any eroticist living in the present tense is perceived as intense

when i was a kid, i thought adults must have everything figured out but it turns out adults don’t exist. everyone’s a time-traveling child. if you can remember this, it will save you so much heartache.

falling in love triggers instincts of self-preservation because erotic love is intent on alchemizing the psyche into more wholeness. identity then must change. if their values don’t include transformation, if they believe their ego is their entire psyche, they’re too rigid for erotic love.

your desires will feel as disruptive as your identity feels fixed. desire isn’t the problem. it’s your blind devotion to your current idea of yourself that makes you an enemy to what you truly want.

every time someone tries to disempower me, i open one more biblically accurate eye of an angel

enjoying your desire without grasping for climax is what makes you erotic

your eroticism is in cultivating qualities in yourself that you find sexy in others

erotic as in what consumes me must also nourish me

you keep picking partners who are projects because your creativity is bored

erotic as in i do not mistake intensity for intimacy

people often ask me how to re-eroticize their lives and the answer is always engaging in taboo creativity. it’s not easy because being at your psychic edge has a tint of destruction to it. but this is it. the rest is up to how tired you are of your own story which says you can’t tolerate discomfort.

being erotic is knowing the world is tasting and enjoying the real you they spit out the first time

you ever look at someone and feel their demon reach out to you for an excorcism or nah

a hot and cold relationship with your own desire, where it’s either overwhelming or abandoned, attracts the same level of erotic intelligence in others

periodic erotic reminder: your values are evidenced by how you spend your time and money. fantasizing about a value makes it aspirational, not lived.

people see you as you see yourself through noticing your attitude toward yourself. they aren't seeing what you try to manage them into seeing. believing they are is placing your center in fictional places, at the cost of orbiting your own erotic nature. (1/2)

RIP persephone you would’ve loved 2025

to turn off your eroticism, seek only attention

free my girls from the desire to rehabilitate a narcissist

i’m like if aphrodite and hades had a baby girl

those who live erotically are in an alchemical relationship with being here now. they appear magnetically charged because they’re unconditionally present.

every eroticist is an alchemist willing to be created by showing up to their current quality of time

your life will change when you realize enjoying desire for long stretches of time is what you’ve wanted all along

erotic as in i like me more than i like your approval

to be erotic is to be created by the present moment

erotic living is when your present captivates your attention more than your past

erotic living is the most iconic way to unmask

the attachment style you have with your creativity is your relationship with your inner child

you cannot be nonchalant and erotic

to be erotic is to be created by the present moment

every woman is medusa, persephone and aphrodite no further questions

to be magnetic, you have to attract and repel. if everyone likes you, you are not erotic.

you eroticize pain by becoming bigger than the wound

living erotically means being lost in your own fire instead of begging for a lick from someone else's. it's not called HOT for no reason.

if you don’t like your true self, the people who do like it will never feel like your type

living erotically means you crave your life. it means it turns you on. it means that you turn yourself on. that’s the litmus test.

it takes a brutal sincerity to stay soft

beginner’s mind is erotic because it celebrates creative presence instead of letting a conditioned self engage with time

because you are what you admire and envy, there’s a version of you who’s more erotic and authentic than who you are in this moment. what you’re attached to is the false self. losing it is a creative gain.

if you need to be in love with someone to be erotic, you’re tasking eros with waking you up through another. don’t be surprised when that person turns out to be Hades himself. you’re always living a myth. become queen of your hell.

to eroticize yourself is to stay close to the transformative parts of you. erotic living is never fixed—it’s an emergent of your capacity to be changed.

every scar is a sigil

The version of you who gets the life you most want is the one audacious enough to admit what it is, the one who stays with desire long enough to have an embodied erotic understanding that it is non-negotiable and then, the one who engages in consistent inspired action. (1/4)

your resistance toward the ways you really want to live, relate, and create is your egoic urge to value cognitive shortcuts—the ability to stay the same inside while wanting an erotic life to manifest on the outside per an affirmation or wish.

it takes a certain amount of psychological grit to remember that you shame yourself in the same ways you've been shamed and that your cringe toward yourself is insult as inheritance. it's not yours. your cringe is a lie you believe.

recognize your power before they do. no one trusts someone who’s asleep.

you know you're living erotically when you have a crush on you

stay away from people who light a fire in your psyche and then blame you for acting burned. dysregulating someone through relational trauma and then judging them for being the dysregulated aftermath of your arson is a sloppy crime.

glamour magick happens every time you enjoy the ways you’re beautiful