Everything’s so sensitive right now. I feel like an open wound.

Was lucky enough to attend a knife play class with the Taillor Group while in NYC. Turns out, I severely underestimated how sexy knives are 🔪 🥵 #knifeplay #knives #kinkunlock #newkink

And here I was having such a nice time listening to my hotel neighbors fucking…

Yep. It’s officially time to retreat and take a rest— just swallowed my suppository. Don’t worry, don’t worry, I DID call poison control and am currently diluting it with emergency oat meal. Goddammit. I need a keeper 🤦 #adhd #tired

Day has gone back to 👎!! I didn’t read the directions on the Nair bottle and now my legs look like I was strapped to the top of an ant hill 😭 This is NOT the level of polish I strive for, dammit! #nair #chemical #burn

It’s remarkable how fast you can go from: 👎 Freaking out over your sprawling and convoluted porn file-tree to 👍 Picnicking with the birds amongst *actual* trees and feeling remarkably OK.

Korean body scrub got me like #selfcare

Feeling the need to make the time to lose the time. Too bad I’m running on the New York minute until Saturday. #NYC

Can’t wait for the new pokemon game

I would like to propose a few new words to the #poly community: *comperse* (v): To express/feel compersion. “I compersed so hard watching how much fun you were having doing acro Shibari with your primary!”

After a long day of travel, I’m enjoying a sushi roll at a certified Kosher restaurant named Ricotta prepared by a Spanish-speaking kitchen. When they said “cultural melting pot,” they weren’t kidding! 🍣 ✡️🇮🇹

Eyeing the weather reports and crossing my fingers the weather behaves on Thursday… excited to see all my ropey friends at Tethered Together! #shibari #kinkynerd

Back in time for the snow! #chicago

I love it when you take your focus meds and you end up spending 2 hours hyper fixated on finding the PERFECT mermaid leggings for your upcoming rope conference… …instead of writing the two emails you’re supposed to be using that time for. -_-

I’m proud to announce I’ve reached a content creator milestone: My first Instagram has been deleted! Oh, Meta, how we love/hate you. Actually… mostly hate. #bigbrother #puritanical

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, ME! Take better care of us next year, yeah?

Sending you, dear reader, your perfect gourmet hug this Valentine’s Day 🥰

One of my friends sent me the Autistic Barbie and now she greets me ironically every time I go into my closet. #autism #asd #aac #neurodivergentrepresentation

Most of the time, who and what I want to be is #naked.

10 points to Gryffindor if you know what I’m doing 😜

Welp, we’ve reached peak androgyny— a date just looked me up and down and in a flash of panic blurted out “You’re a girl?! You’re way too masculine for me!!” before exiting the restaurant. Rejection stings but… I’m kinda proud 😆 #nonbinary #androgynous #genderconfusion #rejection #baddate

Psyched to drive to #Orlando this weekend. Not for Disney. Not for Epcot. For a workshop on cock-stroking with The Body Electric school!! Now that’s my kind of vacation ;P bodyelectric.org/celebrating-...

Cold is an illusion. Ditto pain.

Friendly reminder that if you choose to first acquaint me with your penis in two dimensions instead of in three, the only thing of mine you'll be coming in is my trash folder. Also, if you want an earnest explanation of why dick pics are not working for you—and how to maybe change that—peep this 🧵!

Biggest homophonic pet-peeve is when plastic packages are terribly untearable. #dadjoke #petpeeve #punintended

The first group is full of lovely ladies, but don’t fret; I’ve made a second starter pack where you can find even more active SW creators! ❤️ If you’d like to be added, please follow all and comment below! go.bsky.app/RZnwyjg ❤️

#selftie #masochist #suspension #shibari #kinbaku #rope

I’m not very good at self-promotion. Maybe that’s why social media has always been an enigma. Who cares about how many slices of avocado toast I eat in a year, or how I get ready in the morning?

Hey, huge special shout out thank you to the hotel cleaning people picking up gross towels and dealing with people’s mess and still finding the courage to make the bed nicely and artfully arrange the in-room coffee station. I see you. I appreciate you. #hotel #cleaningstaff #thankyou

Off to #Seattle! See you soon ;)

Speaking of Seattle, I’ll be available from the 17-21st for sessions! WS lovers, book now or forever hold your pee. #Seattle #tour #kink #companion

Predictably, I spend 6 days driving 3,500 miles across the US, from Portland to West Palm Beach, and immediately book a FMTY appointment. In Seattle. Friends, you can book me when I’m near you. You don’t have to make my job an ecological disaster. #fmty #SW #Seattle #WPB

#Chicago, here I come! Can’t wait to rub up on that bean.

Prepping for my drive to Chicago and planning on gracing the great state of #Nebraska for the first time ever. Is there anything I need to complete the experience, besides a ‘Runza?’

Hi friends! I recently discovered I’ve been used as bait for a catfishing scam. If any account using my picture asks you for money through Zelle, it’s not me! It’s… weirdly flattering? But mostly, ANNOYING!! #scam

Hi everyone! My friend (who totally saved my bacon by employing me) NEEDS YOUR HELP! TJ Christian, pastry chef extroidanaire, has entered the Greatest Bakers competition and is currently in 2nd place! Please, if you have 30 seconds to spare, VOTE FOR HIM HERE: greatestbaker.org/timothy-chri...

“What’s interesting about this?” I believe art is an individual’s unique response to that question. In that way, everyone is an artist, if they are brave enough to share their answers.

All philosophers were just #neurodivergent people trying to figure out the rules of the game.

Are you queer, sex-positive, and looking to connect at a deeper level with yourself and others? Then you need QUEER TANTRA- a workshop with the Body Electric School! ✨🌈🧘 I’ll be your coordinator for this fabulous 3-day intensive in Portland, OR— book before March and save $50 on registration!

I just got paid to talk on the phone with a guy as he fucked a burrito. Human sexuality is a blessing 😆 #SWorker #absurdism

In 2026 I would like to continue my current lifestyle, where I can be consensually beaten any given day of the week and not have to worry about explaining myself the next day. #impact

Always love a new play partner who can top for rope!

I wasn’t raised as a huge holiday person. I wish I had more traditions, but I can’t really backfill nostalgia for a mainstream American culture I never experienced. My current feelings about spending Thanksgiving alone: relief, indifference, and melancholy, in that order.

I sometimes struggle to convince T-bodied partners that tease and denial is a fun game. ✨ It’s physiological, friends✨ The amygdala lights up in response to uncertainty. Not knowing *when* or *whether* a reward is coming heightens anticipation and make the eventual release feel more intense.

Bittersweet call this morning from someone catfishing as a retired fashion model looking for a sugar baby. All she could talk about was dressing in silk gowns and taking a horse-drawn carriage to the opera… …and then marrying. She asked for my impression of her; I told her she’s beautiful.

More self tying practice! If only there were someone here to play with… #shibari #bdsm #rope #bondage #selftie #nsfw #onlyfans

Ugh. Someone decided to make my life in particular difficult. JUST. MINE. How unfair, right? Anyways, passerby, if you find this message, I love you! Good luck in your journey! You’re just as beautiful as I am.

New blog post is up! I get real nerdy breaking down the psychology behind a client’s fetish— for a Mormon-adjacent female-led church. Read it here ➜ mxcurly.com/blog/how-wor... #sexworkstories #phonesex #eroticpsychology #kinkeducation #pleasurescience #femaleledfantasy

Last night was my first private playdate in MONTHS— a glorious five hours of total surrender. 🤤 Kinky folx with healthy dynamics— Y’all. Are. **SO LUCKY.** #kinkcommunity #BDSM #consensualkink #healthydynamics #queerkink #switch

#estim wizard