What’s your fave posish?

Bondage. Corporal. Edge Play. Since 2004

Just throwing on straps every which way but loose!

What do you think happened next?

I do love a pair of heels with a red bottom!

Happy Locktober to all those who observe!

Tell them you’ll be tied up this evening

Had a demoralizing experience recently that I should’ve seen coming (because it’s happened before) but I still got suckered. I was commiserating about it with a friend who’d gone through something similar.

As I toil away at my own website refresh, I’m thinking a lot about what makes a great site. What are your favorite provider websites? Ones that reinvent the form, stand out, are functionally flawless, or have successfully compelled you to book? (Feel free to nominate your own!)

Sometimes I look at dommes’ gear wishlists and I just wanna tell them: Noooo! Don’t ask for that. It’s a shit piece of gear/great idea, poor execution/you will NEVER use it after the first time/get it MTM not OTR. Usually I mind my business. Should I?

While there are certainly many who’ve come and gone over the years, it does make me really happy to know there are also many who’ve stuck around long enough for us to really know each other and build a play dynamic that continues to surprise and satisfy.

Keeping you in place for whatever happens next. (Also loving my in-studio audience of headgear here!)

Sometimes I feel self-conscious (or just pretentious) describing myself as a bondage artist. And then I pull off something like this: restrictive, structured, effective-yet-beautiful and remember the joy I had making it, how it made him feel …and it kinda sums up art for me

BOSTON! NEW YORK! DENVER! I’m coming for you. Will you come for me? Denver May 20-21 New York June 10-17 Boston June 29-July 1 Very limited availability. Get in touch via my website to reserve your spot.

Caption this!

This is what I always say about my spring suspension! Absolutely the most relaxing, meditative, restorative experience. Everyone should try it. Truly.

I would appreciate this very much!

One of the things that’s coming up as I go through this pictures is that not *everyone* I see is a heavy bondage player. About ~15% are men who appreciate a little bondage, but mostly come for connection, touch, and a safe, sensual space to surrender.

Going through my photos folders. There may be many more of these pictures I can’t resist posting.

Before … and after

Is it the chill in the studio that makes his nipples so hard?

Hit a #wordle milestone today. (For the record, two of my one guess games were legit. The other was an early app/web glitch)

Let me look at you

New photos coming

Studies in restraint

In case you haven’t heard …

Mmm. New platform. Same name. Let’s go.