Almost three days of #locktober over already Still excited or have you finally realised this isn't a game? #keyholder #chastity #malechastity #femdom

Reposting this as both my Bluesky boys liked it. I must get hubby on here one day so that he can show his appreciation as well. #Locktober #chastity #keyholder #femdom

It's just that I throw a bit of #cuckolding into the mix by choosing to be #keyholder for a couple of other #submissive men as well. It's our unique way of allowing hubby to experience what it feels like to be a #cuckold. So maybe a version of #Locktober not a lot of happily married couples try.

My three #locked boys all found out yesterday that I'm not going to let them off easy during their #Locktober challenge. Lots of reminders of just what they've given up. 😈😈😈 Never mind, only 28 more days to go after today. #chastity #malechastity #femdom

#FLRFriday Female led means the woman makes the important decisions. Sometimes she makes less important ones as well...... Though given it's now #Locktober I think it's safe to say it won't be next week. #indefinitechastity #chastity #malechastity #femdom #wifeincharge

Day 1 of #locktober has gone already. That wasn't too bad was it. I bet it was almost fun. The novelty of feeling the restrictions the cage imposes. Only 30 more days to go. Or are there? You see when you hand over the keys it really is no longer yours. #keyholder #chastity #femdom

My #Locktober roll call. I am #keyholder for 3 locked boys 1. My hubby. It's no challenge for him as he lives in #indefinitechastity. But it's his 1st #Locktober in pink (photo is him). 2. @allythemaid.bsky.social. A brave soul who replied to my offer. Follow him for updates. 3. Mystery man

Welcome to #locktober boys. I hope you enjoy it as much as I know I will. #keyholder #chastity #malechastity #femdom

#Locktober #chastity #malechastity #femdom #keyholder

One last shout out to ladies out there who are wishing they'd raised the subject of #chastity with their husbands. It's not too late. He can stay chaste without a cage, you will just need to increase the levels of supervision. If your hubby is anything like mine, you'll know if he cheats.

I just came across this little video and I couldn't agree more. Unfortunately I don't know the source. I really admire men who submit to their women for the right reasons.

I love this. Getting all the important pieces on the board ready for the game that is #Locktober. Just remember, if you enjoy it, it could become your normal state. Locked and living an #FLR with your #keyholder. Tomorrow might just be the first day of the rest of your life. #femdom #chastity

I wonder if #locked boys participating in #Locktober will be allowed one final orgasm tonight or tomorrow? If you're self-locking, then enjoy yourselves If you have a #keyholder, I suggest you ask their permission as there may be conditions attached as @allythemaid.bsky.social has just discovered

I hope lots of couples get to experience this during #locktober. For the #keyholder it takes some getting used to. You own it. You control it. You decide what it can experience and when. From that control #FLR is born. #chastity is life changing. For both parties.

I remember a #keyholder last year referred to #locktober as the 'abyss of desperation'. I wonder how many boys will teeter on the edge and how many will fall headlong never to return. Or maybe that's for the #keyholder to decide #chastity #malechastity

Here is my submissive for #Locktober. I've never had a #sissy #submissive before. This might be even more fun than I was hoping for.

I have acquired a submissive to play with during #Locktober. More details to follow. I wonder if he knows just what he has let himself in for. 😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈😈 #femdom #chastity #malechastity

Ladies, if #locktober isn't his idea, it's only natural he will be scared about being locked. Make sure there is lots of interaction and encouragement over the first week especially. If he sees you enjoying #chastity it will help him to accept his position. #keyholder #FLR #femdom

This offer is open to any gender. I started writing on @literotica.com after my one and only experience with a female #sub. She was the inspiration for Nikki, a central character in many of my stories. I have a lot to thank her for. #locktober #femdom

Well ladies, do you? It's #FLRFriday after all And if you're curious about the whole lifestyle, #locktober is the perfect way to start. Even without a cage, he can try to remain chaste FOR YOU. I guarantee if you make it through the month, your #FLR will be within reach.

It's almost #Locktober. My favourite month of the year. Here's an offer you can't refuse. If a nice polite #submissive would like to spend the month locked under my guidance, DM me. No fees, no catch, but serious applications only. I will only choose one, so make it good. #femdom #chastity

Ladies, some advice on #FLRFriday. I've mentioned before, #chastity is where your control starts. But #chastity alone is not enough. You cannot 'lock & leave'. He has to be kept on edge, needy, reminded of what he is missing. Use all your assets. It's not a time to be shy.

Men using their primary sex organ, #Chastity Version. Ladies, if this is your dream, lock their cocks up in #chastity cages and make this the only way he gets pussy. He'll get better over time and you will be rewarded greatly.

Ladies new to the #FLR lifestyle often think locking their husband in #chastity will reduce their orgasm count. Nothing could be further from the truth If you're anything like me, they also become more enjoyable when you know hubby can only experience his when you permit him. #femdom #wifeincharge

This is beautiful. I don't believe there is a stronger bond than that between a #chaste husband and his #keyholder wife. ❤️❤️❤️❤️

A #FLR is all about meeting the woman's needs. To those not familiar with the concept it may seem a very one-sided arrangement. But the male will learn to take his pleasure in different ways. Then both parties will be more than happy with the relationship. #FLRFriday #femdom #malechastity

#FLR #femaleledrelationship

I'm sure a lot of my male followers fantasise about living in an #FLR. But just stop and think about the reality. Putting someone else's wellbeing before your own. And not just sexually. It takes a brave man to commit. I'm so lucky I am married to one. #FLRFriday #femdom

It's good to keep reminding them ladies....as often as needed until the message gets home. #femdom #FLR

Imagine a life without the stress of making choices. Submit to Her. Focus on Her pleasure and yours will follow. Welcome to #FLR #femdom #FLR

IYKYK.

After a male orgasm, his refractory period kicks in. For many submissive men harsh sexual humiliation helps shorten this period and bring them back to their regular horny servile state. #Femdom #humiliation #cumeating #cumfeeding

I can't wait! Sounds like the sort of world in which my @literotica.com story 'The Bisexual Submissive' is set.

This is the aspect of #malechastity a lot of ladies new to the scene don't appreciate. Yes, he will be locked. No, that doesn't mean she goes without. Bonus - you can choose a different size and shape every time. #chastity #femdom #FLR

I know it's not #FLRFriday any more but your #FLR should be for life and not just for Fridays. #chastity #femdom

I'm pretty sure that most of us will say that he does. I do too, although, in the case of very virile men, the answer might depend somewhat on my mood, if you know what I mean. Anyway, the aesthetics should be one more reason for men to let her lock his genitals.

#FLRFriday #FLR #chastity #malechastity #femdom

Boys, do you have the strength of character to surrender your most prized possession to your #keyholder? It will be worth it, I promise 🤞 #chastity #malechastity #FLR #femdom

1/ Ladies, it's important to distinguish between #permanentchastity and #indefinitechastity. There is a place for each, but my strong preference is for the latter. Your man can get used to permanent and there is a danger it will breed resentment....

And btw, ladies, if you're going to be fucking him with it, make him suck your dick first. You know, to get your cock "warmed up."

To think, until hubby asked me to be his #keyholder I knew nothing about #malechastity or #FLR. I had no idea just how much I would enjoy being in control. I wish more women could experience that feeling. #femaleledrelationship #chastity #Domme

I have a feeling today is going to be a good day. I hope all you boys in #chastity are focused on making sure your #keyholder has an enjoyable day too. #FLR #malechastity

A #malechastity misconception. Having your c0ck locked in #chastity isn't the end of your sex life. It just becomes a little different. You will learn to appreciate the important things in life....starting with your #keyholder. #FLR

The #keyholder makes all the important decisions in a #FLR. #FLRFriday

I used to post regularly on the other place using #FLRFriday. Mainly advice for people interested in exploring the dynamics of a Female Led Relationship #FLR Maybe I should start up again now I've decided Bluesky is the only place I want to hang out.

So good to see the younger generation embracing the #FLR lifestyle. #chastity #malechastity #femaleledrelationship

I don't really need to say any more do I? #FLRFriday

Why would any man want to live in a #FLR? For the constant mindf*ck Will I or won't I allow you an orgasm today? Why would you want those few moments of pleasure when you can ache with longing forever? Or if not forever then as long as I deem appropriate #indefinitechastity #chastity #keyholder

This is the latest I've found: www.literotica.com/series/se/31... It's not what I'd usually go for, but there is a strong female lead and the writing & plot are superb. With a bit less sex (did I just type that!!)it could even make a pretty good movie script! Bravo @djmac1031.bsky.social