Philippa Perry
@pperry.bsky.social
š¤ 3881
š„ 19
š 131
Author, Agony Aunt, Artist, Psychotherapist philippaperry.substack.com
philippaperry.substack.com/p/my-mum-hur...
loading . . .
My mum hurts my feelings and How do I find love in my sixties?
Two problems to mull over
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/my-mum-hurts-my-feelings-and-how
about 11 hours ago
0
3
0
philippaperry.substack.com/p/i-have-a-g...
loading . . .
I have a good life and yet I still don't think that I'm enough
The examined life and the anxiety that comes with it
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/i-have-a-good-life-and-yet-i-still
5 days ago
11
141
15
You really want to leave your marriage, your husband after some rocky times has now stepped up, you have two small children. How do you make this decision??? What you want and your ādutyā are at odds. Free to read.
loading . . .
Should I Stay or Should I go?
What do you think? Let me know in the comments.
https://open.substack.com/pub/philippaperry/p/should-i-stay-or-should-i-go?r=1r23vk&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false
19 days ago
1
9
2
Some people are so stuck in the victim role it is as though they are attracted to suffering
loading . . .
Parenting My Parents
When mom wonāt let go
https://open.substack.com/pub/philippaperry/p/parenting-my-parents?r=1r23vk&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=true
23 days ago
1
7
0
philippaperry.substack.com/p/when-you-f...
- sometimes we mix up reality with our imagination and trip up ā¦
loading . . .
When you fall for a dream
And it doesn't match reality
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/when-you-fall-for-a-dream
26 days ago
0
5
0
philippaperry.substack.com/p/married-me...
loading . . .
Married Men Live Longer than Single Men
And Single Women are Happier than Married onesā¦Hereās why
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/married-men-live-longer-than-single
27 days ago
0
5
0
Whatās up? Death. Death is always on my mind.
philippaperry.substack.com/p/the-meanin...
loading . . .
The meaning of life
Might be the meaning of death
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/the-meaning-of-life
about 1 month ago
0
5
0
reposted by
Philippa Perry
THE NERVE
about 1 month ago
Our contributing writers: Stewart Lee,
@pperry.bsky.social
,
@ellenejones.bsky.social
, Kadish Morris, Emily LaBarge,
@katehutchinson.bsky.social
,
@johnsweeneyroar.bsky.social
,
@dorianlynskey.bsky.social
,
@natashawalter.bsky.social
, contributing photographer Tee Max & more
3
17
4
loading . . .
about 2 months ago
2
19
1
jerryhyde64.substack.com/p/sexual-hea...
Nice little podcast about sexual healing for you
loading . . .
Sexual Healing
Or sexual harming?
https://jerryhyde64.substack.com/p/sexual-healing?publication_id=4205136&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=email-share&isFreemail=true&triedRedirect=true
about 2 months ago
0
3
0
loading . . .
2 months ago
2
24
2
philippaperry.substack.com/p/i-dont-wan...
loading . . .
I donāt want my mum at my wedding
Letās unpack this a bit shall we?
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/i-dont-want-my-mum-at-my-wedding
3 months ago
1
3
0
philippaperry.substack.com/p/how-do-i-t...
loading . . .
How do I tell my son about his "real dad"?
Even well intentioned secrets can create distance
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/how-do-i-tell-my-son-about-his-real
3 months ago
1
7
2
api.omarshehata.me/substack-pro...
loading . . .
"Usually he is really sweet, but..."
Insidious bullying, spot it and don't put up with it.
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-usually-he-is-really-sweet-but.html
3 months ago
0
4
1
reposted by
Philippa Perry
Going no contact with parents is gaining traction. I donāt think it should always be the answer. Read the article and let me know what you think.
loading . . .
Shall I go no-contact with mum?
Not every relationship has to be all or nothing
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-more-on-parental-estrangement-manualredirect.html
3 months ago
0
4
1
Going no contact with parents is gaining traction. I donāt think it should always be the answer. Read the article and let me know what you think.
loading . . .
Shall I go no-contact with mum?
Not every relationship has to be all or nothing
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-more-on-parental-estrangement-manualredirect.html
3 months ago
0
4
1
philippaperry.substack.com/p/secret-lov...
ālove of your lifeā - I have a problem with this phraseš
loading . . .
Secret love affair
Love of your life? Or just an escape.
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/secret-love-affair
3 months ago
0
4
0
reposted by
Philippa Perry
philippaperry.substack.com/p/an-essay-a...
loading . . .
An Essay About Small Talk
What's it's for and how to do it
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/an-essay-about-small-talk
4 months ago
1
7
2
reposted by
Philippa Perry
This week Iāve included some exercises that can help stop intrusive thoughts.
philippaperry.substack.com/p/cant-get-o...
loading . . .
Can't get over a lost love
Keep telling yourself the same story? You'll stay stuck
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/cant-get-over-a-lost-love
3 months ago
0
16
3
This week Iāve included some exercises that can help stop intrusive thoughts.
philippaperry.substack.com/p/cant-get-o...
loading . . .
Can't get over a lost love
Keep telling yourself the same story? You'll stay stuck
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/cant-get-over-a-lost-love
3 months ago
0
16
3
4 months ago
4
87
20
philippaperry.substack.com/p/an-essay-a...
loading . . .
An Essay About Small Talk
What's it's for and how to do it
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/an-essay-about-small-talk
4 months ago
1
7
2
Hereās a link to the 40+ articles Iāve written since leaving the Guardian website. Which is your favourite? Least favourite?
api.omarshehata.me/substack-pro...
loading . . .
Archive - Philippa Perry
Full archive of all the posts from Philippa Perry.
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-archive.html
4 months ago
0
6
1
philippaperry.substack.com/p/a-41-year-...
loading . . .
41 year age gap in a love relationship
And the children disapprove
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/a-41-year-old-age-gap-in-a-love-relationship
4 months ago
0
2
0
philippaperry.substack.com/p/my-kid-is-...
reassurance rarely makes a person fell better for very longā¦
loading . . .
My kid is being bullied at nursery
So was mine, and this is what happened
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/my-kid-is-being-bullied-at-nursery
4 months ago
0
10
1
reposted by
Philippa Perry
api.omarshehata.me/substack-pro...
loading . . .
8 tips for lasting love
The answer is not sentimentality!
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-8-tips-for-lasting-love.html
4 months ago
0
10
5
api.omarshehata.me/substack-pro...
loading . . .
8 tips for lasting love
The answer is not sentimentality!
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-8-tips-for-lasting-love.html
4 months ago
0
10
5
reposted by
Philippa Perry
What are you REALLY talking about when you talk about money?
loading . . .
Money and Relationships
The meaning of money
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/money-and-relationships
4 months ago
0
7
1
What are you REALLY talking about when you talk about money?
loading . . .
Money and Relationships
The meaning of money
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/money-and-relationships
4 months ago
0
7
1
reposted by
Philippa Perry
Jealousy! Maybe the last emotion you want to commit to, but hereās the thingā¦
loading . . .
Ask Philippa: Jealousy
And how to work with it, not for it, and not against it
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-ask-philippa-jealousy.html
4 months ago
1
9
3
Jealousy! Maybe the last emotion you want to commit to, but hereās the thingā¦
loading . . .
Ask Philippa: Jealousy
And how to work with it, not for it, and not against it
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-ask-philippa-jealousy.html
4 months ago
1
9
3
reposted by
Philippa Perry
Grief, bereavement, sadness - how to live with it
api.omarshehata.me/substack-pro...
loading . . .
Ask Philippa: Griefā¦
ā¦comes, recedes, morphs into a different form and bites you on the bumā¦
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-ask-philippa-grief.html
4 months ago
1
6
1
reposted by
Philippa Perry
loading . . .
Philippa Perry on Substack
After my post on the difficulty of finding a mate, the is a question and answer about why friendships can be hard.
https://substack.com/@philippaperry/note/c-133818531?r=1r23vk&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action
4 months ago
0
3
1
loading . . .
Philippa Perry on Substack
After my post on the difficulty of finding a mate, the is a question and answer about why friendships can be hard.
https://substack.com/@philippaperry/note/c-133818531?r=1r23vk&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=notes-share-action
4 months ago
0
3
1
Grief, bereavement, sadness - how to live with it
api.omarshehata.me/substack-pro...
loading . . .
Ask Philippa: Griefā¦
ā¦comes, recedes, morphs into a different form and bites you on the bumā¦
https://api.omarshehata.me/substack-proxy/articles/philippaperry-substack-com-p-ask-philippa-grief.html
4 months ago
1
6
1
Should a wife share her husbandās interests?
loading . . .
My wife doesn't share my passion
Never mind!
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/my-wife-doesnt-share-my-passion
4 months ago
1
15
3
reposted by
Philippa Perry
MaidenOver š§
4 months ago
Brilliant item, wholly reccommend a read. I mentally ticked off a fair few things in my life in there....
add a skeleton here at some point
0
5
1
reposted by
Philippa Perry
Weāve an unwillingly single epidemic! I investigate.
loading . . .
Alone, but not by choice
Why are so many people single without wanting to be?
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/alone-but-not-by-choice
4 months ago
0
6
2
reposted by
Philippa Perry
James Tringham
4 months ago
Btw, you once said to my that I am not thoughts and I can choose to interact with them, or not. One of the most helpful things anyone has ever said to me. Ta.
0
10
1
Weāve an unwillingly single epidemic! I investigate.
loading . . .
Alone, but not by choice
Why are so many people single without wanting to be?
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/alone-but-not-by-choice
4 months ago
0
6
2
Are you making yourself unintentionally unavailable for love? Read on
loading . . .
Are you stuck in the Friend Zone?
Get out of the habit of unrequited love
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/are-you-stuck-in-the-friend-zone
4 months ago
2
1
0
loading . . .
My Parents dump their misery onto me
How to put down a boundary without cruelty and an essay about writing letters
https://open.substack.com/pub/philippaperry/p/my-parents-dump-their-misery-onto?utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web
5 months ago
0
6
3
reposted by
Philippa Perry
Anton_ella āØ
5 months ago
This is a wonderful episode to watch. The answer to the question āwhat was the moment in your life that changed the way you think about loveā really got me. š
add a skeleton here at some point
4
13
2
reposted by
Philippa Perry
This was a tough email to answer because I felt there was so much I wasnāt been told. How would you have responded?
loading . . .
āHe accused me of attempted murderā
And yet, theyāre still together
https://open.substack.com/pub/philippaperry/p/he-accused-me-of-attempted-murder?r=1r23vk&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false
5 months ago
2
5
1
This was a tough email to answer because I felt there was so much I wasnāt been told. How would you have responded?
loading . . .
āHe accused me of attempted murderā
And yet, theyāre still together
https://open.substack.com/pub/philippaperry/p/he-accused-me-of-attempted-murder?r=1r23vk&utm_campaign=post&utm_medium=web&showWelcomeOnShare=false
5 months ago
2
5
1
loading . . .
āHe accused me of attempted murderā
And yet, theyāre still together
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/he-accused-me-of-attempted-murder
5 months ago
0
0
0
Feminism asked women to become something new. And it asked men to give up something that they didnāt understand they had.
loading . . .
Ask Philippa: Her life. His Rules.
She settled. Now she's waking up.
https://open.substack.com/pub/philippaperry/p/ask-philippa-her-life-his-rules?r=1r23vk&utm_medium=ios
5 months ago
1
13
1
How to find and keep love, according to me and Rylan
www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/epis...
loading . . .
Rylan: How to Be... - How to Be in Love: 4. Philippa Perry
Rylan is joined by psychotherapist Philippa Perry who interrogates what could be holding him back from finding long-lasting love.
https://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/m002d4qv
5 months ago
0
13
2
reposted by
Philippa Perry
Richie D
5 months ago
Another absolutely banging episode from Rylan and
@pperry.bsky.social
. Gentle, funny and thought provoking. "We're they to sadly die, what would happen is that I would lose that part of me that I am when I'm with him."
#rightinthefeels
3
2
1
How to get your sex life back on track with your long term partner after you havenāt had sex for months/years
loading . . .
Ask Philippa: I want my sex life back
After having had a baby
https://philippaperry.substack.com/p/ask-philippa-i-want-my-sex-life-back
5 months ago
0
1
0
Load more
feeds!
log in