can i be your muse?

Getting all these good morning messages when I literally just crawled into bed

To rave or not to rave – on fence if I want to go to this afters tonight.

Today was a long ass work day. That post-work shower literally saved my sanity

Just a butch queen

“This isn’t the America I know” Black People:

Me, a vegan, unbothered by this news

The conversation we’re not ready to have yet is that having empathy for a white supremacist is part of what upholds white supremacy. And by that measure alone, it fails to be empathy at all.

What is it called… poetic justice?

This edible is definitely doing its job

I found my go-to coffee spot in my neighborhood.

Hard to believe it’s already been one month since we made DC are home. No regrets and in alignment with everything we’ve imagined for our lives.

We’re basically the same #humpday

Living near a university for folks who are deaf/hard at hearing has me inspired to learn sign language.

Weekend #3 as a DC gay

Three years ago today, I made the decision to stop drinking alcohol. It has been one of the best decisions I’ve ever made – and I don’t see myself drinking it again. Cheers to 3 years of being alcohol-free!

Yeah, she does

When hump day and post-pull day collide

Pool gay, Sunday

not going lie, got offended when I saw a yt person used the 🥷🏿 emoji on sniffies. It’s an automatic block

DC is FORTY-ONE PERCENT Black. Do you understand?

Trump will federalize D.C. police, deploy the National Guard, & send the FBI after homeless people to combat a made-up crisis in D.C. But on Jan. 6th when violent insurrectionists stormed the Capitol he couldn't be bothered to call the National Guard. Make it make sense.

Flexing for one whole week as a DC gay

My new neighborhood is so cute! Plus there’s a Trader Joe’s and Whole Foods within walking distance.

Moving to a new city means taking yourself on dates to find a new gym.

I didn’t make it to the streets – just the sheets 🙃

After 48 hours, the new place is starting to feel like home. Time to hit the streets!!

The new place is coming together, but still in shambles. Nevertheless, it’s home ☺️

Last selfie as a Queen City gay. It’s been too long since I’ve written something for myself, but I’m writing a piece about new beginnings – coming soon.

Last locker room selfie for hump day 🍑

You know the neighborhood is changing when a yt woman moves into the neighborhood crack house.

Finally watching KPop Demon Hunters.

Oh look, another locker room selfie

Don’t feel like working anymore – time to go work on my tiddies.

Four faves, no starters

Less than two weeks until I’m officially a DC gay 😬

I really like this locker room selfie I took over the weekend.

A fuck buddy recently told me that since knowing me it has made him softer and kinder. It’s a great compliment in alignment with how I treat people, no matter our connection.

she’s a swimmer 🏊🏾‍♂️

Had my last session with my therapist before I move; we’ve been together for 3 years.

Just found a new vegan pizza spot a couple weeks before I move to a whole new city 😭

Bonne Drag Race France All Stars jour! 🇫🇷 Très excité pour cette saison. Quelqu’un d’autre regarde? J’ai besoin que les gens kiki à ce sujet.

This might be harsh, but it’s a turn-off for me when someone uses “clean” when asking about someone’s HIV status.

Twas tiddy Tuesday.

Traps sponsored by my 10 years of swimming

I wish iPhones had a setting that switches the interface to a left-handed mode.

Cutting SNAP and Medicaid impacts everyone. I need it to click. Fuck.

The One, Big Ugly Bill passes the House… these assholes chose tax breaks for billionaires over the basic needs of millions of families, defunding SNAP and Medicaid - programs necessary for families to simply live.

Wearing this headscarf out in public + getting compliments = making it my whole personality