I know she will call herself hard to love before she calls you cruel

I never really learn, do I? Why do I love avoidants so much?

I'm usually so negative here but right now I just want to dump how grateful I am for my friends and their efforts of making me feel so loved and cared for

I don't think cis men could ever understand how detrimental being "neutral" is to sex offenders. They've never felt like everyone is against your mere existence and it shows

"Date cancelled? Let me take you out on that date instead then, look pretty💚" oh my god I love my friends

Also the fun of vagueposting is not really knowing who I'm talking about a few months later because I have goldfish brain and it's probably some kind of insignificant man anyway

Prolly boyriod brain talking but damn I want them to really mean it when they say they wanna spend quality time with me, not just out of "convenience"

Forever jumping between "why won't they meet with me for the sole reason of wanting to meet me" and "they're making time between their busy schedule just to meet me" 💀 I never seem to learn my lesson

I fucking hate being in luteal phase and have PMDD. What the fuck do you mean I wanna kms after every minor inconvenience

Having a large capacity to love means that I also have a large capacity to grief; for grief is an abundance of love with nowhere to go.

I don't crash out after one mistake. If i crash out, you made multiple mistakes in succession. Reflect for once

I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this I hate this

Man, they're really married now. Happy for them💚 can't believe they're the second (or maybe even third?) couple I pushed to be together that ends up in marriage

Literally teaching men stuff you had to understand without anyone helping you when you were 7 years old

Arrrghhhhhhh I'm much more pissed about this than I thought I would be

Ultimately, I want to see you happy. If no one else could, of course I'd be elated to be the one who provides it. But my genuine care for you is far greater than my desire to be your special person. If someone else can fill that spot and you're happy with it, I wouldn't mind that at all.

i hope humans make it. The universe is practically a baby and I believe we're among the first capable life forms. All the hatred and fighting we do I believe is because we're in an awkward mid-evolution point having evolved from a very violent/territorial species. Sad I won't be able to see it fully

Though it's reciprocal; like any other relationship ever, platonic or romantic or familial

Hence the first post; if they have shown capabilities of being a responsible adult first and foremost, emotionally mature enough to know when to get serious and have a proper talk, then by all means babble away. Let me feed you and pet your head, good job on being an adult

As the certified man hater and the unfortunate victim of a manchild, it's not that I hate "mothering" them, in fact that part is enjoyable surprisingly It's really the irresponsibility and the entitlement that comes with the people who expects to be babied

Yeah, the more capable and responsible they are, the more I want to pamper and baby them

Life has been terrible lately, have some soup pics to cheer up

Men: WE NEED CLEAR COMMUNICATION Okay so will you get this thing for me? Also men: why are you being so direct? You're telling me what to do, are you using me for money? Why don't you ever buy ME stuff for once

Men: I want to help! It hurts me to see that I can never help you, you're too independent! So if I have this thing, it'd be super helpful and would take off the load for me Also men: ok, then get it

Kinda fucked up that my best ex, the kindest and the sweetest and the one who treated me the best was a "mama's boy". Woof and not the furry kind

Finally saw my ex's new gf's face............. I was happy for him until I realized she looks like his mom. We broke up because I sensed emotional incest. Um.................................

It is Wednesday my furs. Which also means it's just THREE DAYS to ANJAY! Are you excited for a night of fluffy fun and booty-shaking beats? To make sure the fun is fun for everyone, we do have a short Code of Conduct we should all be following, as we'll be sharing the space with other events.

Kemakan ragebait juga akhirnya. Pantes aja ga dapet pasangan, moga kontol lu tetanus 💥

I need a tapestry saying "can't reason with crazy" bc holy shit why are people so braindead nowdays

Word vomitting it all here because this isn't something my friends should deal with, I opened this can of worm myself and I already know it won't go well lmfao but it still got to me

All men are bad until proven wrong (me included)

Being a fuckin misandrist is always the right choice

Once again my gut feeling proven right about not liking someone. Why am I surprised again at this point, cishet guy not having empathy 🙄 I guess I expected better from a "curated" group

Told I'm the one who heated the "debate" when I just stated what countless evidence and research has seen, and repeatedly saying that it's my own perspective, while they blatantly say what I'm saying is wrong is CRAZY bro wtf

Toad Astrologer ⭐️🐸 I made it to #drawtober finally.

pink skies 💖☁️

They're just lil guys! 🐇🌿

Hiking 🌲 #hiking #outdoors #art

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I hate myself (reprise)

Holy shit if i had watched this 2 months ago I'd lose my shit.... I still lost my shit watching it now but a lot less. The exact same drink??

If I had a nickel for every time a romantic interest/romantic partner having their luggage not loaded into the flight after meeting me I'd have 2 nickles

The irony of saying "I hate that I'm always so hard on myself"

Oh wow I haven't self harmed in years! (Starves themselves) (Withheld myself from going to the bathroom if I haven't finished a task) (Eats food that will definitely have health concerns due to IBS) (Picks on "ingrown hair" on knees with needles)

I'm aware I'm toxic as shit for saying that but whatever this place is for me to dump all my awful thoughts I can't write anywhere else

I hate myself so much for allowing this to ever fucking happen and i do not deserve that kindness you gave me

At one point communicating becomes extremely exhausting and I don't know how to deal with that

I'm a failure and a mistake of a person. I keep making mistakes after mistakes after mistakes when I just want a fucking break. I just want ONE day

Squidgy is a nice word