When Lynx Aspen visited my house in 2016, he touched me in my sleep without my consent, fully aware that I am an autistic CSA victim with PTSD. He claimed that this was completely incidental and he was also asleep when it happened, but considering the allegations I've heard since, I can't be sure.

I had to ask Lynx to move down to the basement apartment for the duration of his stay because I was too afraid to sleep in my own bed with him beside me. Lynx left and went home early, and proceeded to ice me out and lie to our mutual friends, claiming that I had been verbally abusive toward him.

I left the furry fandom for nearly 10 years after my experience with Lynx and only returned thanks to the support of @fenn.ink and @crayonrookie.bsky.social. When I got back in touch with Lynx last year, hoping he'd grown over the past decade, he immediately tried to isolate me from these people.

What a strange thing to post after being called out for touching people without their consent.

Wasn't ever planning to talk publicly about this, but I'm barely online these days so I just don't care anymore. After realizing some of what he's done to others, I'm tired of feeling like I'm protecting him by keeping quiet. Do with this what you will. docs.google.com/document/d/1...

Personal illustration. 💖

Fenn will always have a seat at my table. The door will always be left open and a light always on for them. What truly defines us isn’t what we do in our darkest moments when options have run out, it’s how we choose to respond and grow from those moments. I’m forever proud to call Fenn my friend.

Slightly belated Valentine's Day piece for my favourite wolf. I'm so fortunate to share my life with you Theo, you brighten up every single day with your sense of humour and your steady, supportive presence. You make me feel complete. I love you dearly @crayonrookie.bsky.social!

@fenn.ink A flower for a special soul. 🌹

An open letter.

Collaborative illustration with my beloved partner and my best friend. ♥

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headshots for my moots ♥ [ @rensstudios.bsky.social | @sleepychi.dog | @yoteling.bsky.social | @natedraws.bsky.social | @cart00nm00n.bsky.social ] #art #furryart

Happy birthday, Theo! You're truly my ride or die, one of the few critters who will always have a special place in my heart no matter how much time or distance separates us. I love you @wolfweed.bsky.social and I'm so lucky to get to share my days with you. I hope you have an amazing day!

It's him... the guy. 🐺 🎨 @crayonheart.art

This is me, btw… if you even care. 𓃦