The real question is, who’s trying to play Switch online together?

You all should definitely meet your mutuals! It’s so much fun. In 2023, I met TikTok mutuals in Phoenix, OKC, LA, and Philly! I love just have good conversations with good people and meeting them! I even gave them all little gifts! It was so cute!

If anybody else a catfish, go ahead and deactivate that account or be honest then apologize to the people. Don’t keep hurting people because of your insecurities or worse, for your own entertainment.

If you’ve enjoyed or been inspired by the work we’ve done this year for #WeAllWeGot — please consider leaving a gift 🤗 I put a lot of effort into building this community and hosting these events this year, so any monetary donations are greatly valued! I appreciate y’all ☺️✨ You can donate here 👇🏾👇🏾👇🏾

You are so much more than the negative thoughts in your head. You are so much more than the negative thoughts in your head. You are so much more than the negative thoughts in your head. You are so much more than the negative thoughts in your head.

Finally finished this poinsettia Lego set. Unc Christmas activities in full effect! ❤️💚

Have y'all ever thought about all the additional maintenance and care that would come with having wings?

Here’s my answer:

Your affirmation for today.

Safety. In fact, emotional safety is my current top non-negotiable in all my relationships right now period. If I don’t feel safe with you, or if my nervous system feels “off” in any way when it comes to you, it’s a wrap beloved.

Who can say that I’ve been changed for the better?

Welp. Admitted to my crush that I liked him.😬🫣

Taking nudes for guys <<<<<<< Taking nudes for you and deciding if/when you wanna share them with others >>>>>>>

A very large majority of the time I just think you look nice and I’m 100% ok with forming a friendship

Oh. So this is all of y’all?

Good morning! I don’t know who’s experiencing dating woes and needs to hear this, but I wanted you to keep this in mind when you (inevitably) experience real or perceived rejection while attempting to build relationships.

Right. I also want to add that you shouldn’t internalize (or externalize) when people don’t get you for whatever reason. You are still valid even when you feel rejected, and just because you feel rejection, doesn’t make the other person bad or evil. Sit with the discomfort then let it go. 🫶🏾

So, call me Savoya because i want this type of desire too shit lol

This a safe space? Getting removed from my thesis, bit by like ten bugs, being told I was incapable of doing well and I was a shitty student, and my family aggressively misgendering me all at once. I did overcome it, but it was ROUGH. Lots of tears. I’m ready to graduate in the spring real bad lol.

I did. Damn. The hurt that man had in his voice. The evidence of people’s faces getting played in having phone calls with a fake person. Damn. This is really sad. Plus the thievery of pictures and flat out web of lies. So crazy.

I feel like a real hug would heal so many people right now

Oh wait. You’re so right! People could have sent pics, personal info, or literally anything in confidence and now, who knows what they’re doing with it. Damn. I hate this for the community :/

There is a conversation around desirability and the photos people use to catfish because the catfisherman knows it will garner the most attention

Idk if y’all seen it, but this whole thing is lowkey giving “The Circle” from Netflix.

The catfish saga is so tea. I forget people real life do that shit 💀 I’m really sorry for the people who were interacting with both confirmed (and potential) fakes tho.

“When someone doesn’t know you super well, but they have formed an opinion of you, it’s because you represent something in their psyche. Their opinion of you is a projection, but it tells you everything you need to know about what you represent.” - Kitty Knorr on TikTok

Okay, but who’s going to be the BlueSky Max and Nev now?

But in all seriousness I’m sending a big hug to the people who had put their trust into that person and developed some sort of connection. I can’t imagine what you’re feeling, but I have an idea. So, take the time to recognize and allow what you’re feeling and then give yourself some rest

Shoutout to all the sweet guys out there 🥰 I miss you 😘

I think often people frame the prude/sexual dichotomy as if there’s one right way to be. The “right” way to find your own comfortable to exist in your sexuality and accept yourself fully, while not judging other for being more or less sexual than you. Then find people who match your level of freak

Idk if I’m alone in this, but like I see someone attractive then I almost immediately wonder who they are. Like you’re sexy. I’d definitely be open to fucking, but like. Who are you?

Do gay men have a higher tolerance to the possibility of being objectified than I do? Do some gay men enjoy being objectified?

I love sex, flirting, and good banter, I do. It’s just, I’ve been objectified to the point that it makes me wanna crawl out of my skin and be sexless. I just resent the idea that my sex appeal and body are what gives me value when interacting with men. There’s literally so much more to me.

You know, I do love the way that many of you value someone’s person in addition to their sexual being and not separate. Some will be sexy one day and sad the other, and you show up for them and engage on both days. It seems basic, but if that’s you, I think you’re dope. I’d date someone like that.

For others: Do what’s most comfortable and find partners who match that. For me: You can share as you want. You can ask at any time, but I’m probably going to tell you to just come experience this body live. 🤭 Requests are more comfortable when asked cleverly with tact + trust has been developed.

I’ve had two this year. One was with a man in Baltimore who showed me around a couple of bars and we watched Superman. The other was in the Phillipines. We walked alongside the beach at night, had some drinks, talked Beyoncé and kissed.

I date to learn and experience a person. There’s beauty in enjoying the moment and being present. My end goal would be a LTR. Doesn’t have to end in marriage, but I’m open to it. However, if we find we could genuinely be friends too, I’m open to that also. Dating to build meaningful connections!

Four different hairstyles. It’s been a busy year! I really wanna bring back the long hair some day lol

They say rejection is redirection! If it doesn’t work out how you want, now you know. Accept it. Move on. Now you’re ready for the next! Best case scenario, it does! And now you’re in the process of entering your next relationship!

I’ll always respect someone for shooting their shot. It may not always land, but you did that. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 You better speak up for yourself and go for what you want — and that’s for life in general.

I wonder how much pessimism tied together with the self-fulfilling prophecy negatively affects dating. While heartbreak is real and discernment is necessary, if everyone is jaded and has a negative view on all of their dating prospects, how will any relationship ever occur?

I need yall to start linking up, I don’t see too many gay couples on here & ion like det

Optimism without action is delusion.

Who else sees someone attractive, and you’re like, “That’s great. I love that. But who are you?”

Does anybody else have the urge to speak Spanish (or another language they’ve learned) when they’re a little tipsy?

What’s a romantic fantasy that you have?

My mom and Aunty said they liked my haircut. So I guess I could share with y’all too? 🤭

Literally. I’d be so sick if I posted something sexy, it got no likes, only creeps enjoyed it, strangers have my shit saved, and I don’t get to decide who jerks to me. Not to mention the potentials of perpetual objectification and not being taken as seriously in dating. It is VERY courageous.

I will! I’ll love that nigga right on back too. Hey nigga! 👋☺️