Monuments and statues are some of the clearest examples of witch’s totems in American history. They are not neutral markers of memory; they are spells cast into the public landscape.

Women who say no aren’t doing something wrong. They expose the cost of acquiescence. Women who say no reveal how much we’ve bent, compromising, and enduring to survive, and how maybe we didn’t have to.

Watching another woman say no, cleanly and without guilt, can ignite a storm of internal conflict in women who have spent YEARS shrinking themselves for the sake of peace. No, is radical self acceptance and a rejection of patriarchal heteronormativity.

Y’all love calling women “too emotional” until it’s time to build a whole empire off our softness. Is it an asset or not?

You don’t actually want to get married to a man. You just want a wedding.

Consistency is hard.

Finally deleted tiktok. Moving onto better platforms (hopefully).

Self respect has left the chat!

Yikes…

Hate is costly. It costs your mental and physical health… you’re 27 years old with crows feet. You haven’t got a full 8 hours of sleep in months. You’re chronically tired, you’re scared all the time. Your kids are no contact. Being hateful is costly af.

Make it a point to read books by black authors in 2025 pls.

I’m going to watch every classic black/urban movie and review them from a 2024 mindset 🙂

I don’t want you to tell me how racist your family members are. I want you to tell me about how you uninvited grandma to thanksgiving dinner for voting Tr*mp this election.

Happy thanksgiving! And remember, if he wanted to, he probably still wouldn’t. #justgirltips

Cat ladies are hella cool.

Stop performing domestic labor for men who have never made you orgasm… #justgirltips

The male loneliness “epidemic” is just men having a very low distress tolerance.

Block immediately after the first infraction. #justgirltips

I’ve seen conservative women posting “my body, his choice”. You have a D/s kink, girly. 🥰

If you want to get married and he hasn’t proposed and it’s been 10+ years, reclaim your time and LEAVE. There is an entire generation of women stuck being caretakers to the men who hated them. #justgirltips

Bluesky is what it feels like to chew 5 gum.

He didn’t text you back because he’s texting someone more important. Go to sleep. #justgirltips

Pls don’t forget not to laugh at a man’s bad joke today.

Starting a relationship podcast because the girlies are struggling out here. First order of business, defeating weaponized incompetence.

Quit underestimating stupid people.

Put hot sauce in your pho today.

I got a man but I want you, I got a man but I want 2 or whatever Doja Cat said…

Black women 🤝🏾 cozy gaming

Do not comply in advance! No, I will not fall in line. And I am way past the point of assimilation. I will continue to be good af to my neighbors and friends and the community at large. I will not shrink. I will only grow larger.

Do not laugh at jokes that aren’t funny today. #justgirltips

If you are a black woman I implore you to center yourself today and everyday thereafter. Amen.

Assume a man hates you until he proves otherwise. #justgirltips

Go to the library today.

My interests just in case you are meeting me for the first time: Cats Plants RPGs Women who can dance in heels Bird watching Pocket sized men Gardening 🍃💨 Food (Vietnamese, Mexican, Indian, Italian, Jamaican brown stew chicken) Popsicles Erotica book AO3 (law and order SVU fanfiction) #promosky

#womeninmalefields has initiated a collective bonding of women over our shared experiences with men and that is so poignant to me.

When he asks me what I like about him and I say “idk everything”. #womeninmalefields

Decentering men is centering women’s safety.

If you’re here from TikTok, WASSUP!