Trans people are really scared right now, so if you make a trans person’s life harder in any way rn you are part of the problem.

Do a nice post on threads about my trans wife and of course some bigot who doesn’t understand the difference between gender and sexuality comments to tell me, “no your husband is just gay.” 🤨 That’s laughable because we both hate men, so yeah she’s gay but she’s a gay woman. That’s how it works.

“Why don’t you just leave the US?” Maybe if my wife could safely renew her passport we would.

if you read this as a kid you’re gay now

I think those that live with the double, triple, quadruple issues of intersectionality have always understood: Any suffering people in power do to one group, they will perfect it and do it to another. When marginalized communities are being targeted, NO one is safe. It’s is only a matter of time

Happy Birthday, Angela Davis!

This is a rather good point.

Anyone else not making starter packs bc the pressure of leaving someone out is too great?

Bring back the real housewives wine era. Not enough housewives sit around drinking wine when they’re alone anymore.

WTF USPS?? In all the times I've changed my address with you, I have never had to go verify my identification in person. This is BS, and I don't have time for it.

So many, but my favorite rn is TJ Alexander’s new book, A Gentleman’s Gentleman, which comes out March 11!

The fantasy lover in me is so excited people want a recommendation post with fantasy books with trans main characters!!

I think I’m coming out of my reading slump, which honestly I don’t feel right calling it that. The past month I’ve been in fight or flight for all of my waking hours, so the slump I was in was all encompassing and more like a deep pit of despair. Alas I’ve climbed out and am reading again.

Things I will not miss when we move out of this apartment next weekend: 1. Amazon packages being delivered everywhere on the premises but where they should be.

Live laugh lexapro bc last month I tried to switch to streamline my meds. My body tortured me for that decision. It took one full dose of lexapro before I felt myself come back. It’s been 5 days and I feel almost back to my normal self. My therapist *jokingly* made me promise to never switch again.

Clap for me. I finished my first book of 2025 tonight.

Without downloading any new pics, where are you mentally?

The comments on this definitely pass the vibes test. Queer people are so nice to one another and I wouldn’t want to be straight anyway.

I came out to one of my last bffs from my childhood last summer, and I haven’t heard a word from her since. She even missed my birthday for the first time. I guess that says all I need to know.

I’m too much of a baby queer for this. Will we get through it?

Hearing people talk about how they are able to tune out all that is happening rn infuriates me. Okay Patricia, brag more about your privilege. Good that you are able to watch Stephen Colbert at the end of the day for all your news and spend time with your family ignoring it the rest of the time.

I’ve been waiting for this! Look at this lineup. 😱

I’m going to have a full head of gray hair by the end of these four years. The amount of gray I’ve added just in the last month isn’t nothing.

I’m calling him Mister for now.

I treated myself to a weighted goose after yesterday. Name suggestions?

The way I ran to sign up for an arc of this. Pirates are only my favorite and I love a T4T story. These are all my favorite things.

My therapist encouraged me to make a playlist of songs to pump me up, but I can only make playlists that make me cry. 😭

To the new friends, my name is Lisa and I am: 🧡 just a gay lil lesbian 🤍 married to the most magical woman 🩷 have two kids with said magical woman 🧡 mentally unwell but medicated and in therapy 🤍 a voracious reader of most genres 🩷 never done unlearning and relearning

The Overton Window is closing at this rate.

It was an awkward gesture because he is autistic… *block* I’ve never seen an autistic person do a Nazi salute before in my life, but I have seen nazis do that salute.

I’ve been off this app for awhile bc I had a little menty b. But I came back to over 700 followers?! I left at barely 200. What did I miss?

Also, Baldoni has a level of audacity that is rather disproportionate to his level of fame.

So my favorite kind of poetry is not natural poetry. I’m sure the audience for these poems love this collection. I only really connected with 7 out of the 50 poems.

Happy Holidays! ALL Haymarket Books are 40% off through January 3rd!

Yall are wearing me out. Amazon doesn’t care what you want out of Goodreads. They’re not going to fix things or add things. You know what already exists with all the features GR is missing? StoryGraph!

Late to the game as usual, but I finally saw Wicked. It really was as good as everyone made it out to be.

Who asked for live action How to Train Your Dragon? It’s definitely too soon.

I turn 35 today and I’ve already cried at least once.

Started this chapter of Second Chances in New Port Stephen by @tjalexandernyc.bsky.social right after finding out that them and me share a birthday which happens to be tomorrow, December 20! And this day might have been the sweetest day in the book so far. 🚲 🌈📚

I think I always dreamed of this life where I’m sitting at the table while my hot wife bakes my birthday cake.

My therapist keeps goals and as someone who used to write IEP goals for my students, I sure do love a measurable and achievable goal. We added two to my therapy plan today. But also all the goals I had created last January have been achieved and are being maintained at this point. #therapyworks

If you follow me and all your posts are about weight loss I will block you immediately. ✌🏻

Netflix is dragging us through these dating shows too quickly. I’m still not over the man who has kids he didn’t say anything about and now we are on a different show arguing about a hall pass. I’m tired of these straights.

If you're my friend on Storygraph and you rate a book low, I need you to write a review. It doesn't have to be long. In fact the shorter the better. But I just really need to know what you didn't like bc I trust my friends' reviews so much.

What’s your current obsession? Mine is my first watch of Broad City.

The finale of #Ultimatum is so unnecessary. We do not care pls bring on the reunion.

The physical symptoms from changing my antidepressant have been so bad that, today, when the mental symptoms started I was shocked. Now I find myself in a pit of despair.

I should pay attention to titles more, especially since I don’t read the back of the book. 🌈📚💙

This week I found out that antidepressant discontinuation syndrome is a thing and it sucks.

docs.google.com/forms/d/1qI5... First round of the 2024 Trans Books Choice Awards is hereee! 🏳️‍⚧️ round one ends December 20th at 8:00pm MST! 🏔️