Not over my bereavement, but the show must go on. Here’s my new column. Wish I could take Lyra to that free trans punk show on Saturday, I think it woulda had a great time.

I wish I could just cry for Lyra instead of feeling like I could somehow have prevented its death and just being assailed with guilt for not bullying it into going to the goddamn emergency room.

>on Discord >meme about feeling awkward around ppl you like >think “this is how I feel about my current crush” >scroll down 5 more posts >see crush reacting to same meme in same way >feel hope blossom in your heart

Made a free Patreon post about dealing with the loss of my friend Lyra. Read it if you want, but I wrote it for me. (Still haven't cried though.) www.patreon.com/posts/bereav...

One of my coworkers asked how I was doing with everything today, and when I explained how numbed out and fucked I feel she told me I should take a few days off and try to process. Somehow I still don't feel like I can.

Doug filled in for me with the column while I am on bereavement leave. He did a great job. Thanks Doug.

for anyone who wants to put a comment somewhere less ethereal than a discord channel I've set up a memorial page on my website ashr202.com/cool-shit/in...

For my friend.

In case anyone might not hear about it elsewhere, and because I'm in mourning, i need to tell you all that my friend @lyra.bzky.team passed away earlier this month after a short illness. It was 29 years old. I'll carry its memory in my heart until I die. My treasured friend and sister.

Here’s a smutty one-shot of mine featuring a teenage trans girl going to a punk show and getting picked up by an older trans woman who fucks her in a bathroom stall. Then there’s a plot twist. Check it out if you want. archiveofourown.org/works/82864856

New column! I hope it matters to someone other than me.

the 'electability' question is increasingly clear www.sosavstate.com/p/gavin-news...

Holy shit, WHAT?

Here y’all go! The latest column. Fuck yeah.

So uh, happy Trans Day of Visibility to Kristi Noem's husband(?) I guess...

It’s Trans Day of Visibility, so behold my visible trans face. Ok now tell me I’m beautiful.

Oh honey. Its so hard to watch you do this to yourself. You’re just so convinced you’re broken… but it’s actually that certainty that is breaking you. What if you tried believing you were OK the way you are? What would happen then?

Hey look, its a thing I wrote! Check it out!

Bumping this thread for Monday morning crew. Check my new stuff out on Patreon and AO3!

This week, fans of my writing have 3 ways to win! One is to head to my Patreon for free access to the final chapter of Trans Girl Senior Sleepover, in which the girls settle down at the breakfast table to eat pancakes... until things start heating up one more time. www.patreon.com/posts/trans-...

New column, folks! Check it out.

I definitely had things like this happen to me a lot in my late teens and early 20s, and was treated as weird because unlike everyone else (except one other friend) I reacted with horror to it, where others just rolled with it and laughed along.

Sigh.

The penultimate chapter of Trans Girl Senior Sleepover is now freely accessible on my Patreon! Find out what Natalie and Grace get up to when they crash Jane's parents' bedroom in order to get some quality alone time. Spoiler: it's hot. Read here now: www.patreon.com/posts/trans-...

Hey y'all, it's the latest of my weekly columns about live music! I wrote it yesterday when I had a bit more brainpower than I have now.

Here's a free post I put on my Patreon letting everyone know what I'm doing next. Which quickly turned into me talking about every project I have in the pipeline, which is probably 5 years worth of work. Whatever, I'll get to it all eventually. Promise. www.patreon.com/posts/what-t...

Last thing I wrote is first-person POV from 9 different characters in the first 9 chapters, then third-person omniscient for the last five chapters. I hope it blows some people’s minds!

the more i learn about brooke slusser the more depressed i become. she had a trans panic response over a FRIENDSHIP

Erica if you're out there I bet you LOVE ChatGPT don't you babygirl?

Here's a new chapter of Trans Girl Senior Sleepover, my story about teen girls boning and boozing in a basement! I'm a day late, sorry about that! Anyway, this time, Dorothy and Amelia come out of the closet and jump into the shower. Hijinks ensue. www.patreon.com/posts/trans-...

I don't wanna do genealogy on this Platner guy. I don't want to delve into the precise origins of his sketchy tattoo. I just think that the fact we're having these conversations means him being able to talk a good game about policies isn't a good enough reason to vote for him. Find someone else.

The part of this that bums me out the most is that people even need to be told these things are evil. news.vcu.edu/article/here...

New column! I was dreaming when I wrote this, forgive me if it goes astray.

[biggest loser in the world voice] warfighters

The sucky thing about joining a really active server of trans girls from all over the world is that if a war breaks out pretty much anywhere, friends of yours are in the war zone. Much love to my friends in the middle east spending their weekends in bomb shelters.

New chapter of Trans Girl Senior Sleepover, my story about high school seniors boning in a basement, up now! In which Annette finds out Emily and Robin weren't just kidding, and all of them take a really long time in the bathroom. Read the free post at my Patreon now! www.patreon.com/posts/trans-...

Here's a misleading headline. Maybe it's safer to say Hegseth is after trans kids, but the truth is that he's mad at Scouting America for including girls of any kind. He wants it to go back to being just for boys -- no girls allowed. Like an 8 year old boy's clubhouse. apnews.com/article/scou...

The thin dew line, y’all. Your fave tactical flag could never.

The part Doug didnt mention: also lots of hardcore and metal! Hell yeah. Please enjoy this week’s column.

41 years after I got the tape for Christmas, I am still listening to Songs From The Big Chair by Tears For Fears on something like a weekly basis. And can you blame me? Literally every single song is incredible.

Still kind of amazed one of my stories got kicked off Scribblehub. I didn't think I was that transgressive!

New chapter of Trans Girl Senior Sleepover, my story about high school seniors boozing and boning in a basement, is up now! This time, Ophelia lays down ground rules and Jane experiences a glorious failure to remain under control. Read the free post at my Patreon now! www.patreon.com/posts/150127...

Trans Girl Senior Sleepover has been deemed TOO HOT FOR SCRIBBLEHUB! Story has been taken down from the site, for reasons I'm sure have to do with prudery. Which seems crazy! 18 year old girls taking drugs and fucking in a basement? That's just normal human activity! WTF are y'all panicking about?

New column. Guess what? I’m still channeling my anger about the state of the world into my columns about music. Dont expect it to change. But hey, at least we can rock about it.

"hey guys, we ruined tech and bet the entire economy in this one thing so you have to love it, otherwise we ruined everything for nothing" < this is what ai evangelism is now

If any of you do this I swear I will haunt you.

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