A kinkster asked for our take on D/s, domestic discipline, and trad wives. So we compare and contrast them in this week's episode.

It's Wednesday and we're going live at 3pm ET. This week's topic is from a question sent to us. A kinkster wanted to know our take on power exchange vs domestic discipline vs trad wives so that's what we're talking about. youtube.com/live/iuwnz_K...

This is not the first time we've discussed shame, but it's always a good conversation to have. It can and will show up in unexpected ways, including in your kink life. Kayla shares her recent experience with shame that was unexpected.

It's Wednesday - we're going live at 3pm ET We're going back to a topic we discussed in 2020 - dealing with shame in kink. Not kink-shaming, specifically - we've done that episode too. This is about internalized feelings of shame. youtube.com/live/i_AO9aZ...

This week, we're answering 10 questions that are supposed to show if we *really* know each other. Feel free to use these questions with your own partner.

We're going live at 3pm ET this week, a brand new time! This week we're answering 10 questions from Therapy Jeff that he says you can answer if you know your partner well youtube.com/live/t07Mp1r... The video playback will be available after the live, and the audio podcast will be out on Friday.

This week, we answered your kinky questions covering topics from overcoming fears to feeling dominant when you're shorter than your sub to the start of our D/s relationship.

We're going live at 7pm ET tonight! This week, we're answering questions asked over on IG (at that handle Kayla fucking hates 😂). Watch here: youtube.com/live/MQyA0bk... If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available, and the audio podcast will be out on Friday.

In this week's episode, we answer questions from the kinky side of Reddit from a sub who won't use their safeword to a Dom who promised a collar but won't keep their word.

It's Wednesday, so yes of course we're going live starting at 7pm ET! This week we're doing a BDSM Reddit response episode! youtube.com/live/-RoBtZb... If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available, and the audio podcast will be out on Friday.

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This week, we're sharing what we're doing now in our D/s that we shared in past episodes: aging, libido, depression, finances, and more.

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JB said he thinks everything will work like it's supposed to for the stream tonight, so we *think* we're having a live stream at 7pm ET. youtube.com/live/z4GoSdH... If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available, and the audio podcast will be out on Friday.

It's Wednesday, so we're going live at 7pm ET. This week, we're giving updates on how we do things or what's changed (or not) from previous episodes including aging, libido, finances, and more. youtube.com/live/z4GoSdH... The audio version will be out on podcast apps on Friday.

Different kinky concepts are popping up in non-kink spaces and in non-kinky ways. Does this mean BDSM is being normalized? Or is it something else?

It's Wednesday, September 3 and we're going live at 7pm ET. This week's topic is on the "normalization" of kink. youtube.com/live/feGiamp... If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available, and the audio version will be out on Friday.

Since our Monday Q&A episodes are on hiatus, we decided to do a longer version this week - in the most chaotic way possible.

It's Wednesday, so of course we're going live starting at 7pm ET! Since we're not recording the Monday Q&A episodes right now, we thought we'd clear up our inbox a little and answer a couple of questions in a regular episode. youtube.com/live/klDpeb6...

We respond to posts from the kinky side of Reddit like getting a sunburn for a kink scene to Doms who don't want anyone to know about their relationship.

It's Wednesday, August 20, and we're going live at 7pm ET for this week's podcast episode. And it's a BDSM Reddit Response episode! Rants are never a guarantee but there's always a good chance of at least one, lol. youtube.com/live/alt6xc-...

This week, we're celebrating by looking back at how we got here, answering some questions, and looking to the future of the podcast.

This week is the 10th anniversary podcast episode!!! The stream begins at 7pm ET. We're doing a few things for this podcast - looking back, looking forward, and answering questions. youtube.com/live/FzSZzVQ... The audio podcast will be out on Friday - the official anniversary date!

Part of getting back to the D/s life we want means trying out tools that can help us. In this week's episode, we share how we used the Obedience app and how it's helped us.

We're going live tonight (Wednesday, August 6) at 7pm ET. For this week's episode, we're talking about our experience using the Obedience app.. youtube.com/live/Pcj9SN4... If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available and the audio podcast will be out on Friday!

This year has been about getting back to a version of the D/s life we both want to have...and we're discovering that it can be uneven and not at all a straight line from point A to point B.

We had to take last week off to be good parents, but we're back this week with our weekly live stream and podcast episode. We're talking about the non-linear, uneven return to our D/s life. Watch the stream on YouTube starting at 7pm ET youtube.com/live/-HtHFRK...

The viral version of "princess treatment" has been compared to power exchange - let's actually talk about that and see if the comparison holds up to scrutiny.

The questions are definitely weird and out there.

We're going live today, Wednesday, July 9 at 7pm ET for this week's episode. We're keeping it light by answering "unhinged" relationship questions posted by Therapy Jeff on IG. youtube.com/live/lfLSX5Y... The video playback will be available, and the audio podcast will be out on Friday.

All kink is risky and has the potential to cause harm but some ways to play are the things people are told NOT to do for safety purposes. What are the ethics of engaging in that play and what should the community do about it?

We're going live on YouTube at 7pm ET tonight for this week's podcast episode! Our topic is on the ethics and responsibilities with high-risk kink scenes and play. The risks that aren't in doubt or only caused by mistakes. youtube.com/live/nWF_AMh... The audio-only podcast will be out on Friday.

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By special request, let's talk about how to incorporate kink in your special moments like birthdays, anniversaries, etc. And no, it doesn't require spending a lot of money.

We're going live on YouTube at 7pm ET! This week's topic is about incorporating kink into special days like birthdays, anniversaries, etc. If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available and the audio podcast will be out on Friday. youtube.com/live/6YYjLTu...

Of course we're still learning new things but we're the ones who will share with all of y'all, too! This is a back and forth conversational episode where we learn some new truths about each other.

We're going live on YT at 7pm ET. What are we talking about this week? We have no fucking clue, but we'll figure it out by 7pm at the latest, lol. If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available, and the audio podcast will be out on Friday. youtube.com/live/oPdbwdq...

We're back after an unplanned week off to respond to the kinky side of Reddit. One person wonders if they were too honest. Another wants to play without a safeword. And yes, one post got Kayla ranting, lol.

A submissive wants to get their relationship back into D/s but their Dominant isn't initiating or following through. The sub worries they're asking for too much.

After an extra long break, we're easing back into things with a kinky Q&A! Questions include planning a 3some with one Dom and two subs, two subs in a relationship together, and re-igniting the D/s spark in the relationship.

We're going live at 1pm ET today with a kinky ask us anything! We took questions on IG, and we'll probably take them during the live stream. youtube.com/live/7B9Fuss... If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available, and the audio podcast will be out on Friday.

We won't have a live stream or podcast episode this week because we're having our kitchen floor replaced - and there's too much noise and chaos to keep our regular schedule. Also, Lola doesn't agree with any of this (iykyk) and she's making her voice heard ALL DAY LONG. So we'll be back next week!

A submissive was introduced to kink by a Dominant partner but the relationship ended before they could get any real experience. Now they're wondering where to go from here.

We've been on a break this week but we're back tonight (Friday, May 16) at 9pm ET for our monthly virtual munch/live stream! If you enjoy the bonus section every week, it's like that but more chaotic. The kinky Q&A starts at 9:30pm ET. youtube.com/live/cdt-I7R...

In our experience, the best way to be consistent in anything is to figure out some kind of routine. It can be as structured (or not) as you want it to be. This week, we're sharing a few tips on how to figure out that routine for your power exchange.

We're going live at 1pm ET for this week's podcast episode! The topic: How to be consistent in your dynamic Spoiler: We think you need a routine. If you can't watch live, the video playback will be available, and the audio version will be out on Friday. buff.ly/XavBBJ1

Q&A: How Do I Stop Apologizing While Topping?

Whether you're a parent or you're a caregiver for an adult, it's going to impact your D/s relationship. That's normal. Too many people think they're doing D/s wrong when it happens. So let's talk about it.

This week, we continue our "real world D/s" series by discussing how to maintain your dynamic when you care for others (children or adults). The live stream begins at 1pm ET and the audio-only version will be on podcast apps Friday. youtube.com/live/eQbNKpG...