loading . . . When Shunning Backfires: Deannaâs Coffee Shop Story & Why Youâre Not the Problem In todayâs Best Life After conversation, Jason is joined by his friend Deanna, creator and former Jehovahâs Witness, to talk about a moment that perfectly shows how shunning is backfiring on the organization. Deanna shares a recent experience at a coffee shop where a group of Jehovahâs Witnesses hard-shunned her in public. Years ago, this would have devastated her. Today? She brushed it off â and the only people who looked foolish were the JWs doing the shunning.
What makes this story powerful is how everyone else in the cafĂ© â regular people with no background in the religion â immediately recognized how rude, childish, and cult-like the behavior was. Instead of feeling ashamed, Deanna felt supported. Later in the episode, Jason shares a similar moment and how healing it can be when you finally realize youâre not the problem â the high-control system is.
This short, meaningful conversation is for anyone who is newly disfellowshipped, fading, waking up, or trying to heal from a controlling group. Shunning is intended to break your spirit, but more and more people are seeing it for what it is: manipulative, abusive, and ineffective. Youâre allowed to feel good about your progress. Youâre allowed to move forward. And youâre absolutely allowed to build your best life after leaving a high-control organization.
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