Story time! When I was a smallish child, my parents invited some church friends over for dinner. They had two kids, slightly younger than me, a boy and a girl. Those kids jumped on my bed and broke it. I didn't tell my parents, and when they found out I got in trouble because I didn't rat out 1/2

"You have brains in your head. You have feet in your shoes. You can steer yourself any direction you choose. You're on your own. And you know what you know. And YOU are the one who'll decide where to go." -Dr Seuss