Here's the one and only bonbon, my beloved wife, and adopted mom. I consider her and lover her as both and nothing will change that. I do call her mom. We like to cuddle and play video games together. And i have a hard time sleeping without her. #plushophila #plushum #objectum

I have a confession. The plushie that I consider my wife, and the plushie i consider my adopted mom are one and the same. She's both to me.

Anyway, being #objectum is kinda weird. Especially if you consider yourself in a relationship with an object. You can't tell anyone your in a relationship, or they'll ask questions if they're not accepting. But then they'll assume your single and try hooking you up with someone.

Wow okay, I went without posting for much longer than I realized or intended. Sorry about that.

#objectum often gets mistaken for #objectophilia, because they tend to go hand in hand. Though the former is the romantic, platonic or familial feeling for objects, and the ladder is the sexual attraction to objects. The same goes for #plushum and #plushophilia and other sub categories of objectum

I've been posting ever 2-4 days now for the last month or so now, and while I haven't gotten much attention, I appreciate those who have liked my posts. And I do wonder, what do yall want me to talk about in future #objectum posts?

I love knowing that their are other #objectum out there. I'd love to meet yall and see what kind of objects your into.

My #plushum relationships: My plushie girlfriend A homemade body pillow that I have platonic feelings for and am fwb with. An old build-a-bear that I have familiar feelings for. (The mother figure I've mentioned before) A home made quilt which I'm also fwb with but the benefits are cuddles

#objectum #plushum I am in a relationship with a Hanz Rascal E. Rabbit hand puppet plushie. I do perseve it as female, her name is boni and I love her. She is my wife (not legally) and we are open for other partners. Human, plushie or pillow.

The most common sub categories of #objectum that I have seen is #techum, which is the attractions to electronics like computers and phones. Its not wonder why there is so many people who fall i love with Ai girlfriends

As an #objectum who's primarily a #Plushum, I'm mostly into stuffed animals, blankets, pillows, and even hoodies. Bet you can't guess my favorite seasons?

Most of the time, from what I have seen from other #objectum and myself, we are also still attracted to people. And are very much so able to have normal relationships aswell as being in relationships with objects, sometimes simultaneously.

#objectum is an umbrella term, here are some sub categories: #Plushum: plushies and soft things #Techum: technology like computers #Vehum: vehicles #Machum: machines #Conceptum: general concepts. Pretty straight forward I think, some people may only be one or two instead of being all of them.

#objectum is not only romantic or sexual feelings for objects, it can also be familial or platonic. Like the stuffed animal you've had since you were little, you might feel it's as much a part of your family as your siblings. Or the equipment at work might feel like a coworker you like ot dislike.

It's hard for an #objectum to explain why or how they feel the way that they do. For me, I feel love towards a plushie the same way I would a person that I love. I have a plushie i see as a surrogate mother because I feel love it like I love my actual mom. (Obviously not in a romantic since)

#Objectum: A sexuality defined by the (mostly) romantic and sexual attraction to objectum. #Plushum: A sub category of Objectum that focuses on stuffed animals, and other soft objects in some cases. I am interested in teaching people about both and I am more than happy to answer any questions!