Sam Dylan Finch
@samdylanfinch.bsky.social
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🌻 living, laughing, ADHD-ing 💌
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The things we do for community. Let’s gooooo!! 🏳️🌈
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22 days ago
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“Now they’re taking up a lot of space speaking on trans issues on TikTok.” Phew. Let’s unpack this. ⤵️
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I Think My Friend is a Transtrender. What Do I Do? - Let's Queer Things Up!
Everyone has the right to explore who they are and let their journey unfold, even if it’s messy.
https://letsqueerthingsup.com/2025/11/30/friend-is-a-transtrender/
2 months ago
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“Now they’re taking up a lot of space speaking on trans issues on TikTok.” Phew. Let’s unpack this. ⤵️
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I Think My Friend is a Transtrender. What Do I Do? - Let's Queer Things Up!
Everyone has the right to explore who they are and let their journey unfold, even if it’s messy.
https://letsqueerthingsup.com/2025/11/30/friend-is-a-transtrender/
2 months ago
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Jess (they/them)
10 months ago
Sharing this excellent post by
@samdylanfinch.bsky.social
around the questions to ask when you are looking for a new therapist or coach...a lot of us queer neurodivergent folx have experienced harm in lieu of help in therapeutic relationships.
letsqueerthingsup.com/2025/04/06/t...
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3 Key Questions to Ask a New Therapist or Coach
"I experienced a harmful therapy relationship a few years back... I can't help but wonder if I asked the right questions."
https://letsqueerthingsup.com/2025/04/06/therapy-harm-questions/
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It’s always important not to assume someone’s gender identity based on appearance or pronouns — and to be cautious around how “out” someone may be — but it’s worth repeating as there are a lot of folks feeling increasing pressure to amend their gender presentation for their safety right now.
12 months ago
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The full thing is on the gram and the clock app, but I’m sharing this clip with the hopes that it reaches the folks who need it. ❤️🩹
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about 1 year ago
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What’s keeping me up tonight: It’s difficult but unsurprising to watch public figures who have built their platforms around “uplifting survivors” enact harm be absolutely unwilling to reckon with their impact. Unsurprising in ways that I think we (collectively) can learn from. 🔑
about 1 year ago
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I need all of my autistic pals (and plush adoring adjacent peers) to tell me your favorite online stores that sell stuffed animals. Prefer: Small businesses, unique characters, cute aesthetic. 🧸💛
about 1 year ago
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Hey. It’s okay if you’re a yapper. 💌
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Verbal Processing: Why You 'Think Out Loud' And 5 Neuro-Affirming Tips to Support You
"When I'm trying to untangle a problem, I have to talk it out."
https://letsqueerthingsup.com/2025/01/24/verbal-processing/
about 1 year ago
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The best way I can describe this blog post is a hug. I hope you can feel it from wherever you are. ❤️
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How to Heal Your Inner Child When All You Remember is Trauma
“I’m not even sure I have any happy memories. Does that mean this inner child stuff isn’t for me?”
https://letsqueerthingsup.com/2025/01/15/how-to-heal-inner-child-trauma/
about 1 year ago
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🧊 Mountain of tasks and deadlines leaving you frozen? 🧽 Cognitive load feeling too unmanageable, like your brain is a totally full sponge? 🧠 Or just overwhelmed as a neurodivergent person trying to keep up? 🔖 I created this for you:
letsqueerthingsup.com/2017/07/22/a...
about 1 year ago
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The overwhelm-shutdown cycle is a very real thing for ADHDers (and many other neurodivergent folks). I created this resource to help folks design a system that supports them through it.
letsqueerthingsup.com/2017/07/22/a...
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ADHD Shutdown: 3 Ways to Manage Overwhelm & Procrastination
That’s when I knew: I didn’t want to live like this anymore.
https://letsqueerthingsup.com/2017/07/22/adhd-survival-guide/
about 1 year ago
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"Grief helps retrieve us from the past, where our younger selves are still living in the hope that this will secure the love we need, and shifts us away from the future, where our younger selves are still living in the fear that we’ll be abandoned in the end." 🍃
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3 Questions to Meet and Release Your Fawn Trauma Response
Grief helps retrieve us from the past, where our younger selves are still living.
https://letsqueerthingsup.com/2025/01/08/healing-fawn-response/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2KGaJrivpHDWIBHDieDoZxBs9CO6FCzdtpmiJRI-v9zFAknOunwU91O6c_aem_ftt21_HewBzpq0TadQa18Q
about 1 year ago
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Hey, 2025. ♥️ We aren’t apologizing for who we became to survive anymore.
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Why I’m No Longer Striving For My Best, Highest, or ‘Healed’ Self
We don’t have to compensate anymore for who we became to survive.
https://letsqueerthingsup.com/2024/12/31/best-highest-healed-self/
about 1 year ago
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