Dinner dates are a favorite of mine, but a slow, indulgent brunch can be just as tempting... 🍳

Sure, I could fill a wishlist with lace and fantasy, but I’d rather let it reflect the real things that make my days brighter. I adore beautiful lingerie, of course — but the practical gifts that quietly support my life? Those quite often mean even more. ❤️

“Life isn't about finding yourself. It's about creating yourself.” — George Bernard Shaw

Sure, I could fill a wishlist with lace and fantasy, but I’d rather let it reflect the real things that make my days brighter. I adore beautiful lingerie, of course — but the practical gifts that quietly support my life? Those quite often mean even more. ❤️

Year two, and my little tree gave me a single, perfect apple. Somehow that makes it even better.

Today’s first: homemade cinnamon rolls made with the tangzhong method. My kitchen smells like butter and sugar, and I’m already thinking about a chai variation. (No icing — perhaps an unpopular opinion, but I think they’re plenty sweet as is.)

Mid-session, my therapist — entirely unprompted — asked if I’ve had any Botox or fillers because my face was “unusually symmetrical.” ...I haven’t, but I’ll share that unsolicited compliment with you all as an expert testimonial. 😆

Cleaning out my closet and found this ski bib. Sadly, it’s a little too short for me... which feels unfair, because it does look good, doesn’t it? 👀⛷️

To whoever emptied my wishlist last night… I’m both speechless and so deeply touched. If you’re comfortable revealing yourself, please send me an email — I’d love to thank you in a more personal way. ❤️

Diwali reminds me that light isn’t just something we see, it’s something we share. Here’s to the kind that lingers softly, long after the flame. 🪔

Meticulously named attachments tell me you notice the details… and I can’t help wondering where else that exacting touch shows up. 😉

“There’s a crack in everything, that’s how the light gets in.” — Leonard Cohen

A park ranger once described the struggle of designing bear-proof trash cans: “there’s significant overlap between the smartest bears and the dumbest humans.” My DMs are basically the field study.

I may never love waking up at 6am for workouts with my trainer, but I do love what they remind me: discomfort and progress often share the same space.

Note to self: always double check which Portland. Nearly booked a flight clear across the country instead of up the coast last night — seconds from confirming before I caught it. That would’ve been an unforgettable FMTY… for all the wrong reasons. 😅

🎃 Pumpkin picked (fresh from the farm!) 👻 Halloween reads acquired (and wishlist-ready should anyone feel inspired to sponsor the spooky season!)

TIP: Avoiding stage names on giftcards protects BOTH our privacy. (Initials are perfect.) I also have a discreet email just for them — if we’ve met and you don’t have it, just ask! No need for a third-party company seeing a gift to Léa tied to another name AND YOURS. 😳❤️

“Morning is an important time of day, because how you spend your morning can often tell you what kind of day you are going to have.” ― Lemony Snicket

Luxury, for me, has never been about labels or logos. It’s about quality: of attention, of conversation, of time. A silk dress that fits just right. A meal lingered over. A connection that feels rare. If you value that too, we’re already off to a good start. #NationalLuxuryDay

With everyone trading booze for mocktails, consider this my contribution: no shots, just a cone of vanilla bean nestled between my thighs and your full attention. 🍦

Caught myself stopping to admire an unusually bright-blue bird today. Didn't even hesitate. This is how getting older begins, huh? 😆🐦

Don’t let the heels fool you; I charm humans and WordPress alike. (Website glitch resolved!) 😉

Cookbooks line my bookshelf — mementos from people I’ve adored. Flavors and stories pressed into pages, each one an invitation into someone else’s world. On #CulturalDiversityDay, I’m reminded how beautifully this work has broadened my world. Thank you. 🍽️

She’s packing her heels and her lace, To tempt in some faraway place. You think it’s all beaches? It’s secrets and peaches. And trouble you’re eager to chase. Happy #NationalLimerickDay! 🍑

A beautiful afternoon with a beautiful friend, all thanks to a special someone who made sure we felt their admiration from afar. So grateful for the generosity that brought @thenataliebyrne.bsky.social and me (and oh-so-fresh oysters!) together in San Francisco. 💞

The 57th NorCal Cherry Blossom Festival was a whirlwind of people, music, and color. Watching the Taru Mikoshi procession was unforgettable — the 1,000+ lb Mikoshi is carried by 150+ volunteers across five city blocks! And matcha ice cream made the day even sweeter. 🍵🍦🌸

Desire delayed is desire denied. 😉

California, I’m almost there. If you’ve been dreaming of a night where time stands still, now’s the moment to make it real. 🌉 SF • 4/19–25 🌇 LA • 4/25-30 ☀️ SD • 4/30–5/3 Don’t wonder what could’ve been... the only wrong time is too late.

Today's breakfast: homemade creamy cauliflower soup with coconut milk, finished with crisp shiitake “bacon” marinated in coconut aminos — comfort food with restraint. Anyone else love a savory breakfast? 🥣

Trick for museum visits: hit the gift shop FIRST. If you still want that book or print after you've wandered through the whole place, it's probably worth it. If not? You just saved $40 and some closet space. 🖼️

Earlier this week was Free Cone Day at Ben & Jerry’s: wait in line… or donate to Tiny House Greensboro and skip ahead. Ice cream’s even sweeter when it supports a good cause. 🍦💛

Brains, beauty, and tech support. 🔌😆

I took two versions of this photo: one with my hand covering, and one without. A little generosity and the second one might find its way to you. 😉

Sweaty start, sweet finish. Sunday began with hot yoga and a bookstore run for the newly released Hunger Games (hello, nostalgia). Cherry chai in hand, I settled onto the porch at Cava and didn’t budge until a few chapters slipped by. 💘

If I ever made an OF, it would 100% include a video of me, in the finest of lingerie, using the stop-drop-and-roll manoeuvre to deflate an air mattress. 😂

21c Museum Hotel Durham has a MASSIVE antique bank vault, and every time I visit the art museum, I imagine what an incredible photoshoot location it would be. Well, turns out someone had the same idea — and made it happen. 📸: weddinghairbyliz

Fresh seafood, frozen drinks, a hilariously huge slice of chocolate cake (we took as much to go as we managed to eat), falling asleep to the sound of waves, and waking up to the sunrise over the water… some overnights are worth losing a little sleep for. 🌊☀️

On #AutismAwarenessDay, I’m grateful for the beautiful diversity of interests and passions in the neurodivergent community. It’s always inspiring to connect with (and learn from!) people who are so deeply passionate about what they love, even if our passions don’t overlap. 💙

Fresh seafood, frozen drinks, a hilariously huge slice of chocolate cake (we took as much to go as we managed to eat), falling asleep to the sound of waves, and waking up to the sunrise over the water… some overnights are worth losing a little sleep for. 🌊☀️

As a general rule, I don’t haggle unless it benefits BOTH parties. For example, going off-platform for an Airbnb or paying in cash for maintenance work in exchange for a discount. Requesting a lower price while offering nothing in return just feels crass.

Let's settle the great packing/unpacking debate: Do you put your suitcase on the bed? A) Yes, always 🛏️ B) Never, eew 🚫 C) Only at hotels 🏨 D) Depends on the trip 🤷🏻‍ Vote and defend your choice in the replies!

✍🏻 SEEKING RECOMMENDATIONS ✍🏻 Who are your favorite *non-SW* accounts to follow here? Think brilliant writers, fascinating thinkers, or just people who make your timeline better. I’d love to add some new voices to mine!

Hear me out… lipstain, but for your nipples. Nipstick™ — for the discerning woman tired of her nipples looking so last season. Smudge-proof, kiss-resistant, in Blushing Ingenue, Post-Shower Flush, and Someone Just Paid My Rent. Because why should lips have all the fun? 💄😂

The puzzle's almost done now, but I think I’m the real piece missing. 😉🧩

Just finished #Severance S2, and I can tell this one is going to linger for a while... sharp, unsettling, and deeply human all at once. If you haven’t seen it yet, be prepared to do a deep dive into identity, work, and free will. 👔

The first real taste of warmth always makes me think ahead to summer. I’m on the hunt for a beautifully made swimsuit — any favorites you’d recommend? ☀️👙

💝 Thoughtful Feedback Is a Gift 💝 Thoughtful feedback is not criticism; It's a gift and a sign of respect. It means we care enough about someone and our relationship with that person to make sure our shared experiences are as genuine and fulfilling as they can be. 1/4

The best moments are the ones that unfold slowly — over candlelit dinners, lingering glances, and nights that turn into mornings. 🏖️ Sarasota/Tampa • 4/1-5 🌉 San Francisco • 4/19-25 ☀️ San Diego • 4/30-5/3 Let’s take our time.

I could never get into plain matcha, but I gave it another shot with peppermint, and now I get it. Funny how a small tweak can completely change your perspective. Now it’s part of my morning routine, and I’m on the hunt for a proper matcha set — any recommendations? 🍵

Living in a town with so many colleges means there’s an abundance of underrated events that are open to the public. I wasn't sure what to expect from Lang Lang, but his performance was absolutely breathtaking. Sometimes, the best experiences are the ones you least expect. 🎹