I was 33 the first time he told me it must be early menopause. I said no it couldn’t be. He said his sister said it could be. I never asked myself why he was talking to his sister about us. I only apologized and said I would try harder. And I did. I tried and tried and tried. #maritalcoercion

Swifties are lowercase maga.

Before you try HRT, try divorce. I didn’t have menopause. I had symptoms of menopause because I was being traumatized by my husband.

If you divorced an abusive husband I hope you’re talking to people about what he did. There are women going through the same thing and don’t know it’s abuse.

All I got out of my marriage was out.

An abusive man’s favorite word is but. But you said no last time. But women do it too. But men need sex. But you’re my wife. But if you don’t, I’ll cheat. But I did the dishes. But what did you do? But what was she wearing? But she was 18.

Telling a woman she can give a baby up for adoption as an alternative to abortion is like telling a rape victim, “what are you crying about, he’s not raping you anymore?“  She still has to live with the trauma.

“But that’s not legal.” The law is a love poem without someone to enforce it.

Men who prey on women wouldn’t be caught dead dressed as one.

I don’t have the energy to spare for Taylor Swift’s music but I will say, from what others are sharing of her lyrics, I’m pretty sure men are not a good muse for her.

I know I’m early But I had no reason to wait We said we’d meet at nine But lover take your time A lot can happen before a date I don’t mind being early Time is only a farthing The table is dressed The coffee is pressed And I’m busy watching the starlings

Much like the onion, SNL isn’t funny anymore because it’s real now.

Talking about what “over them” means. open.substack.com/pub/natlajun...

Apparently this is a hot take, but I don’t believe you’re a girls girl if you have conditions on what makes someone a girl, or whether or not you support them

Everyone is deleting tiktok accounts. Be kind to us for awhile. It’s not an easy thing to do. Some of us have made over 20,000 videos on that app.

Either he’s a liar and a jackass or he’s an idiot and a dingbat. In 30+ years using the internet I’ve managed to get my birth date right every time.

When I use voice-to-text, Neurotypical is capitalized and neurodivergent is not.

The ONLY reason this man is still president is because everyone with the power to remove him wants him there.

People don’t recognize abuse in their relationships because their family abused them first and they thought it was normal

Charlie Kirk has asked that no one have empathy. I think it’s the least we can do for him.

A chess piece was just moved and there are a few more turns.

A list of “he didn’t force me but” notes. I’m working on compiling them for a guided journal about sexual coercion for women healing from this particular abuse. #maritalcoercion

Sometimes when I see somebody being a real tool in the comments, I think it’s a nice courtesy to remind him, “this is the kind of thing that gets you handcuffed to a roof in the walking dead.”

I’ve been shifting away from TikTok all year, but it has been my “home” online for 5 years. It’s sad to let it go, but it’s not safe there anymore. I’m putting my energy into Substack and Patreon now (lots of free content still), and will be posting a little less on social media.

The moon is an 🍊 tonight

Epstein in witness protection would be something else, wouldn’t it?

A man just told me “getting told no did some damage” on a post about women being rejected for saying no. Women: coerced, abused, raped Men: bummed they don’t get laid

What if the state of the world is what it is right now because everyone believed it would happen this way.

Men who objectify women always comment on appearances. So the best defense is to get real comfy in your body. Nothing anyone says can hurt me unless it’s an insecurity I have already. 😘

TikTok just found out they’re shutting it down for real in 2026, to replace it with a different app that’s US only. They desperately want us to stop getting information from outside. As far as I know, that was the last place we could interact with people from around the world so easily.

When you hear rumors of a rigged election, don’t focus on whether or not it’s true. Focus on who wants to hide the fact that it could be. Because it only takes one person to find gold for the whole world to start digging.

My 30th reunion is next month and I’m not even a little bummed I won’t be there.

I’ve been saying “asleep to” instead of blind or ignorant and it’s changing my conversations. People naturally think of themselves in the opposing state: not blind, not ignorant. It’s much more fruitful to have them imagine themselves as awakened to.

Christianity is a pyramid scheme, and Easter is that big conference every year where they get together and worship the founder.

Some personal news: the Department of Homeland Security has given me, an immigration lawyer born in Newton, Massachusetts, seven days to leave the U.S. Does anyone know if you can get Italian citizenship through great-grandparents?

The people can no longer afford to make the billionaires richer.

I don’t argue with men anymore, I just tell them I’m embarrassed 

Controlled burns protect wildlife and humans

Don’t wait for the Jedi. Become the Jedi.

If the goal is to immobilize a population and then to force the poor into homeschool and the rich into private schools, aviation disasters and school shootings would be a good start. Don’t let fear make decisions for you.

The so called male loneliness epidemic is a direct result of the centuries long female interrelationship loneliness epidemic that came before it.

Sometimes I think about my ex and get really sad. He’s missed out on so much with me. Poor dude.

On threads. In a conversation about men raping women, he’s insistent that we stop talking about men as rapists and say it’s women. www.threads.net/@natlajune/p...

A man is arguing with me about consent and thinks drunk is consenting. I ask if he’s done something he’s ashamed of, and he tells me he’s been married 19 years. I’m sure he didn’t mean he’s ashamed of his marriage, but I pose a follow up question about how many times he’s gotten his wife drunk. 🦗🦗🦗

Trying to have conversations with men about controlling their sperm. I ask them if they have control over their saliva. Somehow they’re unable to make the correlation between spitting on people and ejaculating inside of them. Both require consent.

Some women want to be trad wives but they don’t know that trad wives don’t get to decide when they have sex.

Peak irony: the White House is mad because people have decided to dead name the Gulf.

Find your bird and set it free

What if every time the handmaid‘s tale is mentioned, we are manifesting it into becoming true? There’s a reason Ivanka and her daughter dressed the way they did for the inauguration. They want it to come to fruition and they use our fear to do it.

Corporations are driven by fear. Many of them won’t stand up to this president, nor will many government officials for the same reason. We can’t depend on them to stop anything. We have to look to ourselves. What can we do?