At the VIP lounge for Jimmy Kimmel Live! at the Brooklyn Academy of Music. Everything complimentary. My boy @iangray.bsky.social knows how to have a birthday! #kimmelinbrooklyn

Grateful for vaccines and my access to them. Hooboy this year’s are kicking Daddy’s ass today.

The highlight of the birthday weekend. Sparklers, singing… to an empty chair. While we were focused lighting things, the birthday boy took a bathroom break.

This past weekend we celebrated my husband’s 70th birthday. This is me making dinner for 22 people and looking way more confident about it than I actually was. Thankfully, everything came out edible and even had some fans.

Charlie Kirk died in service to becoming a statistic he so admired: those sacrificed to gun violence so that the Second Amendment could not only prevail but thrive.

I know almost none of you listen to the music I post, but skip this to your own detriment. I can say that only twice have I heard Elton covered and it beat the original. This is one of them. youtu.be/jHqjig0_SsE

Should I decide to change careers, I am taking ownership of the drag name U. Haulina Bocks.

I am at Showtunes in Chicago and James McAvoy is here with his wife and they are having a marvelous time.

A distinction you do NOT want to hear a building neighbor making to his children as he takes them to school: “I did NOT start the house on fire, I started a fire IN the house.”

If my company starts publishing books with this monstrosity involved, I will quit.

Three ways. #FatCockFriday #FCF

I hope cancer ate his insides, slowly and with excruciating pain, and that he was conscious and screaming out for his Jesus through the whole thing. www.nytimes.com/2025/08/21/u...

In other words, white straight cis folks have seen what authoritarian power can do… and they want summa that. www.nytimes.com/2025/08/20/u...

amp.cnn.com/cnn/2025/08/... Huh! It’s like the very customer base they threw under the bus to appease the current regime has decided to spend their dollars elsewhere.

While it’s always sad leaving @iangray.bsky.social, after last night’s flying debacle, glad to be going home.

Once again climate change has me having to reschedule a flight. This summer and flights have been rifuckingdiculous.

Please bring your own towel.

Oh men of Scruff… My profile says I’m a smoker. Your profile said NO SMOKERS. You woofed. I woofed back, said thank you, pointed out I smoke. You sent pics. I sent pics back. You begged me to use you. I said I’d check back in Sunday night. I go back later. I’ve been blocked. LOL

Working hard to keep my inches down in a wicked little town while the boyfriend gets important work finished. It ain’t easy. #SoftieSaturday

It seems the theme of flying this summer is… Add one to three hours of any planned trip. If it isn’t a thunderstorm, you’re WAITING FOR PAPERWORK ON A COMPLETED REPAIR. Has the airline industry ever heard of a PDF??

Decided to take a break from work.

Oh look, my alternate universe husband released a banger. youtu.be/VxB2ec4KkR8

1. The last couple of weeks being sick have taken a pound or two off. Trying to keep that going. 2. Dressing to pick up the boy at the airport.

Is there anything MORE New York Times tone deafness than the placement of these two stories? A child screaming from hunger next to the American couple whose $450K dreams came true in Normandy.

If Ghislaine has any friends in prison, she better get them circled around. Word is the Justice Department is reaching out. Wouldn’t want a “suicide” to happen or anything.

Only I can possess the distinct luck of starting an antibiotic at exactly the same time as a rotavirus infection kicks in. This week has been hell.

Second round of antibiotics for upper respiratory crap in as many months. August better be damn near a perfect summer month, because this has sucked.

And just like that, this administration has guaranteed that this country will not lead in science, medicine, literature, engineering, on and on, for generations. An entire country in his image. www.nytimes.com/live/2025/07...

If you’re going to a wedding, go to one in Tepoztlan Part II.

If you’re going to a wedding, go to one in Tepoztlan Part I.

Preview of the outfit I’m wearing to a friend’s wedding in Mexico this coming weekend.

You need to be watching this. YOU NEED TO BE WATCHING THIS.

What in the Elaine and Ed Warren hell is this little nightmare that is staring directly at our home?

A few things that made me gay in no particular order: The Sears catalog The Crayola Art caddy Richard Dreyfus Community theater Maurice Gibb K-Tel records Barbra Garanimals Barry Manilow Donna Summer Sondheim The Tony Awards Aquanet Eurythmics Fundamentalist Christians

And finally… Anniversary gift #4 with @iangray.bsky.social. What a delicious serving of cotton candy. Not an ounce of nutrition, and might even be bad for you, but your sugary pink smile says it all: it was SO GOOD.

Anniversary gift #3 from @iangray.bsky.social. JESUS was this Tony earned! You cannot comprehend how Snook keeps this going and on mark for 2 solid hours. Indescribable, but one of the best things I have EVER seen.

Catching up from the weekend… This was anniversary gift #2 from @iangray.bsky.social. Elegant simplicity in design, uniformly excellent performances. Did not love or understand the choices made with the chorus. And the role of music in this myth was a bit too muted.

Did you know there is a shortage of endocrinologists in the US? Finally got a referral from my GP. My first available appointment is JANUARY 2026.

@iangray.bsky.social, I hope you feel every day how much we love you. How much I love you. How grateful we are that you are ONE OF US. LOL. Happy Fourth Anniversary, sweet pea. Let’s fly an El Dorado to the moon.

My first fourth anniversary gift from @iangray.bsky.social. A show about fame, infamy, death, human connection and the price of the lack of it, the casual cruelty of humans. But funny! And in small places touching. Utterly original. 10/10.

Seriously, please stay safe out there. www.nytimes.com/2025/06/15/u...

Protesters, please remain alert. www.nytimes.com/2025/06/17/u...

RIP OFF THEIR MASKS.

Time to face facts. marching will not be enough. Arms must link, human fences formed. We will be peaceful. They will not. They will shove people to the ground. They will beat them. Sadly, once again in the US, it will only be footage of beatings and blood that will shock people into stopping this.

ICE just arrested Brad Lander, the NYC Comptroller and one of the leading candidates for Mayor, without grounds. He was conducting routine immigration court work, escorting individuals from hearings. He asked ICE for their warrant - well within his legal rights. This is political intimidation.

My father was garbage. When he died, it was his wish that I not be mentioned. His surviving family honored that request, and his obituary dropped the Sr. from his name and listed two, not three children. Subsequently, I paid good money to remove his surname, down to my birth certificate.

Thankfully, the Marines and National Guard are doing a crack job arresting passersby in parks in CA. www.nytimes.com/live/2025/06...

Funny. Touching. Superbly acted. Genius. youtu.be/nYkDGvT4tJk

THIS SHOULD OUTRAGE YOU. THIS SHOULD SCARE THE SHIT OUT OF YOU. youtu.be/gL08Xe31Ff8