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I can't think of a single negative about locking hubby in #chastity. It was essential in establishing our #FLR. Now #indefinitechastity is part of our lives. I'm sure hubby would agree. #keyholder #femdom #FLRFriday

You maybe didn’t wait for this explanation to make him sniff your panties, playfully. But now you know why you like to do that. :-) Take care to do it always from a position of strength. It’s okay to make it a bit humiliating for him. As a matter of fact, it absolutely should be.

Ladies, #chastity can serve many purposes. By far the most important imho is that it creates the platform from which an #FLR can be established. By denying your man his orgasms he will seek a better use of his time. What better alternative than to make your life easier? #FLRFriday

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I used to have this pinned on X. A nice way to sum up my relationship with my hubby. #FLR #femaleledrelationship #chastity #malechastity #keyholder #femdom

For those who continued their #chastity experiment into #NOvember, you will be close to this stage now. There will come a point where your #chaste male will happily forego an unlock to share in the fulfilment of his #keyholder enjoying a climax. It's a watershed moment in your #FLR journey.

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This is so true. Hopefully more women have experienced it for themselves during #Locktober. It's the cornerstone of your #FLR. Having a man more attuned to YOUR needs. The #keyholder may decide to continue into #NOvember but by the end, you'll both want it to continue. Trust me. #FLRFriday

If your guy is on the...uh, smaller side and you want bigger dick but you don't want to fuck other men, there is a simple solution. Lock the little one up and have him wear a strap-on with a dildo the size you need to have that inner slut fulfilled. He's still fucking you, but now it fits you.

Time for a little break. I'm going to try and devote some time to writing. I have a couple of ideas for stories inspired by real life events. I have encouraged @allythemaid.bsky.social to think about publishing. The story he wrote for me was excellent. Keep 👀 on @literotica.com And remember...

And just like that #Locktober is over. For some. Not for hubby. He has spent the last few years in #indefinitechastity. So while all those people for whom #Locktober was a bit of fun enjoy their day of relief, hubby just wonders when I will next unlock him. #FLR

Ladies, as #Locktober ends it's time to ask yourself the question - has your locked man behaved better towards you? Answer honestly. If you'd like to see things continue this way, with his attention to your needs growing, now is the time to speak up You decide what's next. Your #FLR starts here!

It may be the 31st but #Locktober ends at midnight so your #keyholder is still in charge If she is anything like me, she will need some sleep after such an exhausting month So as the clock ticks into NOvember I'll be fast asleep and my locked boys will have to wait for permission to unlock #FLR

Almost the end of #locktober. @allythemaid.bsky.social and my mystery man are in line to earn their rewards if they make it to the end. Hubby. Well living with me is his reward and he gets to enjoy it every day. 😈 #chastity #FLR #femdom

#Locktober started with a picture of hubby's locked nub. It seems right as we draw to a close that I share a picture of the other nub I've kept locked. @allythemaid.bsky.social has been a very well behaved boy. It's just a shame he wasn't excited enough to fill the cage. #chastity #keyholder

Well I don't know about you but #locktober has lived up to all my expectations and then some. Having 3 boys under my control has been hard work but well worth the effort. It's almost a shame it has to end. Oh, wait..... #keyholder #chastity #malechastity #FLR

As #locktober draws to a close, questions for all the locked boys. Have you enjoyed your time in #chastity? Has your #keyholder supported you? Do you feel closer to your #keyholder? Is your overriding desire to unlock or to please your #keyholder? Would you do it again, for longer?

I'm sure he's started dropping hints as #locktober draws to a close, but never forget ladies it's all about YOU now. Don't forget the advantages of making him wear a dildo in a harness You choose the size He lasts as long as you want There's no mess Why unlock at all? #keyholder #chastity #FLR

Bluesky has put lots of female nudes in my timeline today. I'm not complaining, I'm in that sort of mood.

Quality time with his Mistress. #Locktober #keyholder #femdom

A #Locktober update Mystery man is recovering and is starting to receive tasks again. Hubby is hubby. Breakfast in bed has just been served! @allythemaid.bsky.social is struggling with that most challenging of tasks. Not because of a lack of commitment but due to UK public transport failings!

I wonder how many new members there will be when #Locktober comes to an end.... #chastity #keyholder #femdom

It's been remiss of me not to mention this aspect of #chastity before now in your #Locktober journey. But just because his c0ck is locked, it doesn't mean the #keyholder has to go without. An important part of #indefinitechastity and a #FLR is making his tongue his primary sex organ. #FLRFriday

Just one week to go. What will be your overriding emotion when #locktober comes to an end? #chastity #malechastity

There's a huge amount of trust involved with first timers to #locktober - not least the man having this nagging doubt over whether his #keyholder will release him Trust me, by the time you get to #NOvember anyone who has stayed the course won't be worried at all #malechastity #chastity #femdom

Ladies, I'm sure you've experienced this by now but the great thing about #locktober should be that it increases his focus on your pleasure. Which should make those nights even better for you. #chastity #keyholder #malechastity #femdom #flr

3 weeks of #locktober done. Is it starting to feel normal or are you longing for the end of the month? This is where it gets interesting. If your #keyholder has enjoyed the extra attention maybe she won't want it to end with the end of the month. #chastity #indefinitechastity #FLR

It starts with #Locktober. When it ends is entirely up to your #keyholder now. If you're both enjoying the experience, why not make #chastity part of your life? It doesn't have to be just for #Locktober. #indefinitechastity #FLR #femdom

1/ As promised, and prompted by a post from @mrsstrictdragonfly.bsky.social yesterday, our #cuckolding journey. Firstly, we discussed it for a long time. The idea of involving a third person is not a small step. We agreed it was important to find someone we would both be comfortable with. #FLR

Ladies you need to be firm here. If your partner has his birthday in #locktober you should not feel any pressure to unlock him. He gets unlocked when YOU want and what YOU choose to do with the contents of YOUR cage is up to YOU. #chastity #malechastity #keyholder

An update. My mystery man is unwell but staying #chaste. My hubby is feeling like the wannabe #cuckold he is as I focus on my other boys. @allythemaid.bsky.social is impressing me with his commitment. But I've just set him the most challenging task I have ever given a sub. Let's see how he copes.

Ask him if he wants to stay locked for you. Tell him you'd like it if he did. If he wants this, give him your conditions. This is where your #FLR starts. #FLRFriday #chastity #femdom

Ladies, if you are starting to enjoy the feeling of control and have seen your locked man become more attentive, it will soon be time for you to make a decision. You may not have agreed what happens when #locktober ends, but you won't get much resistance if you extend his lockup. #keyholder #FLR

#Locktober 16th. We're on the homeward stretch now. Have you felt it yet boys? The desire to please your #keyholder should now be stronger than your desire to masturbate. You have? Welcome to #chastity. Time to tell your #keyholder and let her take control. #FLR #malechastity #femdom

I wonder if my three locked boys are enjoying #locktober still? Almost half way. But still a little over two weeks to go. #chastity #makechastity #keyholder #femdom

#Locktober 14th. Two weeks in #chastity. Well done to everyone who hasn't quit. Enjoying that constant reminder boys? #femdom #keyholder

Ladies you should take the opportunity #locktober presents to try some new things. Watching porn serves to keep him aroused and conscious of his cage. Watching it together provides you with the chance to ask him about things he may not have opened up about previously. #chastity #keyholder

I wonder what those boys who gave up their orgasms for me this #Locktober thought when they agreed to it? Maybe not the challenges I would throw at them along the way. Well, hubby did, but then he didn't have a choice in submitting 😈 @allythemaid.bsky.social has a tough task this weekend as well.

Boys, if you've been locked throughout #locktober you're probably starting to go through some mixed emotions at the moment. As the frustration reduces, you will start to have a new focus for your sexual energies. Your #keyholder can help you with that. #chastity #malechastity #femdom

For newbies, the #chastity means your man saves the time he would have spent masturbating. Make sure he uses it wisely, making your life easier. Over time, he will take pleasure from pleasing you. When he realises that is his route to future orgasms the penny will drop. #keyholder #FLRFriday

#locktober day 10. Almost one third of the way already. Doesn't time fly.... Ladies, I hope you are starting to see some of the benefits #malechastity can deliver for the #keyholder #chastity #femdom

1/2 A bit about the mystery third man under my control for #locktober. He has served as my trainee online #sub before and showed some promise before he let the severity of what he had committed to get the better of him. He may get a second chance if he can stay #chaste for the month. The catch?

Being a #keyholder can be rewarding at the best of times. #locktober is just the icing on the cake. I hope all the ladies new to this lifestyle are starting to appreciate some of the benefits #chastity #malechastity #femdom

One week of #locktober behind you boys. How do you feel? Just think, you've got to do that long again and then you'll almost be half way. Not hoping for a little light relief already are you? #chastity #malechastity #keyholder #femdom

Boys, #locktober is as much a mental challenge as a physical one. Here's some advice that might help. Just maybe ignore that word 'never'. Or maybe not. Your #keyholder will decide. #chastity #malechastity #femdom

1/3 Ladies, this is a difficult one. Always remember, #chastity is about controlling his orgasms not just locking him. So it's fine to let him out on your terms For me, the cage doesn't improve PIV performance it just means he can no longer last long enough to satisfy me…. #locktober #femdom

A #locktober day 5 suggestion for all #keyholders. You are approaching the hardest part. Days 5-15 the novelty wears off and he will start to resent being caged. Time to keep him interested. #chastity #malechastity #keyholder #femdom

When a man gives control to his #keyholder this thought must cross his mind How do you feel right now at the thought 31st October might not be the end of it? I bet you feel differently in four weeks time! And if #chastity is your route to #FLR, by then it will be her decision #Locktober #femdom