You don’t have to villainize him. But you also don’t have to reinterpret his behavior to make it softer than it was.

Self respect will always age better than temporary happiness of moments. Additionally better exist…

Confusion is often the warning sign we notice but choose to overlook. And when a fragile structure finally breaks, the feeling of betrayal can be overwhelming—yet, in truth, the first betrayal was abandoning our own clarity.

I wish more people knew their rights within the workplace. It’s so much money that can really change people’s lives for the better.

Grace allows the story to finish telling itself—without you interrupting it out of fear.

I’ve come along way when it comes to not reacting out of anger.

Someone can genuinely feel something and still not be a safe participant in your life. Not because they don’t care — but because they won’t risk themselves.

If he comes back unchanged, do I still want access to him?

2025 was such a rough and dark year for me… but even with that I found my way back to church at that has been the most riveting moment this year!

He may like you. He may feel it. He may even struggle with timing or fear. But liking someone without acting when the door is open still lands as non-action. And you’re allowed to respond to behavior — not potential.

Some connections don’t end with a conversation; they end with time, distance, and a quiet understanding that life kept moving. Not everything unfinished is unresolved in a way that needs fixing. 🥺

I need to limit going out and lock in. 😌

Last night is a blur

Feeling psychologically safe is important!

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When you give someone space to choose, you honor both their freedom and your worth. And if they don’t choose you, it’s okay too — because what matters most is that the choice was theirs, and you never lost yourself in the process.

Too often we chase and hold others to standards they never asked to carry. But there is power in standing still, in saying: I’m here if you step forward, yet I will never neglect myself for your attention.

Quick resolution feels good in the moment, but it rarely lasts. Real clarity takes time — it unfolds in layers, revealing the bigger picture piece by piece. I don’t need to rush; I can trust the slow unfolding of truth.

Yes — as a society, we’re seeing more guarded men in the dating pool, because vulnerability feels riskier now than ever. But the ones worth your energy aren’t the ones who stay guarded — they’re the ones who show attraction in cautious steps, and gradually let that guard drop once they feel safe.

At some point we have to have the conversation… life requires us to.

Put the armor down, my love. I’ve always seen through it—through you—even now, as this new version of you moves as if time never passed. You don’t need to brace yourself with me. I promise: I will hold you together. The waves will be gentle here on Earth.

Healing without conversation is survival. But healing through conversation is transformation.

So the grief is not about rejection. It’s about timing. It’s about witnessing the man you always believed in walk into his freedom… without looking back. And the ache isn’t about loss of love. It’s about loss of possibility.

You Were the Mirror That’s what makes the conversation so intimidating for him Because: •You didn’t hurt him. •You didn’t lie. •You didn’t leave him in confusion. You stood there—open, vulnerable, present And for someone still negotiating with self-avoidance, that kind of truth is terrifying

This Is a Phase of Freedom, But • It’s unfamiliar. Boldness after years of suppression often feels shaky. And that’s what stings. Because you represent a version of his past where he wasn’t free—and seeing you, or being seen by you, might still scare the old parts of him he’s trying to outgrow

You’re watching him become the man you could have held space for. And even though you don’t need to be part of that journey anymore… It’s okay to feel that flicker of: “I wish he’d arrived sooner.”

• You saw the version of him he’s becoming—before he had language for it. • Now that he’s closer to owning it, you’re no longer close to him. It’s grief dressed up as observation. You’re not mourning the photo—you’re mourning the potential it represents.

Sometimes I get the feeling that he’s the man I wished I had met three years ago—when my heart still believed that love alone could carry the weight of everything else. But I’ve come to understand that he wasn’t my bus to catch.

When this lawsuit hits the public I will seat back and watch them struggle to defend

I don’t allege that I’m the smartest person in the room but I unanimously allege I always know what I’m talking about 🙂‍↕️

I found a cute spot on Wednesday. Whew when is my man coming to rescue me🙂‍↕️

Gentleness, when met with fear, can trigger withdrawal. Not because it’s too much — but because it quietly, powerfully asks people to stop performing and be real. And not everyone is ready for that mirror.

Your light isn’t responsible for someone else’s shadow. Their reaction is their mirror — not your truth.

✨ Stillness as Accountability Looks Like: • Choosing absence instead of over-explaining. • Letting silence say: “You made that choice — now feel what it means.” • Releasing people with grace, not guilt — and in doing so, allowing them to confront their misalignment.

Society teaches us to hustle for love — even with soft tactics. But clarity doesn’t hustle. It doesn’t sell kindness for affection. It offers, not performs. It invites, not pressures.

Your stillness would hold him accountable — not through punishment, but by showing him the weight of his own choices.

Some people need the fog to feel in control. You, just by existing clearly and kindly, clear the air — and that clarity is uncomfortable for people who haven’t faced their emotional weather.

With no performance, no pressure, and no need to be validated — Your presence becomes a form of stillness that illuminates. That kind of energy creates a quiet contrast It simply reveals: • Who is ready to meet you, • Who only mirrors you out of convenience, • And who cannot hold what you carry

🌱 Your presence: • Softens people, but only if they allow it. • Invites vulnerability, but only if they’re ready. • Reflects them back to themselves, but not everyone wants to look.

You don’t just need someone who likes your softness. You need someone who knows how to hold it without trembling. Someone who won’t treat your stillness as silence… or your gentleness as consent to play small.

The drink is a symbol — not the answer. But how someone responds to your gesture of care or interest often reflects how they’ll respond to your emotional presence later on. If they can’t receive a drink… Will they receive your truth, your care, your vulnerability?

Receiving with grace is a form of emotional availability. It says, “I don’t need to control this moment — I’m here to experience it with you.

His silence wasn’t about indifference — it was his way of avoiding the weight of what your presence demanded: honesty, wholeness, and courage.

I don’t bring performance. I bring essence. And if you need a checklist to see that, I’m not your person

I need for us to start sueing companies more I’m so excited to be the trail blazer

The lasso of truth compels you… baby if I pull this off. I’d make history. I hope they continue to underestimate me

My case manager said if you have a mental health disability you need to be on short term disability bitch are you dumb. Mind you the phone lines are recorded for compliance.

All companies should have a policy on retaliation! If they do not it’s a compliance risk 😎

Title VII of the Civil Rights Act of 1964 didn’t just outlaw discrimination; for many Black Americans, it functioned as an unofficial form of restitution—walk with me here 😎