New podcast episode up on how to not drop at conventions!

New podcast episode is up! Part 1 of a two part conversation with ElsieXO and Jordan about keeping it hot in long term polyamorous kinky cohabiting relationships!

New podcast episode is up! Where's the Line Between BDSM and Self-Harm? #nssi #selfharm #psychology #sociology

New podcast episode is up! #bdsm #kinklife #dominanceandsubmission #bdsmlifestyle

Him: "there's been a big pivot in my life, out of hacking and into rope"

Currently waiting for my Southwest flight. Gate agents: please please give us your carryons to check free of charge. Everyone: fuck you, give us our free checked bags back.

New podcast episode is up! #bdsm #kink #bdsmlifestyle

New podcast episode is a buffet of tidbits about #bisexual and #polyamorous figures from history #lgbthistory #queerhistory rss.com/podcasts/slu...

As someone who went to graduate school to study the sociology of birth control, I always think it's hilarious when romantasy novels exist in feudal societies where people can freely and reliably control their pregnancies 🤣🤣🤣

New podcast episode is up! rss.com/podcasts/slu... #sociology #sexualassault #law #gender

Bisexuals cover ourselves in rainbows for Pride because we're desperately trying to compensate for how much gay sex we're not having 😭😭😭🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈🌈

New podcast episode is up! rss.com/podcasts/slu... #sociology #sexualassault #gender #legalsociology

I told Boyfriend that I was going to consult a pet psychic for my cats. He sputtered at me indignantly, then immediately created a note on his phone for "easy ways to make money with AI if engineering falls through" 😂😂😂

New podcast episode is up! #sociology #gender #sexuality

Ugh the total mindfuck of getting turned on reading my erotica while experiencing the absolute boner killer of having to cut words from it to meet the editorial requirements #writerlife #erotica

New podcast episode is up! Chapter 1 of my book Violated rss.com/podcasts/slu...

Super mega theater nerd waiting around outside for like 20 minutes so I could video a few seconds of wild Broadway history in the making. Here's Tom Francis as Joe Gillis in this incredible production of Sunset Blvd. (sound on to hear the faintest sounds of singing)

Any other theater nerds notice that it seems like Sunset Blvd's car has left the theater and driven across the street to Gypsy? (okay but seriously, both productions are incredible, go see them right now) #broadway #sunsetblvd #gypsymusical

New podcast episode is up! Group sex--with Doug Robinson rss.com/podcasts/slu...

When you nervously stand up in front of a room full of your peers and proclaim "this theory we've all been using" (minority stress theory) just isn't backed up by the data" and you expect lots of people to say "fuck you" and instead a lot of them are like "yeah!"

New podcast episode is up! The BDSM/Polyamory and Neurodivergence Overlap

Him: "what do you mean I haven't resorted to crime yet? Crime was Plan A, but had to resort to work."

The phrase "be gay, do crime" implies the corollary "be straight, do work"

Recent conversation with a friend and colleague. Me: "when I went to a conference at Princeton last year, people were politely surprised that someone like me was now working at a startup. I told them our conferences were soon to be full of unconventionally[Cont] www.theatlantic.com/science/arch...

New podcast episode is up! Audio of the first chapter of my book, Please Scream Quietly rss.com/podcasts/slu...

New podcast episode is up! The Art of the Switch, with ElsieXO. rss.com/podcasts/slu...

New podcast episode is up! Talking about erotica and erotica writing 😊 #eroticawriting #writingcommunity

That wildly confusing feeling when you wake up truly believing it's Wednesday, but it's not.

The things people will do to spice up their sex lives after 26 years in a relationship 😂😂 Happy anniversary to my wonderful and crazy husband! ❤️ You can see the full clip here: www.sheer.com/slutphd #highheelfetish #urethralsounding #sounding #bdsm

Paying the toll for posting political ranting by also posting beautiful rope stuff from this week. Me tying AK in the snow ❄️

Do not assume that the recent government cuts are actually haphazard and random. They *might* be. But these are the steps in the authoritarian playbook: 1. Pardon your very illegal friends [check] 2. Undermine intellectuals, most importantly social scientists and their chief sources of data [check]

"But Trump’s mass layoffs of federal workers could come back to bite him in economic data. The monthly jobs reports could start to show a slowdown in hiring, if not turn negative at some point after the February numbers are released." Oh APnews, bless your naivete... (Cont)

A special double-episode podcast release today for Valentine's day! Two masc dom/fem sub stories, and two fem dom/masc sub stories, written and read by yours truly #erotica #podcast #smut rss.com/podcasts/slu...

For anyone looking for the storyboard image to my novel, Lit Erotique... This was the photo I created, but it's very NSFW, so I figured I'd just post it to my page instead.

Byatt's Possession meets 50 Shades in my new manuscript, Lit Erotique--an erotic metafiction story that explores what happens when two queer polyamorous sluts fall in love. Two erotica writers try to break conventions of relationships and genre in this snarky and nerdy word-loving novel. #questpit

I was interviewed for the Authentically Kinky podcast, and the episode just dropped! youtu.be/Zl1NS0di-k4?...

Still seeking an agent to represent my erotic metafiction novel! The pitch: two queer kinky poly erotica writers in a long distance relationship push the limits of conventional love, sex, and genre. #amquerying #literaryagent #writingcommunity

New podcast episode is up! Challenging Existing Constructions of "Sexual Orientation" with Doug Robinson #sexualorientation #sexualidentity #queer #pansexual #queersociology #sociology

It troubles me on a philosophical, metaphysical, and scientific level that taking advil often helps my PTSD.

New podcast episode is up! Alternative Masculinities: An Interview with Doug Robinson #sociology #masculinities #genderroles

Him: "I'm always alarmed in erotica when they describe pussy as tasting sweet. It shouldn't taste sweet, that's *bad*. It should taste umami!"

Aw thank you 🥰

Me: "that was such a shitty threesome. The only good thing about it was the guy had this great playlist that introduced me to the Arctic Monkeys" #arcticmonkeys

Her: "I don't know if I want to project all that grief and sadness onto someone else's genitals" me: "that's the advantage of group sex. There's so many people to share the load."

K asked for bamboo torsions, so I gave them to her 😁 Rope: me, bottom: K #shibari #kinbaku #bondage

A really important article speaking to the importance of trying to re-establish social connection and community

Some super badass (emphasis on the "ass") rope bottoming from ELW in my ropes last night #shibari #bondage #kinbaku

I love becoming rope art! 😍🥰

I don't think this article grasps the full sociological significance of what they're finding here, especially since this seems to be an international trend. But seriously. You fight fascism by hugging your friends, not by checking how they're doing on bluesky. Yes I'm aware of the irony here.

Episode 8 of podcast up! So many ways to love rope rss.com/podcasts/slu...