3 is sick been feverish the last couple of days 11 mo has been teething something fierce We are all tired

…. The hardest thing from r me as a parent. When the little ones are sick

Man the Poppy War Trilogy effected me so much that someone mentions Golyn Niis and my blood went cold #BookSky 💙📚🎧📚🪐📚

Ok so if I’m struggling with reading burn out go to RF Kuang got it #BookSky💙📚🪐📚🎧📚

I am all caught up to the present with having finished THIS INEVITABLE RUIN By MATT DINNIMAN. Fucking hell what a ride. Now I have to wait. But I am so glad to be out of my reading slump #BookSky 💙📚🎧📚🪐📚

How many toddler parents have Pumpkin pie by Danny go stuck on their head this thanksgiving season #toddlers #parents

I’m half way through This Inevitable Ruin By Matt Dinniman wondering what I’m gonna read next. I finished the last four books of Dungeon Crawler Carl in a month. How in the world #BookSky💙📚🎧📚🪐📚

NEWWWWW ACHIEVEMENT Cult recruiter You have successfully talked Dungeon Crawler Carl up so much that you have recruited one new being to the princess posse REWARD That warm and fuzzy feeling that you have given someone a future possible binge #BookSky 💙📚

I’m actually thinking about starting up my book play-by-plays again and wondering how to make them spoiler safe. Cause I really miss having all my thoughts in a thread #BookSky📚💙📚💬

Welp I can say it. The Dungeon Crawler Carl series rescued me from a deep reading slump. I had read two of the books last year and from September of this year I started back up with The Dungeon Anarchist’s Cookbook and finished The Butcher’s Masquerade last night. #bookSky 📚💙📚🎧📚🪐📚

Umm is falling asleep wearing an earbud the audiobook version of your book falling on your face cause you fell asleep? #BookSky📚💙📚🎧

Man I miss when life was simple and I could post all the time. Now I’m exhausted all the time and worry that I’ve lost touch with a lot of you

Finally sitting down and watching the TV version for Murderbot and I am instantly in love

Sitting here at 1 am having just given Babygirl a baba silently crying happy tears as i know that one day she’s not gonna need me to hold her like this. Realizing had anyone told me seven years ago hey El you’re gonna be a dad I would’ve laughed cause I didn’t think I deserved that title

Restarting season 5 of The Magnus Archives annnnd I forgot how tense this opener was

My little dude is 3 tomorrow where has the time gone

Double sleep regression YAY

Consent is key to anything. This is a lesson I wish we all took to heart. The world would be so much better if every one new that consent is the one thing that should not be trampled upon

Just realized 2 is gonna be 3 in six days Babygirl’ll be 7 months in 5 Eldest is 18 WTF WHAT IS TIME

Post Labor Day shift selfie

Waking up angry from a trauma nightmare, then going to another room to calm and ground my body… therapy works

Watching a toddler stall bedtime is one of the cutest but frustrating things

I am getting the itch again. You may be seeing a few book threads again soon #booksky 💙📚

How I know I’m almost forty. I just sneezed and my whole back cracked

Being demisexual is an odd thing. Like I do not have sexual feelings for anybody but my person. But dear god when I’m around my person it’s crazy

Popping my head in again to say I’m alive. 2 started preschool this week so I’ve been in a whirlwind. On top of that on Sept 2nd Babygirl’s checkup for her kidneys. This year has been insane. I want to read Katabasis by RF Kuang but the days go by so fast

Time to recount my year so far. So in February as most of you know my partner gave birth to our littlest child(though in actuality she was our biggest). This was met with a slew of doctors appointments as she had a kidney issue she shared with our youngest son

Finally got around to watching Sinners and damn it’s good

No I love slow I wanna stop time I’ll sit here til I find the problem

The hardest part of losing someone is realizing how you were the only to actually care about the person

If you were the only one to actually take care of your parents and you trust your fam to help while you start your own family? Be consistent in reaching out. When you feel something off listen to your gut not the family who aren’t keeping their word

I lost my father today

It's okay to punch nazis, And as always nazi punks fuck off

One of the hardest things to learn is how to break the cycles of abuse in your life is the fact that everything in your required nervous system tells you you are doing it wrong because of your lived experience

Baby girl update. Heading to the specialist to get the stint removed today

It’s kinda bittersweet watching my 2 and a half year old transition from crib to big boy bed. We finally took the side off his crib because he had been so stuck to that even though we got him a big boy bed and now he won’t look at the crib he’s all about that big boy bed

Also to those who have me reached out as I was dealing with our littlest one having surgery thank you

Psst the reading itch is coming back and I’m gonna be doing a modern noir book next stay tuned #BookSky📚💙🎧📚

Man I think my reading slump came at the right time cause I swear I feel the go go go lately has drained me

We are back home. Babygirl is snoozing

Morning update. She is fully awake and taking formula. Also she has emptied her bladder which was the requirement to be released. My tiny little rogue is tough

Update. Got to the hospital at 9:45 am. Babygirl went back at 1. Still back now they’ve updated us a couple of times. The surgery is 5 hours

Hey, y'all. Illness kind of took me out last week, work-wise, and I need some help paying bills. I have some new options for work, so hopefully I won't need to ask again in the near future, but I'd appreciate any aid in getting my $100 goal. #MutualAidRequest #MutualAid

Babygirl has surgery tomorrow at 10:30. I am worried but hopeful

So update. On Tuesday we had to take babygirl to urology specialist. She has the same kidney issue that 2 does. Hers is trending worse. We have to go back this Tuesday to see if it got better. She may have to have a surgery.

I’m still alive. Life has been crazy. The summer season is upon us

Being a dad means occasionally waking up at six am with your son. Even if you didn’t get to sleep til late because you are a closer at your job

I feel like I’ve had the worst day today

Opened up BlueSky to three videos talking about Sinners and well I want to see it but I also have two very young kids. I know I’ll see it sooner or later it’s just figuring out how and when

I feel like I’m in a fog. No motivation to read or anything