"There's no shame in saying enough. My goal is to find where that point is." We need more Doms out there modeling this sort of communication online. BDSM bottoming is a mental minefield. Your bottom needs to know, in the moment, that they aren't just safe to speak up, but encouraged to do so.

This pup always makes such amazing faces in my ropes. Loved showing him off at the @seapah.bsky.social Pup Social. Many ice cold glasses were pressed against his tender nips 😇🧊 #meninrope #gaypup

Quick self tie to get some practice in. Who’s next? 🪢 #meninrope #shibari #gaypup

Both Daddies made sure to freshen up my wedgie on a regular basis 💜 @daddytony.com @bearspanks.bsky.social

Wanna wrestle? 😘 #gaypup #singlet

It's that time of the month...Atomic progress pic! Current weight: 200lbs #wedgie #gaypup

Oh my god

Who’s up for a romp? 👀😘

Is anyone surprised? 🤣

What, do you *not* work out in your bear onesie and fresh padding? Your loss 🤷‍♂️ #abdl #gaypup

Really starting to see the results of my weight loss progress! These photos are about 3 months apart. #gaypup

Retail Therapy 🩲🥰 Which ones are your favorites? #maleunderwear #tightywhities #gaypup

And yes, I did make sure the white ones went where they belong. #wedgie #tightywhities #teamlocked

Retail Therapy 🩲🥰 Which ones are your favorites? #maleunderwear #tightywhities #gaypup

Spending the week in horny jail. Cage checks welcome 💜🔒 Featuring obligatory tighty-whities cage bulge #teamlocked #malechastity #gaypup

It genuinely makes me so fucking happy that an adult diaper brand saw they had a big fetishist market, and embraced it with such open arms that they made it a whole division. It’d be easy to be cynical about that, capitalism and all…but that had to be a big risk, and I respect them for taking it.

i've had enough yall are getting called out

If dressing up like slutty cotton candy to go work out is wrong, I don’t want to be right 😤 #gaypup

Decided I wanted to start taking some monthly progress photos...then realized which pics I'd taken at the beginning of last month. What better way to show my fitness progress than in the position I was destined to be in? 😮‍💨 #wedgie #atomicwedgie

Ended the evening with some bound edging. I eventually let him finish, but put him in a diaper first to make sure he didn’t get cum on the furniture 😊 #meninrope #abdl

Dom Tip: I'm finding that newer subs struggle with an open-ended request for feedback. I tend to get back "nothing really, I had fun." But I've found a lot of success by asking them for three simple things to get their brain turning: 1. One highlight 2. One thing they'd change 3. One discovery

Dom Tip: I'm finding that newer subs struggle with an open-ended request for feedback. I tend to get back "nothing really, I had fun." But I've found a lot of success by asking them for three simple things to get their brain turning: 1. One highlight 2. One thing they'd change 3. One discovery

He naturally curled his legs up in response to me tapping his balls while he was crab-tied. I mean…if that’s the position you want to be in, who am I to stop you? 😁 Lovely what one extra rope can do 😘 #meninrope #gaypup

Some boys arrive wearing a jock, smugly thinking it makes them wedgie proof. I like to swiftly correct that misconception 😇 See how nicely those hoisted up straps keep that plug in place? I’m a utilitarian at heart ;) #gaypup #wedgie #meninrope

Having a bad-brain day today. Could use some kindness. What is something you enjoy about me or my content? If we’re mutuals, what is something you appreciate about our connection?

The social comparison problem applies even to gearplay. I wish we wouldn't take each other's achievements as competition, like who stayed in gear longer, endured harder electro, or took the more painful whipping - to name few examples. Let's just be supportive and skip the comparison. 🥰

Tighty Whities 3: Spent #maleunderwear #meninbriefs #gaypup

Tighty Whities 2: Stargazing

Tighty Whities #1: Contemplation #maleunderwear #meninbriefs #gaypup

At Sir @lordfrank666.bsky.social’s “request”, 20 deep wedgie squats, along with one longer one to really make sure those briefs were up there properly. I will not be taking comments on my form at this time 😁 #tightywhities #wedgie #gaypup

Open up, boy. Red looks good on you. Especially with the glisten of fresh drool. #gaybdsm #gaypup #sixfootswitch

“Don’t worry, pup, we can loosen that rope and lower your head any time you want…just give a whimper when you’re ready 😇🎂” A delectable messy predicament with Pup Storm 🥰 #meninrope #WAM #gunge

Sometimes you don’t feel like padding up, but you still wanna wear your cute onesie. Follow your dreams 🥰 #abdl #gaypup

“Don’t worry, pup, we can loosen that rope and lower your head any time you want…just give a whimper when you’re ready 😇🎂” A delectable messy predicament with Pup Storm 🥰 #meninrope #WAM #gunge

This is why I always raise an eyebrow when I see posts like “it’s not *real* bondage unless…” or “you know it’s a *real* spanking when…” I get it’s role play but like…that shit has consequences. Don’t delegitimize those who aren’t playing at the intensity you prefer.

This shot deserves its own post. God I wish I could post the full face. Such a beautiful look of blissful surrender. #gaybdsm #meninrope

This boy was given instructions prior to his arrival. He was told to enter, strip down, put on the required gear, and await my arrival. This is the beautiful sight I walked up to. I immediately and silently bound his hands and led him by his leash to the play space.

I’m a little in love with the duality of this doofy Pokémon shirt and my Nasty Pig briefs. There’s definitely some Hot Dad™️ energy there. And rest assured, whatever the brand, they will always be tight and white ;) #maleunderwear #meninbriefs #tightywhities

I *am* actively working on improving my physique…but also, this fucking rules. What an icon 🤩

"The Crouching" balancing act in a semi suspension, tension, and stillness in a single folded form, exposed, vulnerable and safe in the same moment #shibari #kinbaku #maninrope #bondage #suspension #cum

So uh…any Doms out there wanna help a cute pup get his nutrients in? 😇👉👈

Tip to optimize your Lazy Sunday: Wear proper attire to minimize bathroom breaks (just make sure it’s still cute attire 😁) #abdl #gaypup

Some more from this shoot, because I'm in love with how it turned out 🥰 #wedgie #teamlocked #gaypup

At the orders of Sir @masterhonik.bsky.social, locked in an atomic wedgie 😮‍💨 #teamlocked #gaypup

Spent some time in the air with @pupsunburst.bsky.social #meninrope #ropesuspension #gaypup

I think it’s time for me to lock up again soon. But I want my next time to be with a keyholder that can really be in that dynamic with me. Someone for whom surrendering that control can add a whole new level of connection and exchange. I want my cage to feel like its own sort of collar. #teamlocked

This community needs to have a reckoning with how it treats its bottoms. I saw a series of jokes recently about how a bottom was being "bossy" and "needy" for making a flirty request to a top they were talking to. Like, sorry we're able to communicate what we want. You should try it some time 😘

Tying with this guy is a really meaningful experience to me. He often expresses that the idea of being bound makes him anxious, but that he feels safe in my ropes. It’s such an honor and joy to be that person for someone. To give them that safety to explore and discover a new side of themselves 💜

Is there any better sight than a daddy in trouble? 🥰 #meninrope #ballgag

Some video of my time teasing this cutie 🥰 #meninrope #malechastity #ropeswitch