loading . . . Resilience, Regret, and the Realities of Caregiving Caregiving strips you bare—it tests your patience, your humor, your strength, and your love. That’s what I learned talking with Mark Steven Porro, who cared for his mother during the final stretch of her life and turned it into a powerful, painfully funny, and deeply human memoir. Mark didn’t sugarcoat the hard stuff—he carried her, fed her, changed her, and sometimes got peed on mid-diaper-change. https://acupofteaonthecommode.org/2025/05/22/resilience-regret-and-the-realities-of-caregiving/