W/we’re also guests on Insert Here’s latest episode! Busy day 🥳 open.spotify.com/episode/3g7s...

Today’s podcast episode is about #sadism and #masochism - what playing with pain does for U/us, the universal human need to understand pain, and how s&p is different from dominance and submission #kink #bdsm kirizal.com/dontscarethe...

long Teams meetings are gonna end up expensive because i looked at my own face for too long and now i’m googling buccal fat removal 😩

New podcast episode today, all about breathplay. Link is for spotify, also up on most podcast platforms & youtube #kink #bdsm open.spotify.com/episode/6k57...

Trick or treaters turned up a day early and i had to rummage through the kitchen to find where Mx had stored the sweets, failed, and presented them with piles of biscoff biscuits. Seemed to be a popular alternative to be fair

Mobile games with microtransactions do not understand me… i will not pay for coins or lives or power ups but i would absolutely empty my bank account to pay you to let me skip levels that are pissing me off i want to RELAX

New episode day AND an event announcement! Exciting times? If you wanna hear U/us host O/our first ever guest talking body image, sensuality and life modelling, or wanna come hear me yap about kink live and in person, then check out these! Pod and ticket links are at kirizal.com #kinkpodcast #kink

Just a lil teaser for tomorrow because trust me you do NOT wanna miss this one. A mystery announcement, O/our first guest, and all the usual chaos and spice!

kirizal.com/dontscarethe... New episode day is upon us again! This week is continuing on from last week where W/we talked BDSM contracts, this week W/we’re talking rules, protocol, and punishment #kink #bdsm #podcast

Editing a podcast episode and Mx had to leave the room and asked me to pause so They don’t miss any because They’re *enjoying listening to it* which is a first. They’ve been cringing to death at Their own voice since W/we started recording back in July 😅

Shoutout to Mx for powering through not one but two podcast recordings today with a horrible cold. Editing out all the coughs might be a bit of a challenge but talking for three hours was definitely harder for Them 😅

youtu.be/V-2MW4ZF22M?... Watched this today (there’s 5 parts and it is well worth your time) - really important BDSM history & gay history that everyone should know more about

New episode- #bdsm contracts, me and Mx share all the details of O/our contract and talk negotiation, legality, and lots more! #podcast #kink kirizal.com/dontscarethe...

Just finished writing up the recording and editing schedule for the next few weeks - if W/we stick to it by 30th Nov W/we’ll have episodes fully done up to Feb 12th and can then take a few weeks off 🥳

Maisie Peters dropping the most perfect love song while i was in Cyprus was both entirely predictable (she announced it last week) and still managed to hit me like a train. i wanted to be immortal now i’m fine with growing old 🥰

if anyone was wondering what drinking with me is like, Mx has just threatened to go on a sex strike if i don’t stop calling cum “laundry sauce”

This week’s episode is here - ‘Controlled Violations: Consensual Non-Consent and Modifying Consent for Kink’ - all about CNC play and dynamics #kink #podcast kirizal.com/dontscarethe...

“Something I’ve been ignoring starts to creep up on me in the Cyprus sunsets, and I start to look for a certain name in my notifications, and pretend I wasn’t waiting for it when I see it. They’re keen, nothing to do with me. Right?” From my kink journal Nov 2023 kirizal.com/2025/10/07/f...

Seen some people complaining TLOAS isn’t relatable - i recommend listening to it in a securely attached relationship with a person who looks at you like you’re Their whole world. Helps if They’re 6’5 with a massive cock. Just saying 👀

Loving my analytics revealing today that a LOT of O/our podcast listeners are Swifties 😂 absolutely dead day and i’m happy to see it, i also have been putting absolutely nothing in my ears other than TLOAS

New episode out now - 31 Days of #kink: Beating a Olay Slump. W/we talk about making time for intimacy in all kinds of relationships, and O/our 31 day challenge to play more #bdsm #podcast kirizal.com/dontscarethe...

Podcast recordings are done up until early December, and editing up to early November 🥳 Very proud of how on top of things W/we’ve managed to stay! The problem is now i’m so impatient to share ALL the episodes

If anyone is interested, here's a petition asking the government to not introduce digital ID petition.parliament.uk/petitions/73...

as a fan of noncon, dubcon and under/non-negotiated cnc this is honestly one of the most straightforward explanations of this i've ever read?

me: *explaining to Mx what kind of things i wanna cover in a podcast episode about anal* Mx: oh god, you’re going to make Me talk about having a big penis aren’t you? me: oh yes. Yes i am.

i need someone to explain to me why spending one day in the office yesterday has tired me out more than getting actually literally tortured for three hours on Saturday did. it’s not even the job, i love my job and working from home it’s very chill, but something about the office kills me

Episode 5 is out now - ‘i Can Do This All Day: O/our First Interrogation’ all about the process of planning and doing an interrogation scene, from ambitious concepts, technical setup, emotional impact, strategy, through to aftercare. #kink #bdsm #podcast

“Not this second. Not the next. Everyone breaks, given enough time, but i lost track of time a long time ago and it’s not fucking real anymore.” Another post for the morning crowd - my first experience of interrogation play #kink #bdsm #blog kirizal.com/2025/09/22/n...

“They set down a watering can on the side. They set down a bowl, and i catch a glimpse of soaked cheesecloth. i want to look away. i physically recoil. But i force myself to look. “Do you want to know how long you’ve been in here?”” kirizal.com/2025/09/22/n...

Post interrogation. i won! 3 hours done, didn’t give up the info & the only full sentence i said was “i can do this all day”, though admittedly there were a good few “oh god, no, please” moments after that (it is not wise to wind up a Sadist). Blog post coming soon, i’m still collecting my thoughts

setup done for the interrogation scene later - three projectors (with built in speakers), an extra speaker, cctv camera with built in mic and siren, plastic sheeting. And that’s before Mx brings in any of the ✨implements✨ They’ll be using. So many possibilities 👀

i think the interrogation scene W/we’re doing tomorrow must be the most W/we’ve ever spent on kink kit for a specific scene. W/we have more expensive stuff, but three mini projectors for (so far) one evening’s play feels the most excessive 😅

Can confirm it wasn’t nice at all, but briefly hilarious when literally as Mx was blindfolding me to get started They were like “hang on… i need to look up some information” and it turned out They had forgotten my birth name which was a key part of the (awful) scene

New episode day! Longest and spiciest episode yet - and also my personal favourite of the ones W/we’ve recorded so far. Chatting about kink and sex and how they intersect for U/us, shame, sexual function, and lots more. Available in all the places, enjoy 🥳 #kink #bdsm #podcast

me: what are W/we doing tonight Mx? Mx: you don’t need to know that me: will it be something nice Mx? Mx: No. so that’s terrifying 😂

Trying to find a clip of the next Don’t Scare the Newbies! episode to promote it with on tiktok but it’s about sex and it is just too spicy 😂 not a single minute of it that isn’t full of algorithm-killing words. Really making me realise how often W/we say penis 😂

i’m into some painful stuff including actual real torture but i still think the most agonizing thing i suffer is making pulled pork in the slow cooker for 10 hours right next to my work desk. i can smell it ALL DAY but not eat it yet 😭

kirizal.com/2025/09/10/t... “When dominance is deeply inherent it does not need to be displayed in every moment, to every person. When it is performed, it is targeted, precise, and carries the weight of all that quiet confidence behind it. It is undeniable.” FINALLY a new blog post! #kink #bdsm

It’s new podcast episode day 🥳 this one is all about communication in D/s relationships- consent, negotiation, and how W/we structure O/our monthly check ins (with some clips from one of O/our actual check ins included) #kink #bdsm kirizal.com/dontscarethe...

So many Swifties are buying the orange lipstick Taylor wore on New Heights and i support you guys but i am self aware enough to know that i smoke too much and drink too much coffee to wear a warm toned lipstick 😂

i try not to value my content by the analytics because social media is fickle and a handful of people who get something from my posts are more valuable than lots of casual impressions… but fuck me. the podcast numbers. i might actually cry. you lot have made my day 🖤

Episodes 1&2 of Don’t Scare the Newbies! are now available everywhere! i set it for 5am release so it’d be ready for people when they woke up i wasn’t expecting to see the streams going up this early - some of you were really keen!!!

Into the final week before the podcast starts - 11 episodes recorded, 4 fully edited, pages live and ready to follow on all platforms, Mx losing Their mind because They’ve just been hit by the reality that people are actually going to listen to this, all go go go 😂 AND already planning season 2

it’s coming! Finally ready to share that O/our podcast has a name and a release date - Don’t Scare the Newbies! will be available everywhere 3rd September, with my partner joining me as co-host!

kirizal.com/2025/07/27/s... “The me who’s here now can’t say yes to this. Past and future me have that covered. For this little piece of disconnected time, cut cleanly and brutally from the whole, They entrust that yes to Mx. To hold, to take, to desecrate. In this moment i will know only no.”

Using my tiktoks to try to work out when i last washed this bra (it’s not good news…)

just listened to the first two episodes of O/our podcast 👀 yes, O/our, i have somehow managed to convince Mx to be my cohost 🥳🥳🥳

this morning i cried because i have gained (a tiny amount) of weight and this evening i suggested W/we order the “family feast” deal from a local dessert takeaway (3 cakes each) and if that doesn’t sum up the luteal phase nothing does

my slow cooker is one of the best things for me as a busy sub but it is also absolute torture working from home 5ft away from it. Been able to smell Spanish chicken & chorizo all day and can’t eat it yet 😭

“business meetings” between two self employed people are chaotic as shit because why did i just drink a bottle of wine with a stranger on a monday evenings? the vibes? yeah and it was great no regrets