Spent my first night out in LA at an artist lecture by Panteha Abareshi, as part of the One Archives’ current show, NEED ME. A fascinating talk about the un-s*xing and f*tishization of the disabled body for the pleasure/use of the abled bodied onlooker and the ways their work subverts that.

Officially back in Los Angeles! Expect phone lines on and correspondences answered by next week.

My time in SEA is now coming to a close. I'll see you soon LA! More glimpses and insights from my travels are in the works––until then, vicariously enjoy Sài Gòn's cafe scene.

My project, the Black Leatherdyke Calendar still needs your help! Our fundraiser raised $2541, but our goal is 4,000. Please donate if you can and share far & wide! Thank you ❤️🖤💙

Hearing my peers' glowing reviews of The Maids at St. Ann's Warehouse makes my desire to see it even stronger. Hmmm, if only I were whisked off to NYC before its last performance in mid-June. Attentive playthings who've read this story of mine understand how significant this play is to me:

Guess who's birthday it is 🎂

New travel plans for the rest of the year! 🇨🇳Chengdu: 3 - 10 Jun 🇭🇰Hong Kong: 2 - 6 Jul 🇺🇸SF: July 12 - 19 Jul 🇺🇸SF + LA/Seattle: Sep (TBC) 🇺🇸NYC: Nov (TBC)

Spending my final days abroad in my beloved TP. HCM, just in time for my birthday next week. Wishing for more travel, a leather bullwhip, and patrons for my upcoming photoshoot ideas ♥️

Some of my favorite dates are museum dates! Recently spent an afternoon at the National Gallery Singapore with the incomparable @lucythemistress.bsky.social

A belated recap of my time in Singapore 🇸🇬 Thank you to the fellow Dommes –– @goddessashley.bsky.social, @lucythemistress.bsky.social, Mistress Wei, Queen Cynthia, Mistress Suzuran, Ms Lilith, Domina Delilah –– and subs who made my visit so special. I'll be back soon!

Hello Singapore! It’s good to be inside of you this week

I’m currently planning a trip to Europe this October. Should I also make pit stops in Boston and NYC?

The Domme, the space, the food

Dinner is served w/ @cococeleste.bsky.social 🍽️ Photographer: Lanee Bird Hair and beauty: Patrick Santa Ana Producer: Lenne Chai Production Assistant: Nathan Figueroa

Learning about ancient petrified wood from the Chư Đăng Ya volcano

My time in TP. HCM is off to a wonderful start

OOTO. I’m now off to Southeast Asia! During these next 1.5 months away, I will be taking a break from scene building and D/s dynamics in order to revamp other aspects of this work—whenever I’m not busy exploring, of course! Back to my regularly scheduled programming in June.

See leather, post leather

Always a treat to spend time with the ever captivating @cleoouyang.bsky.social and share what we've each been desiring. Now which dutiful s-b is up to the task of supporting our creative ambitions?

Dinner is served w/ @cococeleste.bsky.social 🍽️ Photographer: Lanee Bird Hair and beauty: Patrick Santa Ana Producer: Lenne Chai Production Assistant: Nathan Figueroa

Public Amazon Wishlists are now a security risk! Third-party sellers can now access your home address from your wishlist. Do not use unless you have a P O box!

Major announcement: I'll be living in Vietnam for 1.5 months, starting this April! Read all about it on my Substack 💌

I recently switched one of my chastity subs to an online standard writing site that punishes her for every typo. Mess one up, get two more. She meekly reached out to me earlier today to share that her daily requirement of 50 standards had ballooned to 196…

Expect a newsletter with an important announcement soon!

Enjoying a day out with a screening of Pillion and some fragrant hojicha tea~~

Happy Lunar New Year!!! To my fellow babes: Xuân chúc các bạn một năm dồi dào sức khoẻ, vạn sự như ý, tiền vô như nước nha! Literal translation: Wishing you all a year filled w/ good health; may your wishes come true and may money flow in like water! Translation for the devotees: Make it pour! 🧧💦

Just an off-duty Dominant getting a custom latex gown. Thank you to the good girl who made this happen ✨

Happy Black History Month to everybody Black! To us: I love us. Thank you to everyone before me who remind me that we will survive & win, despite everything. To everyone else: Read a Black book, support Black immigrants, & thank the Black person you learned from last year, last week, yesterday.

Just wrapped up an incredible photoshoot with fellow babe @cococeleste.bsky.social and photographer extraordinaire, Lanee Bird! You'll be cordially invited soon...

A divine evening with one of my good boys–– Still thinking about this yuzu custard and matcha tart. And with his help, I have officially joined the cattle prod club. Thank you, g! you and I are about to have lots of fun...hehe 2026 is the year of more social dates 🤍

Missed me?

It's been so nice to pour more of my energy towards both my 1-on-1 dynamics and projects this month! I'm now ready to emerge from my social media hiatus 🖤

Emerging from my break, just to say: something special is coming in 2026...

Announcement: I will be taking a social media break in order to focus on some exciting updates & projects! you may still ring me on NF, please me with a holiday gift, and entice me to come out & play––I have room for 1-2 more dates this December. I'll see everyone else in the new year!!!

Nearly 440 hours. An average of 14 hrs 11 mins a day. And a total of 1,000 handwritten standards. So proud of my chastity sub's accomplishments this past month, as she works towards staying locked 24/7 for me! Now what did she get to eat in celebration? 🤍

Sometimes I wonder if sharing what I’m drawn to causes confusion. One moment, I’m talking about an opera. The next, I’m referencing a video game. Genuinely excited by all forms of storytelling and worldbuilding, I just follow where my curiosity takes me.

While watching a playthrough of Silent Hill f (a lushly designed game btw!), I was reminded of one of my bucket list items: a scavenger hunt with a chastity sub across the city of LA 🔑 Think of all the riddles and tasks I could devise!

How you yearn to see yourself reflected back from the ripple of my sleeve.

How you yearn to see yourself reflected back from the ripple of my sleeve.

Finally getting the chance to look over the visual research I've recently done. From Madonna's S*x book... Also, RIP Udo Kier!

Been curious about me? I’ll be chatting away with my subs on #NiteFlirt until 10pm PT this evening, as well as all weekend long 📞

Thank you to the good boi who brought a copy of Box Hill to our date. I look fondly at those who know how to indulge me both in and out of the play space 🤍 Excited to read this before watching Pillion, it's film adaptation!

Though rain or shine, being my captive is a year-round affair. Be at my disposal on #NiteFlirt from Thursdays-Sundays.

I need someone to get me a record player asap so I can listen to the three bonus tracks on the physical print of LUX 😭 The last time I was compelled to get one was when Rosalía released her other album, El Mal Querer.

Though rain or shine, being my captive is a year-round affair. Be at my disposal on #NiteFlirt from Thursdays-Sundays.

Wait out this weekend's atmospheric river by cozying up in a small cage for me.

The random note I discovered while cleaning my desk: 👌🏼 Pip-squeak 👌🏼 Puberty never reached your dick 👌🏼 I was expecting to be underwhelmed but this takes the cake! Shoutout to whoever’s dickette inspired these quips!

Morning tea always taste better when shared with other babes! So wonderful hanging with @servetrinity.bsky.social and @roxannewaters.bsky.social during their visit to LA.