Banned from putting up the the new wall calendars in our office for fear of tempting fate, so we used them to practise our lightsaber moves (noises included). The admin office watching on ⬇️ You don’t have to be mad to work in Further Ed, but it bloody well helps! 🤣 #SpeirGorm

You are not responsible for managing her reactions. The guilt comes from old conditioning, not from who you are. You’re not doing anything wrong.You’re just finally stepping out of a role she depended on. #SpeirGorm #WalkingMyOwnPath

I didn’t float down the Slaney in a bubble!! #SpeirGorm

My life isn’t part of her emotional regulation system! #Takingitback #GoingMyOwnPath #SpeirGorm

Good morning, #SpeirGorm Monday rolls around again! Treat yourselves to a hot drink and a muffin this morning!

When you couldn’t remember the word for wire and so asked for the metal twine! 😂 Well at least everyone got a good laugh out of it! 😂 #SpeirGorm #WreathMaking

A movie that takes place where you’re from #SpeirGorm #Brooklyn

I learned that narcissistic traits, e.g triangulation & isolating the other person can occur because of trauma experiences creating a fear of loneliness in the perpetrator. This perfectly describes The Sister. She does not do it consciously but it still has had a negative impact on me. #SpeirGorm

Today I took part in a wreath making workshop in at The Lavender Farm in Gorey, Co Wexford. Despite being the only singleton there, I actually had a really lovely time chatting with everyone else.. Anyhow.. Here’s is my first ever handmade Christmas wreath. #SpeirGorm

Me as your Bsky therapist #SpeirGorm

Jaysus!! #BBCStrictly

Steps looking 🔥🔥 #BBCStrictly

They do the same thing here, it's part of the HSE current model of 'Care'. After years of being on a waiting list they do this to Trans People when they are seen by the National Gender Service (NGS) It is not best medical practice, it is not in line with international standards.

K-pop Demonhunter! 😂 Not a word of a lie I have tears from laughing! #SpeirGorm

So, I fall back asleep and then wake up again to learn that I am in fact NOT in a relationship with Mae Martin. There’s my Saturday ruined! Ffs! #SpeirGorm

Middle is going to a birthday lunch for his friend today. At a restaurant!! If you also have a child who is neurodivergent, you can appreciate how huge a development this is! #SpeirGorm

Bought The Sister tickets to see Adam Kay live too! www.adamkay.co.uk I’m on a roll! #SpeirGorm

Whadd’ya mean it’s only 7.45pm! I’m ready for the leaba now!!! I’m actually disappointed! #SpeirGorm

If you see this, post your getaway vehicle #SpeirGorm

I’ve seen a bit of an increase in followers in recent days. You won’t see any references to the orange twat here. What you do get is a snapshot of my daily life here in rural Ireland observation, nonsense and a bit more in between. #SpeirGorm

I bought Eldest tickets to see @briancoxtalks.bsky.social in the 3Arena (The Point to you and me!) for Christmas. Don’t breathe a word to him!! #SpeirGorm

Good morning, #SpeirGorm It’s Friday- FriYAY!! Another cold one, so wrap up warm and remember to book your diesel engine cars in to get those cold starts sorted. Usually it’s the glow plugs!

Enoch Burke is currently at large and evading arrest. Stay safe, keep doors and windows locked. Read up on articles such as the irish times "what experts advise if doorstepped by the burke family" Contact your elderly and queer community members to help them prepare This has been a PSA #speirgorm

I stop in Aldi most evenings on the way home. Have a look at their reduced section and pick what I fancy making for dinner that eve. Reduced price and also reduced food waste as I only buy what I need on the day. Plus it suits my impulsive tendencies and my brain likes the challenge! #SpeirGorm

#OzempicTales is kicking my backside this evening. I feel so sick and queasy. Sometimes it’s hard to tell if it’s hunger or fullness, because the nausea can occur in both situations. #SpeirGorm

Now here’s the thing. I hear my own thoughts ALL the time. There is constant narration/conversation taking place. Having had my first use of the shower I would say ‘You are alone with your own thoughts, it’s that quiet!’ #SpeirGorm

You’d definitely need your hat, scarf and gloves out there today! Even the Puppers was eager to get back home! Beautiful day though! #SpeirGorm

Eldest’s verdict on the new shower! ‘You can hear your own thoughts, it’s that quiet!’ 🤣 #SpeirGorm

A rare midweek lie in. Good morning, #SpeirGorm

Although, my ailing shower could not be repaired and so needed to be replaced. So, swings and roundabouts really! #SpeirGorm

Best possible result for the car (hopefully). Brakes checked, ABS sensors cleaned and brake fluid level topped up. €135 but worth it to know it got a full check out. #SpeirGorm

I was freezing all day yesterday. When my feet get cold, you’ll get no good out of me! Today I’m layered up and wearing fleecy socks! Happy Tuesday, #SpeirGorm

Today, I started my day telling myself that this week was going to be a good week. And then I got some very positive news indeed. Still waiting to hear on my car though! 🤣 #SpeirGorm

Good morning, #SpeirGorm! A cold but dry one today. I’m looking forward to heading to work today. Not least because being out of the house means a few hours away from the ginger cat! No joke! She has been an absolute pest this past weekend!

Catching up on #BBCStrictly and Claudia is looking 🔥 #SpeirGorm

Connolly's Presidency marks a new dawn ...for footie excellence :) #spéirghorm

You know you live in rural Ireland when the neighbour’s boyfriend visits her in the tractor! 🤣 #SpeirGorm

Home just in time for the last minutes after tracking the match online and in the car! Totes emosh! #HunIre #COYBIG

Whoever thought cats need a myriad of toys has never had a cat! #SpeirGorm

This is a new one on me! When I walked into JYSK and was met with all the Christmas Gonks of various sizes, (enough to fill a small village), I was so happy and excited to see them I nearly burst into tears!!! Is this a #Perimenopause thing?? #SpeirGorm

So… Anyway.. I’m awake! 5.30am.. 🙄😭😴 #SpeirGorm

Are you awake?. It is time for second breakfast!! I love her to bits but she had had me awake since 4am already. This was about 7am (sound up) #SpeirGorm #PhoebeCat #Caturday

Ah, JYSK! Darn you and your bargain Christmas prices!

Great sale on the rugs in Dunelm ( previously Home Focus ) #SpeirGorm

The Slaney has burst its banks! #SpeirGorm

Waterford bound with Middle and Friend. While they watch their wacky Anime, I shall make a start on a bit of Christmas shopping. Good plan, Ro!!! #SpeirGorm

The car has been dropped into the garage for Monday, to allow me to get to work without delay. These are the things you have to plan for when you are a one parent family. #SpeirGorm