Hey, huge special shout out thank you to the hotel cleaning people picking up gross towels and dealing with people’s mess and still finding the courage to make the bed nicely and artfully arrange the in-room coffee station. I see you. I appreciate you. #hotel #cleaningstaff #thankyou

Off to #Seattle! See you soon ;)

Speaking of Seattle, I’ll be available from the 17-21st for sessions! WS lovers, book now or forever hold your pee. #Seattle #tour #kink #companion

Predictably, I spend 6 days driving 3,500 miles across the US, from Portland to West Palm Beach, and immediately book a FMTY appointment. In Seattle. Friends, you can book me when I’m near you. You don’t have to make my job an ecological disaster. #fmty #SW #Seattle #WPB

#Chicago, here I come! Can’t wait to rub up on that bean.

Prepping for my drive to Chicago and planning on gracing the great state of #Nebraska for the first time ever. Is there anything I need to complete the experience, besides a ‘Runza?’

Hi friends! I recently discovered I’ve been used as bait for a catfishing scam. If any account using my picture asks you for money through Zelle, it’s not me! It’s… weirdly flattering? But mostly, ANNOYING!! #scam

Hi everyone! My friend (who totally saved my bacon by employing me) NEEDS YOUR HELP! TJ Christian, pastry chef extroidanaire, has entered the Greatest Bakers competition and is currently in 2nd place! Please, if you have 30 seconds to spare, VOTE FOR HIM HERE: greatestbaker.org/timothy-chri...

“What’s interesting about this?” I believe art is an individual’s unique response to that question. In that way, everyone is an artist, if they are brave enough to share their answers.

All philosophers were just #neurodivergent people trying to figure out the rules of the game.

Are you queer, sex-positive, and looking to connect at a deeper level with yourself and others? Then you need QUEER TANTRA- a workshop with the Body Electric School! ✨🌈🧘 I’ll be your coordinator for this fabulous 3-day intensive in Portland, OR— book before March and save $50 on registration!

I just got paid to talk on the phone with a guy as he fucked a burrito. Human sexuality is a blessing 😆 #SWorker #absurdism

In 2026 I would like to continue my current lifestyle, where I can be consensually beaten any given day of the week and not have to worry about explaining myself the next day. #impact

Always love a new play partner who can top for rope!

I wasn’t raised as a huge holiday person. I wish I had more traditions, but I can’t really backfill nostalgia for a mainstream American culture I never experienced. My current feelings about spending Thanksgiving alone: relief, indifference, and melancholy, in that order.

I sometimes struggle to convince T-bodied partners that tease and denial is a fun game. ✨ It’s physiological, friends✨ The amygdala lights up in response to uncertainty. Not knowing *when* or *whether* a reward is coming heightens anticipation and make the eventual release feel more intense.

Bittersweet call this morning from someone catfishing as a retired fashion model looking for a sugar baby. All she could talk about was dressing in silk gowns and taking a horse-drawn carriage to the opera… …and then marrying. She asked for my impression of her; I told her she’s beautiful.

More self tying practice! If only there were someone here to play with… #shibari #bdsm #rope #bondage #selftie #nsfw #onlyfans

Ugh. Someone decided to make my life in particular difficult. JUST. MINE. How unfair, right? Anyways, passerby, if you find this message, I love you! Good luck in your journey! You’re just as beautiful as I am.

New blog post is up! I get real nerdy breaking down the psychology behind a client’s fetish— for a Mormon-adjacent female-led church. Read it here ➜ mxcurly.com/blog/how-wor... #sexworkstories #phonesex #eroticpsychology #kinkeducation #pleasurescience #femaleledfantasy

Last night was my first private playdate in MONTHS— a glorious five hours of total surrender. 🤤 Kinky folx with healthy dynamics— Y’all. Are. **SO LUCKY.** #kinkcommunity #BDSM #consensualkink #healthydynamics #queerkink #switch

#estim wizard

✨NEW GEAR HAUL!!✨ Finally, the probe you’ve all been waiting for— plus a TON of fun e-stim goodies and a couple of inflatable insertables. Now, to find a willing guinea pig… #gearhaul #bdsm #kinky #estim #toys

"Thankfully grandfather died before he could witness his granddaughter's indecency"

This shoot gave major "Grandpa died and we're dripped out at the funeral" #photography #fungi

Hey y’all! Need something new to put in your butt so you don’t resort to the ol’ shampoo bottle? No shame, just… better options Excited to share my new partnership with The Lollipop Shop, purveyors of all things playful, kinky, and sexy! Use code CW15 for 15% off! I’d love to hear what you got 😉

Friendly reminder that the only things going in your ass should be FINGERS, COCKS, TONGUES, and TOYS DESIGNED FOR YOUR ASS. #sexeducation #sexsafety #safersex #analplay #anal #humor What Did We Get Stuck In Our Rectums Last Year? - defector.com/what-did-we-...

This is gonna take a while to clean up.. Full shoot photos and videos will be available in profile links very soon! 🎃🌱

Was getting too into it and needed to take the jacket off

Halloween Pumpkin carving! 🎃💀 Hopefully there won't be too much of a mess... #nsfwsky

‘Tis I, W.S. Urina, the golden child. On your knees, peasant, so I may shower you with my attention! …any guesses what this shoot was about? 💦

The doctor is in! #halloween #ass #wetlook #vinyl #fetish #costume

POV: You meet a mysterious stranger in a back alley, skin pale and cold, fangs only barely hidden. Who ends up sucking whom? #vampy #goth #boobs or #boos

There's a confidence that comes from working in a new space with clients new to BDSM. Knowing that I bring skills and experience they've never encountered before—and feeling prepared to guide them on their first steps along a path that's shaped so much of my own journey. I’m lucky to do this work.

It’s so delicious to discover a life-long friend is a fellow #kinkster… Especially when he confides he’s been locked in #chastity for MONTHS 🥰

Thoroughly enjoyed my time in Boise! Got wild with some #watersports and made plenty of #shibari friends. Also just dropped about $400 on new #estim gear— prepare to be shocked! ⚡️ 🧑‍🔬

Yeah. I like ‘em thicc. #foraging #mushroom #shrooms #kingbolete #nerd

If I wouldn’t string myself up for fun… why should anyone else trust me to do it? Lucky for all of us—I love a good self-suspension. 😉 #shibari #bondage #BDSM #selftie #rope #suspension

From ball pain, ball slips and why doesn’t my cage fit right? Today’s new vid is all about ways you might be doing chastity wrong! (And our tips to make it right!) @kink3d.com @mrkristofer.bsky.social Happy #locktober yall. youtu.be/rkXh1FbdAxs

Had a really good day holed up in the library, catching up on current biophysicalsociocultural research in BDSM. …what, is that NOT everyone’s idea of a good time?

Just a nice, relaxing day at the park 😜 #BDSM #shibari #rope #bondage

OMFG I just did needle play with a guy who’d never done it and he completely passed out. At the very end of the session I asked how intense the scene was and he shrugged and said “eh, a 3/10”

Had a very strong desire to be groped and inspected by Vespa while watching this video with @gothcharlotte.bsky.social reflectivedesire.com/videos/pleas...

Not my usual style, but hey! It was a request. #BDSM #worship #muscles #NSFW #femdom #strong

The turn of the seasons means my site has a fresh face! If you haven’t already, check out mxcurly.com and subscribe to my #newsletter— I work hard on that thing, dammit. #BDSM #tantra #education #sexeducation #writing

Planning another #tour for October! Where oh where to go next? #SW #SWer #touring #kink #spookyseason

I just had a very emotionally intense session with a client. I’m SUPER proud of the way I responded, but I’m still feeling upset. I’m also proud of the way I’m verbalizing, rather than flailing my psychological arms around like an allegorical tube man.

Absolutely love working with clients who go *all in*. One of mine built his own bespoke ball-busting table— I couldn’t help but admire the craftsmanship as I was kneeling his package; This is a man of taste, tools, and testicular ambition! #KinkCraft #CustomFurniture #BuiltToLast #DIYDomination

Currently planning a trip to Greece and once again getting sucked down the #ultralight rabbit-hole. Why does my brain fetishize optimization??

Back in Oregon and feeling refreshed after a windy, buggy, freezing cold trip to the Boundary Waters. …can you tell I’m a fan of #type2fun?