DISCOURSE - dashare.zone ADMIN

I'm massively cutting down on the number of vrc accounts I follow for my own mental health. It's not personal and anyone who wants to unfollow back that's totally fine. I want to engage with people more directly and not through social media profiles. We can still be friends I promise.

Some thoughts on grief, community, and moving on.

I've received a lot of good advice from some smarter friends so I want to distill this one down for those who need it: You don't need to immediately form an opinion from incomplete information. You are allowed to take as long as you need to process it. You are allowed to say "I don't know."

I've received a lot of good advice from some smarter friends so I want to distill this one down for those who need it: You don't need to immediately form an opinion from incomplete information. You are allowed to take as long as you need to process it. You are allowed to say "I don't know."

I wanna circle back to this. I am a cis man. I thought I might be agender because frankly all the discussions I've seen of masculinity do not match how I feel. There aren't very many good discussions of masculinity or being a man out there that don't enforce toxic gender norms. (cont)

It should also not be necessary for me to say this, but the moment you use violence that was done someone to push an argument or agenda, all you look like is a fucked up individual. Have some respect instead of using someone's trauma to back up your nonsense or elevate yourself you piece of shit.

The best way you can offer others grace (and, truly, yourself) is to just listen with the intent to understand. We all have to do a *lot* more listening, I think.

Using this to shield me from the curses making their way around the scene

If you have partners that drink you should probably take a moment to consider how that can affect consent.

Finally got my computer hooked up in my new room and I'm just staring at my base stations trying to decide if it's even worth putting them up.

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Sometimes you just gotta walk through Trader Joe's and put everything in your cart that has the potential to give you dopamine.

I see we've hit the "I saw a club called drunk anime titties use an AI poster" part of the discourse cycle

The eventual Brandon FM video on VR prostitutes where he tries to pick up VR sex workers is gonna send me into orbit.

Pre-VRCDN this was prevalent in the scene! Everyone streamed through twitch and there were a lot more “Twitch DJ” types around, so people just used their systems to tip. Not unheard of for busy slot weekend DJs to take home a hundred bucks during a set. Worth VRC themselves replicating someday IMO.

I am never too old for high school drama come at me

I only lost 3 followers with this I'm doubling down

Is there a buttplug version of this

youtu.be/9F8K9mL-UwA I don't got a quip or some pithy platitude for this just watch it

If you put 5000K lightbulbs in your living room you should be shot.

Log off. Find your local farmers market. Pet a dog. Buy some flowers. Compliment a stranger. Your humanity is closer than you think.

TFW everyone starts catching on to some shit you've known for a while and you can stop being civil about it

The world is shit and people are awful... But with these products and services your life doesn't have to be!

Heartbreaking: person you thought was totally normal is an absolute nightmare on social media.

The YouTube AI summary feature kind of feels like it completely fucks up how YouTube makes money. Someone posts clickbait like "the secret they don't want you to know" and instead of watching 20 minutes with 4 adbreaks you can just click the AI summary and learn the "secret" in 10 seconds.

Why yes i did eat a slice of cheese and pickle for dinner why do you ask

You will not take my security deposit kiwi Not for this

Shout out to all my trans and nb friends for helping me navigate my feelings around gender in a society where I feel almost a visceral disgust to men and masculinity. I've been slowly disentangling myself from the gender expectations I was raised with and having yalls thoughts is super helpful.

nothing a dynamic eq, de-esser, multiband compressor, soothe3, proQ5, lowpass filter, soothe4, spectral expander, mspectral dynamics, pitchmap, fabfilter saturn dynamics knob 100%, melda mpreg, rendering to m4p and deleting the project file can't solve

There are definitely a lot of things in the world now that aren't positive, for sure, but I'm tired of every happy or hopeful or optimistic thought I share being treated like it's an invitation to argue with me about why I shouldn't actually be feeling that way.

On paper things are great. So why do I feel like this

I feel like the terrors of the current everything are undermined by how people talk about things online. I'd already be living in my bunker if i listened to people on this app.

Realizing this may have been the wrong wording to send to a woman on facebook market place trying to buy our patio table and chairs.

I think I need to stop trying to justify myself and my choices to people. I am who I am. I like what I like. If you don't understand it, it's your problem not mine.

I made cookies :3333

Lifehack: you can park in veteran's parking if you used to play CoD.

Thank you for the great adhesive hooks with your vr cable pulleys, kiwi design

bsky now allows 300mb videos to be uploaded. Let's see how it handles this raw I took from this week's job (oh I just had my first REAL hired exclusively to do FPV gig these past few days and I'm still riding the high about it, went great)

artists.landr.com/willohrecovery Recovery is out on platforms! It's not available on Spotify, despite the fact that it shows up there for some dumbass reason. LANDR has done this to me twice. It's not on Spotify, nor will it be on Spotify. If you click that link it'll take you to something else.

SIDEWINDA IS OUT IN THE WILD. PEEP 4 NEW TUNES ON WUBAHOLICS AND TELL ME WHICH ONE IF YOUR FAVORITE.

Xavier Becerra fuckin sucks good job California

calirornia voters boldly asked “could we get a governor worse than gavin newsom” and they discovered yes, easily

To my fellow Californians: GO FUCKING VOTE.

Sometimes I get sad that very unlikeable people don't like me.

Everytime an FL user switches to Ableton because it's "better" I laugh a little.

New Boards of Canada is the best album in years and is up there with their best works. Might be their best tbh.

I don't mean to offend anyone but your shit sucks and you're doing it wrong fuck you ♥️

Having access to effectively infinite consumption has broken a lot of people's brains and ruined their ability to truly connect with a piece of art.

I realize this is going to handicap my reach but moving forward I will be unchecking the distro box for Spotify for any self releases. The small amount of discovery I get from their garbage service isn't worth it.