heard about birth control? Do you have conversations about it with your people?

The Julians remind us that Black brilliance built the foundations of reproductive and hormonal science AND fought to keep those tools from being weaponized against us. They represent the duality of Black liberation work: innovation and protection, creation and resistance.

Listen this weekend is going to be rough for too many people, especially knowing that it didn't have to be like this. This is an intentional act of violence by our government.

Since we're talking about Hoodoo superstitious I thought I'd share some more of my fam bams. I talked about these before a couple years back but why not run it back? #HoodoHeritageMonth

Happy #HoodooHeritageMonth  Hoodoo Heritage Month is a month-long observance of the Hoodoo folk tradition, a Black American spiritual practice with roots in African traditions, observed in October. Now I don't think Monaleo's, "Sexy Soulaan" could've come at t a better time!

Hey Kinfolks! I love y'all real bad, and I want y'all to be around for as long as I can get you. In order for us to have pleasurable sex lives we have to care about our sexual and reproductive health. They are intrinsically connected.

Every era ushers in a new bush board of trims, bald fades, and personalized designs. Recently, this is crossing gender lines which highlights shifting gender norms. Our personal upkeep is our prerogative however we must acknowledge the influences by gender scripts, consumerism, and culture.

Fatphobia doesn't just rob fat folks of pleasure; it ensures that all who hold it in their hearts rob ourselves of shame-free sex. Pleasure is political and when we decolonize our desire we tap in to sexual resistances in a way that bring everyone closer to sexual satisfaction.

Rest in power, Miss Major. Your life is a testament to endurance, brilliance, and the possibility of change. Your legacy lights the path for so many. We continue, because you showed us how.

Honoring Michael ‘D’Angelo’ Archer 🕊️ Today I want to take a moment to honor the life and legacy of D'Angelo. He was such a gifted artist, taken from us too soon. I uplift his artistry while reckoning with the harms he faced in this world

#TalkMeThroughItTuesday I have nothing to back this up but I KNOW that there has to be some Black specific kinks out there. There are fetishes that focus on hair so why wouldn't there be for Black hair styles, you know?

On this Indigenous Peoples’ Day, I commit to: 1) Centering Indigenous voices and leadership in conversations about reproductive justice 2) Supporting (by listening, donating, partnering) Indigenous-led birth and healing initiatives (Continued...)

Hey kinfolk! With everything going on in the world we need to rally around each other! If you got it and care to share, let’s show up for Alexa and her family. https://f.mtr.cool/qiddtinwyh

Abuse is about power and control. And when you live under systems that already criminalize your survival (like being Black, queer, undocumented, disabled, or in the informal economy) those same systems become the abuser’s tools. #DVAM

A while ago I was told that someone traveled to another state for care (abortion is illegal in TN) and they went to an anti abortion center. This was a terrible experience for them as they were misled and emotionally coerced the entire time. For that reason I want to share how to spot an AAC.

The Reproductive Justice framework doesn’t change because you don’t like someone. Policing the womb due to paternalism & policing the womb due to hatred is STILL policing the womb. It’s not RJ as long as they’re “respectable”. Pregnant people are under attack & the allies sound a lot like the ops.

My dating profile should just read, “I am not a woman of god. I’m a woman the church fears and that mortal men pay their tithes and offerings to.”

Everyone swears they hate conservative values until it’s time to police the wombs of women of color. Hypocrisy much 😒 #CardiB

#IGAfterDark okay I tried to censor these as best as possible to share with y'all without being flagged by socials but let's see how it goes 🥴...

We've got a couple more days left of #analaugust so I might as well squeeze in another tip... but don't worry, it's just the tip 😜

The #WrapUp  Happy Saturday kinfolks. I hope the weekend is treating you well. If it's not at least maybe this can bring you a good time.

Happy #AnalAugust  I hope y'all have a good weekend, and maybe get a lil sum sum while you're at it.

Y’all want republicans to lose so bad that you’re willing to consistently throw disabled and poor ppl under the bus by literally any means necessary. It’s disgusting. This is not a pro facism post. This is a please reckon with the ways the left is supporting eugenics

In 1966, Masters & Johnson published the 1st sexual response cycle based on observations of sexual responsivity during partnered & solo sexual activities. They found that sexual response was divided into 4 phases: excitement, plateau, orgasm, & resolution. These 4 phases happened in a linear way,.

Today is Southern HIV/AIDS Awareness Day #SHAAD It was created to address the unique challenges facing The South, particularly the Deep South. This region experiences higher rates of HIV along with lower PrEP use. The reason… poverty, systemic racism, lack of health coverage, and stigma.

Yesterday, I read, “The Marketability of Black Joy: After “I Do” in Black Romance Film” by Simone Drake. lnkd.in/eKrcYxMA

You look happier. Thanks I masturbated. 🥰