To my fellow trans, nonbinary, gender expansive, 2S humans: Thank you for being wherever & however you need to be today. Thank you for all the ways you show up w/ such ferocious care for yourself, for your dear ones, for your communities. You are in the futures I dream of. 🖤

Are you a provider looking for a workshop focused on gender play & gender-pleasure that centers transfem erotic embodiments but applicable to all bodies? This workshop w/ demo & hands-on practice is for you! Brooklyn, NY, 10/9. Scholarships for QTPoC & indigiqueer providers. luciefielding.com/links

I’m presently writing a sample chapter for the book project I’m co-writing and somehow I thought it was a good idea to sign up to write 6000 words on trauma. Good life choices, Lucie! Like, so important. But also: I need a binky and a nap after every writing session. 🤦‍♀️

Me after having had 9 sets of workshop participant hands muffing me for an hour. Sleepy, sore, blessed femme. And sporting the Muffing hanky about my neck (the color is scarlet—newest addition to the #hankycode)!

Excited to unveil the hanky for muffing today @ the LA intensive! Given that it involves manually penetrating front holes, my feeling was that the color needed to be a red tone (fisting is cherry red). Here’s a sneak preview (fisting flag is provided @ the bottom for reference). The color: scarlet

Intro post time? I’m a 45 yo, white, kinky, polyam, queer/leatherdÿke, neurospicy, thin, TMA femme. Femme is both my queer identity & my gender identity. I live & typically work on Monacan land & occasionally find myself on unceded Duwamish, Chumash, & Tonkva territories. 📸: Natasha Gornik, 2023