Realizing on threads that MAGA literally have the mental capacity of a third grader. It’s not that they don’t want to hear the truth—they simply can’t process the information if it isn’t fed to them by their trusted propaganda dispensaries.

I’m on Foto 😁 the.fotoapp.co/natlajune

Are you demisexual or do you have a partner who is emotionally unavailable and you’re just not aroused sexually due to neglect?

Seductress 1/27/2026

Men worry about your feelings about once for every 18 times you worry about theirs. So if you worry a little less it won’t harm them.

The majority of organizing happening in Minnesota isn’t just peaceful, it’s INVISIBLE. Moms showing up who won’t be interviewed on TV, people whose ICE patrols don’t turn into viral video. The grocery runs, the donations, the people filming bc they happen to be there. Please remember this.

Radical autonomy honors my partner’s right to be exactly who he is. Any reservations I have are mine to hold. open.substack.com/pub/natlajun...

When a man I’m interested in pulls away, I’m disappointed, but in the way you’re disappointed when you’re just getting to the good part of a book and you have to put it down. It sucks not getting to explore him more but there will be other books, other adventures.

Is anyone still using Bluesky or are we all on threads now?

Women who left abusive marriages and tried counseling first, what’s one thing the couples counselor said that made it worse?

Sometimes I wonder if love is not to stay As I’m covered in the cries Of weary and worn believers I question the guides when I pray Is there really another life to live Than to be a lover to leavers?

Christians are abusing and terrorizing each other in their homes and churches every day, but sure, let’s talk about how meditation is of the devil

I was 33 the first time he told me it must be early menopause. I said no it couldn’t be. He said his sister said it could be. I never asked myself why he was talking to his sister about us. I only apologized and said I would try harder. And I did. I tried and tried and tried. #maritalcoercion

Swifties are lowercase maga.

Before you try HRT, try divorce. I didn’t have menopause. I had symptoms of menopause because I was being traumatized by my husband.

If you divorced an abusive husband I hope you’re talking to people about what he did. There are women going through the same thing and don’t know it’s abuse.

All I got out of my marriage was out.

An abusive man’s favorite word is but. But you said no last time. But women do it too. But men need sex. But you’re my wife. But if you don’t, I’ll cheat. But I did the dishes. But what did you do? But what was she wearing? But she was 18.

Telling a woman she can give a baby up for adoption as an alternative to abortion is like telling a rape victim, “what are you crying about, he’s not raping you anymore?“  She still has to live with the trauma.

“But that’s not legal.” The law is a love poem without someone to enforce it.

Men who prey on women wouldn’t be caught dead dressed as one.

I don’t have the energy to spare for Taylor Swift’s music but I will say, from what others are sharing of her lyrics, I’m pretty sure men are not a good muse for her.

I know I’m early But I had no reason to wait We said we’d meet at nine But lover take your time A lot can happen before a date I don’t mind being early Time is only a farthing The table is dressed The coffee is pressed And I’m busy watching the starlings

Much like the onion, SNL isn’t funny anymore because it’s real now.

Talking about what “over them” means. open.substack.com/pub/natlajun...

Apparently this is a hot take, but I don’t believe you’re a girls girl if you have conditions on what makes someone a girl, or whether or not you support them

Everyone is deleting tiktok accounts. Be kind to us for awhile. It’s not an easy thing to do. Some of us have made over 20,000 videos on that app.

Either he’s a liar and a jackass or he’s an idiot and a dingbat. In 30+ years using the internet I’ve managed to get my birth date right every time.

When I use voice-to-text, Neurotypical is capitalized and neurodivergent is not.

The ONLY reason this man is still president is because everyone with the power to remove him wants him there.

People don’t recognize abuse in their relationships because their family abused them first and they thought it was normal

Charlie Kirk has asked that no one have empathy. I think it’s the least we can do for him.

A chess piece was just moved and there are a few more turns.

A list of “he didn’t force me but” notes. I’m working on compiling them for a guided journal about sexual coercion for women healing from this particular abuse. #maritalcoercion

Sometimes when I see somebody being a real tool in the comments, I think it’s a nice courtesy to remind him, “this is the kind of thing that gets you handcuffed to a roof in the walking dead.”

I’ve been shifting away from TikTok all year, but it has been my “home” online for 5 years. It’s sad to let it go, but it’s not safe there anymore. I’m putting my energy into Substack and Patreon now (lots of free content still), and will be posting a little less on social media.

The moon is an 🍊 tonight

Epstein in witness protection would be something else, wouldn’t it?

A man just told me “getting told no did some damage” on a post about women being rejected for saying no. Women: coerced, abused, raped Men: bummed they don’t get laid

What if the state of the world is what it is right now because everyone believed it would happen this way.

Men who objectify women always comment on appearances. So the best defense is to get real comfy in your body. Nothing anyone says can hurt me unless it’s an insecurity I have already. 😘

TikTok just found out they’re shutting it down for real in 2026, to replace it with a different app that’s US only. They desperately want us to stop getting information from outside. As far as I know, that was the last place we could interact with people from around the world so easily.

When you hear rumors of a rigged election, don’t focus on whether or not it’s true. Focus on who wants to hide the fact that it could be. Because it only takes one person to find gold for the whole world to start digging.

My 30th reunion is next month and I’m not even a little bummed I won’t be there.

I’ve been saying “asleep to” instead of blind or ignorant and it’s changing my conversations. People naturally think of themselves in the opposing state: not blind, not ignorant. It’s much more fruitful to have them imagine themselves as awakened to.

Christianity is a pyramid scheme, and Easter is that big conference every year where they get together and worship the founder.

Some personal news: the Department of Homeland Security has given me, an immigration lawyer born in Newton, Massachusetts, seven days to leave the U.S. Does anyone know if you can get Italian citizenship through great-grandparents?

The people can no longer afford to make the billionaires richer.

I don’t argue with men anymore, I just tell them I’m embarrassed 

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