Don’t know if I’ve shared this one here, so boom. Outrageous by Britney Spears.

If ya sexy and you know it, quote this with proof 🙂‍↕️

I remember one time in elementary school, this boy called me a faggot, so I told him that he and his entire family were made out of booboo. He went to the teacher crying and she had no sympathy for him. 😂😂😂

Monthly progress photo!

The older I get, the more I realize I’m not arguing about anything ever again.

You know, you can’t just do fucked up shit in relationships, apologize, and then turn around and do it again. Understanding the impact your actions had on others, genuinely repairing, and changing your behavior is needed. If these aren’t done, then trust is never restored.

Do I have any friends in ATL who are around this weekend? I’ve been invited down for a dance thing, and would love to see some friendly faces ☺️

Being a creative in a family full of academics is funny, because while I know they love and support me, I also know they haven't the slightest clue how my professional life works.

Hi so who is going to Danity Kane in Pittsburgh??

I am not a fan of D Woods’ hair!!!!

Whew, I love me some “Remove Follower” button on IG!

I'm really working on this whole "not over explaining myself" thing. I realize that is a habit borne out of being misunderstood, and trying to manage the emotions of others. It's hard to break, but I understand that it's not my job.

I have a friend I did a cruise contract with, she was in an abusive relationship during it, and she was just on fucking LOVE IS BLIND, and her husband is fine as SHIT. I know her ex is somewhere with heart palpitations, and I beam, because I remember him publicly humiliating her

I really love watching people glow up after they have been wronged by someone.

This man was tryna talk to me on 125th, and he was quite handsome, until I saw his dirty fingernails… I feel like if your fingernails are dirty, and that’s publicly visible, then what does your bedroom look like? What does your dick smell like? Do you scrape betwixt your toes?

Yep. Who you are as a partner is directly informative of who you are as a friend.

It’s a lot of DL men in Harlem, and they have been tryna be in my face lately

If you don’t have hand lotion to go with the hand soap in your bathroom, I am judging you. Allowing your guests to have dry hands?! Absolutely not.

There’s a special place in the hottest part of Hell reserved for Brian McKnight…

I feel that after taking one of those, farts sounds like the foghorn in the opening seconds of "Stronger" by Britney Spears.

I have learned about myself that, once I block someone, there's usually no turning back. I am very forgiving, to a fault sometimes (I'm working on that). So, me blocking someone is usually the result of being pushed and pushed and pushed, to the point where reconciliation just isn't possible.

I love the holidays!!!! It's such a beautiful time to love on your people, decorate, and be FESTIVE!

We put our tree up! I am getting emotional because I have not had a Christmas tree since high school. Still gotta add ornaments, but I am already so excited. I am finally living in abundance.

I love my cat so much. Even when he insists on sleeping on MY bed when he has his OWN *matching* one.

I have so much to do this weekend, and it’s cold out, so I just want to cancel everything.

Has anyone else gotten to the point where a "good morning beautiful" text doesn't really do much for them anymore?

I do not want to go outside!!!!!!!!!!

dingy white designer klan hoods on the horizon but let’s call this color what it is:

Girl not me getting picked up while walking home from the gym! This silver fox politely asked me out to lunch, I am impressed ☺️

It’s actually disrespectful

Bitch I just got hired to adjudicate dance competitions at the NATIONAL LEVEL. And not only that, but they want me to teach Heels master classes as well! WE GOING UP, JAY!

I feel like such an auntie, waking up and immediately putting on a vinyl so I can start straightening up around the house. You gotta take pride in your space!

homophobic people are fucking losers.

To straight men, Gay man=feminine and to many insecure men feminine=less than. It’s partly ingrained misogyny at work For straight men that view women as more than just baby makers and trophies, actually know femininity=strentgh, you’ll see that those are the ones that don’t trip off gayness

I don’t need to send paragraphs to people when they hurt me anymore. I don’t need to curse anyone out either. The polarizing experience of going from my baseline of warmth, to my surgical silence and energetic removal is way more powerful.

I am actually so grateful for the clarity that betrayal has brought me. I am now more discerning, and while my heart remains gentle, I am now more ruthless than ever in protecting it. I understand my worth now, and anything that even hints at undercutting that will get a swift BEWT.

I don’t have to work until Wednesdayyyy

Yessss! Congratulations!

Recently, I have been loving and utilizing the power of silence. If you do some bullshit to me? Silence is my answer. I am not explaining to anyone grown about how obviously harmful behaviors affect me. I simply take note, set a boundary for myself (not the other person), and move accordingly.

Hi!

Girl I’m bout to have to cuss somebody out tonight. I have worked hard not to have to be this nigga, but they bout to get it on tonight.

Okay so this really isn't bad. He could have taken off the gloves, cut off that fringe and lost the scarf, and it would have been just as, if not more effective.

People don't realize, she did a TURNING DIP in STRAPPY SANDALS. TWICE. That is unbelievably difficult. Go, Ms. Milian!

I called my aunts on Thanksgiving, and when they asked about Mom, I told them about us being in no contact. Aunt 1: "We support you. You need to have your boundaries." Aunt 2: "Just know that this is her shit, not yours. It's not your fault, so don't even go there." I love them so much!

up close.

This man is fine, professional, and empathetic. I would happily make him some Hamburga Helpah.

whewww a girl is DRONK

Ain't nobody upgrading phones no more like that. Pay it off and keep it just a like a car that's paid off.

I’ve seen a few people say if Blue Sky gets weird they’re gonna migrate to Threads and let me tell you something…Threads is WAYYYYYYY worse than you’re imagining 😭

This made me smile like a doofus! Thank you so much, happy holidays my love!