also i'm not even a man hater. i'm just very disappointed in the vast majority of them.

just one last note. my prescription sunglasses are so amazing. it's really disappointing how bad my eyes are now. like. this slow decline is just. am i just going to be blind because of age someday? seems like it.

i'm done for today online

switzerland you say.

i will say most every married guys i'm friends with, they are cool and good.

ugh i am so angry today

me to my friend: so like i never want to date again most men just seem to suck eventually and honestly if they were even at minimum doing a good job at sex there would not be a necessity for sex toys but so many exist for a reason.

it will be ok

im over here going why am i so sore from just getting four thirty plus pound lamb then i remembered just now i walked down 17 flights of stairs carrying a wagon also

accidental night working today but intentional tomorrow

im being terrorized

Voice to text is so terrible. I cannot believe that they put the money into AI and not just making voice to text actually work right

me, continuing to verify my vision is better with glasses man.. that's really disappointing

toby is wearing his christmas sweater (becasue I have not yet bought more for him) and it's cold outside!

lmao EVERYTHING IS TERRIBLE

in meeting: well it looks like the state has you down as their main point of contact me: uh i don't recall ever signing up for that but hey i really don't think i know all the things someone has put my name down for as the point of contact in charge

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idk but my bluesky feed is amazing and i just cackled out loud because i didnt understand one post and then i saw what the post was referencing and laughed even harder and i really should be asleep rn

so i think if i can i will try to get tix to bts for my daughter and i to go together.

i'm not going to expand on it online but, last night.. i had a dream! and i woke up and remembered it right after. it was a weird dream. not bad weird. just weird subject matter and interaction wise.

who the fuck WANTS their posts to go viral, have you ever had that actually happen? it's like getting a winning pull on a slot machine if wasps started pouring out the bottom instead of quarters

me: hey i might be a little bit late so could you drop the kids off at the house at the time we exchange them just in case im five minutes late like the gps says ex: *drops the kids off a half hour early*

so former fun guy and I donate food to some families in his area and Costco in Pentagon city had a really good deal on frozen lamb. It was a flat $60 coupon off any lamb with no limit of purchase so I went in and bought four

Since his socialist ideology was written out of the history books.. In his own words: "If America does not use her vast resources of wealth to end poverty and make it possible for all of God’s children to have the basic necessities of life, she too will go to hell." Happy MLK Day.

i must go to costco today.

lol did they bump up my score for the kk slider concert to happen because i swear you had to be five stars before?

found a pair of sweatpants i had forgotten about and am so happy because now i can wear sweatpants while i do my other sweatpant laundry

other people: *posts sexy selfies* me:

i know it's weird for me to have watched the last season of fringe before starting over but i felt like i needed to do that

heh how upset were you to learn september was sort of hot.

the nice thing about animal crossing is you do what you want there is no requirement to do anything and you aren't going to die or get stuck on two gym ghosts with a pita dynamic that you probably could do better with another person but you don't have another person to help with it

blah the tv i was considering doesn't have great reviews which is sadface

eager to get back into the stalk market

i decided not to go to dimsum because i have a wee order otw and once it's here

might treat myself to dimsum for lunch but that restaurant is like a faraday cage so lol no live sharing

If you're looking for a sign to switch careers: this is the sign.

me: dont worry i am just going out for a hair appointment i will be back just snooze and rest ok? ill be back before you know it! a totally normal conversation with my dog

assembling my 2026 soundtrack

proud of me for treating my sidewalk and tiny driveway yesterday so today it would be clear and shovel unnecessary

ICE actions are not a radical break but an intensification and extension of bipartisan consensus on the need for punitive immigration policy. Since its post-9/11 creation, people have warned that the tools given to ICE would eventually be turned on citizens.

you dont get to create the problem and then pretend you will provide the solution to the problem you created in the first place why is everyone letting this continue

sorry to my bestie who i think i just sent like twenty instagram posts and reels

i am not a swiftie but i am emo over this behind the scenes

it's supposed to snow more tomorrow!

Listen. No other words needed. #ChoosePeaceNotChaos

my children are all on board with my putting a tv in my bedroom so now i just have to measure and decide on a size.

anyhow i have spent a really lovely day doing things but also not doing things and taking toby for walks.

doesn't seem like anyone working with luther has a long life ahead of them

i feel like we need this today, well i do.

If you know people who are on the fence about abolishing ICE or defunding the police, I wrote a longish explainer covering how the cops don't really solve crimes, poverty correlates strongly with crime, and holding that protests are essential to rights: www.ashokkarra.blog/on-policing-...