There's such power in softness. It takes real strength to stay tender in a hard world. 🤍

That's me! 🥳 Embers parties are genuinely so much fun and incredibly sexy. The kind of night where you'll walk out smiling ear to ear and thinking "well, that just unlocked a new part of the map"! 😉🤍

Cuddles with Albi before dinner 🤍

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐨𝐝𝐝 𝐜𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐚𝐜𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐜 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐟𝐢𝐧𝐝 𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐚𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠? Specific kinds of awkwardness. When someone's genuinely themselves even if it's a bit dorky or weird, I find that so endearing. 🤍

I'm next in the line-up and tickets are selling like hot cakes. 🥰🥵🤍

The warmth of genuine human connection is one of life's greatest pleasures. Grateful for the beautiful souls in my life. 🤍

Shoutout to my FBI agent for not immediately putting me on a watchlist despite my browser history looking like a depraved librarian's cataloguing system for the forbidden section. Your patience is noted and appreciated. 😉🤍

The journey to self-acceptance is ongoing. Some days I feel completely at peace with who I am, other days I come up against discomfort. Both are part of being human and entirely normal on this journey we call life! What's most important is how you navigate and respond to it. 🤍

Genuine intimacy has nothing to do with having a perfect body or technique. It's about being brave enough to show up exactly as you are and trusting that someone will handle those vulnerable parts of you with genuine care. 🤍

The fact that the universe is infinite and I get to experience this tiny corner of it however I choose is an absolute privilege!🤍✨

Too soon for the whole marketing campaign, but getting this out early in case anyone wants to arrange travel so they can attend... 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 Wed 29th April 1pm-4pm Keilor Area Want to secure your early spot? SMS me on 0435 349 800. Want more info? You'll have to wait.

Knowing your limits and actually respecting them is self-awareness and communicating those limits clearly to others is self-advocacy. Both are necessary for your wellbeing and neither is selfish despite what you've been taught.🤍

We are rose and ravening both Delicate as dawn, fierce as wanting Passing dominion between breathless mouths Neither willing to merely acquiesce 🔥 Featuring the divine @cecebarkerx.bsky.social

Personal growth isn't about becoming someone new or better than you were. It's about becoming more authentically yourself by shedding all the layers that never truly fit in the first place 🤍

The beauty of being a temporary collection of molecules is that we get to experience this specific arrangement exactly once. What a gift. ✨

Saying no to things that drain you creates space for things that genuinely nourish you. This is basic wellbeing mathematics, simple but essential. 🤍

I want to watch you watch me undress, see your control slip with each button, see exactly when hunger wins...

Just spent $50 on a candle because apparently burning things is self-care these days. The marketing worked on me and I'm not even mad, it smells great in here!😂

Sex education shouldn't end when you leave school. We're all lifelong learners when it comes to pl-asure, bodies, and connection. There's always more to discover...🤍

Meet my new little friends. 🤍 Three Belgian D'uccle hens. This breed are very petite, social and chatty and currently are quite a handful. 😉

She moves through the world like water, fluidity and depth. Against me she's all fire though, burning slow and deliberate. I want to drown in her.... I want to burn. 🥵🔥 Feat the stunning @cecebarkerx.bsky.social

Overcoming my social anxiety required me to lean into discomfort repeatedly until it became familiar territory instead of terrifying unknown. There were no shortcuts, just consistent practice and courage over and over again. It works and I am proof! 🤍

The number of grown adults who have opinions about how other people take their coffee is a sociological study I'd love to read. It's bean water, Jennifer. Relax. 😂

Lay me down easy baby ✨☀️

Human beings created the concept of "guilty pleasures" and then spent the centuries since feeling bad about enjoying things. We're really out here punishing ourselves for liking stuff? Wild. I'm actively unlearning this nonsense in my own life and recommend you join me. 😉

Some mornings I wake up drunk on my own sensuality. Stretching like a cat in sunlight, feeling utterly alive in my skin 🤍

Hello from Delores 🤍

Hotwifing and cuckolding are two dynamics that get tangled together constantly, treated as interchangeable when they’re actually quite different experiences with distinct psychological foundations!

Melbourne life is mostly peaceful with the occasional possum screaming at 3am like they're being murdered. Paradise, truly. 😂

They say good things come in threes... or fours... or however many of us fit on this bed... 😈

𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐞𝐧𝐯𝐢𝐬𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐞 𝐞𝐯𝐨𝐥𝐯𝐢𝐧𝐠? More travel, more community, more depth in connections. I envision more freedom, creativity, more authenticity and more joy!

I move through life differently now. Less hunched, less small, less apologetic about taking up physical space. Confident. Grounded. Like I have a right to be wherever I am. That constant low-level anxiety that used to dictate how I moved through the world just isn't there anywhere near as often.

Body shame is one of the biggest barriers to s-xual and intimate connection. When you're convinced something is wrong with your body, being present becomes impossible. Instead of feeling, you're monitoring how you look and what the other person thinks.

New blog in the works... 😉

I spent years trying to fit into the conventional and "societally acceptable" paths before finally realising my power was in embracing what made me different. That shift changed everything about my life and now allows me to access parts of myself I had no idea existed before. 🤍

My work involves being professionally naked for a living and I still stress about what to wear to the grocery store. The irony isn't lost on me, I promise.😂

The idea that "real" intimacy only counts if it involves penetration is SO limiting and honestly outdated and incorrect. Pleasure takes infinite forms and they're all equally worthy of exploration and celebration. ✨🤍

𝐖𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐩𝐥-𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐨 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐰𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐞𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐲𝐨𝐧𝐞 𝐮𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫? That it's not selfish or indulgent. Pl-asure requires presence and safety, you can't force it or perform your way into having it. Lsatly, that everyone's pl-asure is unique, there's no one right way to experience it. 🤍

The gap between what we desire and what we feel safe asking for is exactly where shame lives and thrives. Closing that gap, learning to voice what we actually want without apology, is some of the most important and liberating work we can do for ourselves. 🤍

Hitchhiker 🤍

I've formed genuine bonds with local magpies and I'm not sure if this makes me a Disney princess or just someone who needs more hobbies. 😂

When two bodies fit together like this, when hands wander and breath catches... this is the kind of heat that leaves marks you'll feel for days. 🔥

Home grown baby! 🤍

Your nervous system can't tell the difference between anxiety and ar-usal. Both create similar feelings like a racing heart, faster breathing and heightened awareness. When anxiety shows up during intimacy, your body gets confused about which signal it's receiving.

You can be emotionally intelligent and still have messy feelings that overflow or surprise you. What's important is awareness and intentionality about how you respond to what you feel. 🤍

Behind every aesthetic social media feed is someone frantically moving laundry baskets out of frame while whispering aggressive encouragement to themselves. (Yes, that someone is me 😂)

The next two days are HOT! Don't forget to leave a bowl of water (with a stone or stick to prevent drowning) out for our native friends. 🤍 Xx

I've learned that peace comes from accepting what is while still working toward what could be. 🤍