it is so draining to engage with people who think i’m arguing or personally attacking them every time I try to solve an issue or express my emotions. it creates mental exhaustion. if someone can’t tolerate you asking clarifying questions and sharing how you feel, keep your distance.

i love conversations mixed with lil flirting and joking

i respect a "talk to me, what's wrong" person 😲

i be on tiktok laughing, ignoring all my life's problem

overthinking is such a silent killer

life goes on with or without whoever

Having a mom who still looks out for you even as a grown adult is truly a blessing

I avoid eggshell type of relationships, can’t express yourself, can’t be yourself, can’t ever be straight forward, can’t be comfortable, can’t talk like adults, can’t be heard, can’t respond with love without it turning into something negative…

I do think if you really like someone you naturally just won’t be interested in anybody else

i don’t think your parents should meet your partner till you know this is the person you actually want to settle down with & get married to. i’m so big on that. i can’t bring just ANYBODY to my parents.

A soulmate is not going to know how to automatically handle you. BUT….A soulmate is going to learn and grow with you through your flaws and insecurities. A soulmate will choose to stay when things get tough. They will look for solutions & communicate instead of running & quitting.

cheating is unforgivable in my book, but that’s just me. i don't want you anymore, i'm never going to look at you the same, i'll never be able to trust you again, my guard is always going to be up & i'm going to make you pay for it every single day and that's not a sane way to live.

aftercare in relationships in general isn't discussed enough. if we get into a huge fight or disagreement, there needs to be aftercare. if we have some wild sex, there needs to be aftercare. if we have a series of super deep conversations, there needs to be aftercare

for relationships to last you really gotta see your partner’s point of view of things .and be considerate. And be willing to grow. people can learn from their mistakes it’s all about compromises, communication & understanding .

Dating someone who gives you,, best friend vibes, good laughs, deep conversations, great sex, reassurance & loyalty >>>

“Hey babe, imma be really busy today and can’t talk much, but i love you and i will hit you up as soon as I’m available to talk” 🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢🟢

Giving me the bare minimum and acting like its top tier is the biggest insult ever.

I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser to someone with more boundaries it’s so weird, because it’s hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re just listening to your own feelings because you’re so used to this & only thinking about others

normalize seeing someone's lack of effort as their lack of interest in YOU and your lack of importance to them regardless of what they tell you or how much you love them

Bro, you can’t get mad at your partner for expressing what upsets them..... Even if it isn’t deep to you, it may be a serious matter to them. Genuine consideration is always key.

I like dates. I like healthy communication. I love room to grow. I like quality time. I like reassurance. I like reciprocated energy.

Lack of communication can kill a dope ass relationship.

If we date, we both gotta push each other to become a better us

Getting a gift from someone based off of details they've learned about you from just listening, is top tier

I’m definitely a “they can have you” type of person idc. I’m not competing

We grown af, talk to me & address the issue instead of acting weird

I like talking shit out.. I love clarity, let’s communicate & fix things, that’s maturity

It’s kinda cute when someone says they miss u.. like damn you into me frfr😭

We grown af, communicate and take accountability

Missing somebody who’s not alive is an indescribable type of pain

I only like sex when i'm in love.. casual sex does not interest me in the least

I wanna be in love with someone who is mutually obsessed with me

I'm such a "why?" person, I want reasons, I need to understand

To be vulnerable with somebody and not feel stupid after >>>

Heavy on…I ain’t even mad at you. That’s just who you are. That’s your character. You’ll never change. Be that, but I won’t ever deal with it again

A matured partner with a good mindset >>>

The disrespect is all the closure you need fr

I got betrayed while moving with pure intentions, I will never forget that

I’m wayyy too young to be feeling like i’m done with love and dating😭😭

I cannot afford another bond with the wrong soul

Me finding u attractive is one thing, but me wanting to get to know u, being excited to see u & wanting u around me is another lol

My toxic trait is i’ll tolerate a person until I hate them

Don't abuse my soft spot for you, it can fade away real quick

A perfect relationship isn't actually perfect at all, it consist of two people learning how to love each other. You’re supposed to build not leave

Imagine if someone learned your love language just to treat you right and make you feel loved properly

Starting a friendship before getting into a relationship >>>

Don’t want a perfect relationship, I just want someone that tries as hard as I do

Being attached to a person who can’t love you properly is one of the hardest feelings to shake

When they give you reassurance because they know you’ll overthink >>>

To crave a person’s presence instead of their body is the purest form of intimacy