Worship. Every. Inch.

I love being a domme because like being a chef it feels like constantly creating elaborate and beautiful art that is meant only for its most immediate audience and provides ephemeral beauty that disappears once it has been consumed

It's International SWers' Rights Day, so I'd like to say a few things: We deserve financial stability, housing & banking security, autonomy & safety. We do not need to be rescued. And if you consume/book us, you should be defending us and your accessibility to consume/book us.

Today is international sх workers rights day. Here’s why you should care: Our right to privacy (esp on the internet) is not guaranteed unfortunately. Sxwrkrs have been on the frontlines of fighting against digital ID (usually worded as age verification laws) and surveillance issues for over a decade

Lately

I’m excited to share that I’ll be visiting Los Angeles on March 26-28! Newsletter subscribers heard about it first — read more on Substack: evynsilver.substack.com/p/newsletter...

Feels worth saying but reminding everyone we're all crashing out about the state of the world and we dont have to pretend to be okay through it. I don’t know how anyone could be. Rest. Reorganize. Resist. We’ve seen past regimes fall and they will again.

your body, My choice.

With all the travel I’ve been doing & upcoming trips planned, it’s become clear that it’s time for me to upgrade my carry-on luggage. I’d love to see it replaced with a better suitcase—there’s one linked below or I’m always happy to receive a gift card/reimbursement: marigoldgift.com/evynsilver/e...

And a special shout out to the sweet sub who made sure I went home with a beautiful investment piece. Thank you, j, for indulging my love of leather bondage 🖤

SF, you were so good to me! My West Coast playthings gave me such a warm welcome and left me feeling absolutely spoiled. I’m already missing the California weather and have tentative plans to return to the Bay Area over the summer, so if you missed me this time you’ll have a second chance soon.

The only thing missing is you at my feet

I love when I get a boot worship request 💋 This new sub licked my boots so good it felt like I was getting eaten out watching him care for my leather and worship me in that way 🤤 Leather sex always finds me. #nycbdsm #nycdominatrix #leather #pinup #kink #bdsm #bootworship

When my kinks start to become their kinks 🤭

Thank you, m! This made me smile :)

Last weekend I took a trip up to The Met Cloisters to see the "Spectrum of Desire" exhibition. I love medieval art and found inspiration in the ways the works in the show played with gender, sexuality, courtship, and devotion. A perfect way to spend Valentine's Day!

I've been reflecting on a particularly special session recently & how lucky I am to get to do this work. This experience unlocked a new part of me & changed my perspective on how I want to feel in/out of scene. It also gave me some clarity around the types of subs I'd like to prioritize this year.

Photos and styling by the one and only Kenna Sharp 💕

Taking calls on NiteFlirt today from 1-5pm ET! I want to hear all of your kinky confessions… Call me at 1-800-863-5478 Ext: 14350542 Can't get on a call? Let's chat instead: www.niteflirt.com/users/Evyn%2...

I love connecting with my subs over our shared interests, so I was very pleased to receive a playlist that was thoughtfully put together for me for Valentine’s Day! This kind of care and attention to detail means a lot to me, and I’ll be listening to it for the rest of the week 🌹

Thank you, m, this is perfect for my upcoming trips

Had a lovely time last week with a small group of Dommes on a sub-led tour of the Asawa and Lam shows at MoMA, followed by dinner. It’s been a while since my last visit to the museum so this was a treat — thanks @lucysweetkill.bsky.social & sub b!

I’d love to see my subs get creative this year. And, if you want additional inspiration beyond what’s on my wishlists, I have more recommendations listed in the FAQs on my website: www.evynsilver.com/faq

Taking calls on NiteFlirt today from 10am-2pm ET! It's been a while and I want to hear about all the kinky things you've been up to. Call me at 1-800-863-5478 Ext: 14350542 Can't get on a call? Let's chat instead: www.niteflirt.com/users/Evyn%2...

Recently one of my subs raised the idea of us taking a cabin trip together and since then I keep thinking about all of the…possibilities.

Thank you, m, for keeping my travel kit stocked! This was a nice surprise to come home to 🩵

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LWC’s mutual aid program Coins for Cuties is back in time for Black History Month! We are distributing $900 cash ($150 each) to 6 Black NYC-based SWers at our munch on 2/25.

Thank you, c, for the thoughtful gifts from our time together in Chicago 🖤

Thank you, j, this is a lovely addition to my collection of metal toys

I love being your kinky Valentine 💌

This week I received a detailed service proposal in the form of a slide deck, which means that the bar has been raised and all of you begging to clean my house in my DMs are really going to have to step it up if you ever want to be taken seriously!

start at the bottom + work your way up

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I’m excited to share that I’ll be visiting San Francisco on February 26 & 27! Newsletter subscribers heard about it first — read more on Substack: evynsilver.substack.com/p/newsletter...

After a few months of long-distance training, I'll be seeing my little pain slut in the flesh later this week :)

Every man has his vices… 📸 : @sinnstax.bsky.social

Hold still

I’ve been very pleased with the new subs who have approached me this week — providing all of the info I’ve requested, responding promptly and politely, sending thoughtful gifts in advance — this is how you make a strong introduction!

Sheer perfection

Come undone

When I travel a lot of my time ends up centered around food & one of my favorite meals from this trip was at Kaewloon! I got to try a lot of dishes I’ve never had before & loved the home-style cooking. As someone who adores seafood, this was an especially memorable experience.

Slowly coming back online after some time away at the end of the year. It was a treat to get to thaw out and unplug for a little while. Now I’m back in NYC, recharged, and feeling hopeful about the growth a new year can bring.

Few clients remember that the Domme you see for a kink experience also benefits from aftercare. Even as pros, sessions can be a draining experience on BOTH sides. Sit there in the afterglow & reminisce. Take Her out for a drink/dinner. Email Her w/ praises when you're back home.

Came home to a gift from my little pain slut ❤️ thank you, c!

I’m excited to share that I’ll be visiting Chicago on January 30 & 31! Newsletter subscribers heard about it first — read more on Substack: evynsilver.substack.com/p/newsletter...

logging off till January / see you next year

Thank you to everyone who made my birthday month special. I feel very spoiled ✨

December 🦪