We have an extreme cold weather warning until tomorrow, so the cats are resting in the sunniest spots of our home.

This is my void. He desires snacks. 🖤

AOC is very generous!

BFF and me cross-country skiing. First time in over 25 yrs for me. Had such a blast. This is the year I adjust my exercise and eating for perimenopause. Wish me luck. 🍀

Just said to my life partner: it’s better for my mental health if we do things differently. He adjusted, worked with me for a simpler plan, so I’d feel better and I’m bawling. 😭 Childhood abuse means my nervous system struggles to believe I’m safe. This moment means so much.

Writing today in bright blue cozies while nursing an ocular migraine. Valerian root tea is helping. I had whiplash in my twenties, so every once in a while it also feels like I’m being stabbed in my shoulder. Old injuries always come back for you. 😭 Hot compress time.

I'm so happy to be here and have friends coming from other social media platforms to chat with. 😀

A man I know, and once trusted, claimed women are the reason incels exist. Red flag. My nervous system went into fight of flight, yet I was livid. Triggered. I sputtered "patriarchy is the reason they exist" but was too emotional to make much sense. So I switched to people-pleasing until he left. 😔

When I’m feeling low, this meme always sparks joy. 😆

Heartbreaking. Two missing pieces from a puzzle favourite. Of course I found them as soon as I put the puzzle away 😆

On it.

My little winter town. All sweet and aglow.

Feeling accomplished today!

My hyper-focuses are astrology, history, and dismantling the patriarchy.

I had to give up my blog. It was an intense journey of healing from familial narcissistic abuse. But they upped the price for my domain and with all the economic changes my family is going through I couldn’t justify the expense 😔 End of an era for me. It really helped when I was struggling the most.

I planted yarrow is my garden this year and I am not regretting it. Next year, more yarrow! I cannot get over these bright colours when it’s mid-November.

A gorgeous, two hour summer walk in my favourite ravine.

Pumpkin chiffon pie for Canadian Thanksgiving. 🥧

Spooky season. My favourite stories and characters are all horror based.

Scorpio the show off ❤️🖤

This will never not be funny to me 😂

When you’ve had a bad day: octopus mug, rose tea diffuser, Earl Grey Rose tea. 🌹

Always intrigued to see what my hair is doing in my selfies lol.

Fall colours to die for.

Finally time for warm, frothy drinks.

I always adore an octopus theme.