We have so much more in common than we think. Even though I don’t believe in god, I absolutely value each person, regardless of immigration status , sexual orientation, or anything else. Thank you, bishop

Ugh, I’m sad. But I’m grateful for friends and family and support; no prayer necessary #deconstruction #exvangelical

There goes TikTok 🥺

Talking about evolution on TikTok has honestly been shocking. I’m amazed at how many people genuinely don’t understand it- they think it’s ridiculous and no wonder, they don’t know what it is

Christians often comment on my TikTok that I have “sad eyes” since I don’t believe in god Today, it was “reptilian eyes” bc I’m apparently possessed by a leviathan 😳 #thingschristianssay #deconstruction #exchristian

If you aren’t hearing from god, it’s not your fault. An all powerful, loving god should be able to communicate in a way we can understand #deconstruction #exvangelical

Watched the lion king last night and our current situation totally feels like the moment that Scar takes over, promising such a better life under his rule

The most interesting discussions I have with Christians are about hell and the least interesting are with phil bros #exchristian

What did/do you believe about heaven? A place with no sin or sorrow seems inconsistent with the Christian idea of the importance of free will #deconstruction #exvangelical

When we share that we no longer believe, we are told it’s always our fault. But what if we did everything we could and there was no one listening? #deconstruction #exvangelical #exchristian

If there’s nothing we can do to deserve heaven, should everyone go? #exchristian #exvangelical

This is a great read and so timely! Would definitely recommend

One of the most difficult things for me to communicate to Christians is that belief is not a choice. You can’t will yourself to believe something if you’re not convinced it’s true #deconstruction #exvangelical

I wish the idea of “they will know us by our love” or “preach…and when necessary use words” were more popular among Christians. I honestly think it would be so much more effective #deconstruction #exvangelical

There’s a person in my life who is regularly mean to me and broadly my options seem to be allow the behavior or be mean back. I don’t want to do either. It’s so hard to find that balance of standing up for yourself and being true to who you want to be #deconstruction #exvangelical

If you’re ever feeling blue, don’t worry, a little bunny will come hop on your back

We don’t just deconstruct our religious beliefs. We also deconstruct the idea that we are worthless, deeply flawed, and undeserving of love #exvangelical #deconstruction

Christians are often surprised that I adhere to a moral framework; how do I have one without god? Morals are often guided by empathy and logic- no god required. Plus, no sticky questions about what to do if your god acts immorally #deconstruction #exvangelical

People with anxiety often watch the same movies or shows over and over because it’s comforting to know what’s going to happen. So anyway, I’m watching Friends for the millionth time :)

Ruby donut ❤️

There’s no good reason for a hell of eternal torment to exist. How is it just to be punished infinitely? #deconstruction #exvangelical

Trying out a new medium! I deconstructed evangelicalism 15 years ago, and while I did that process alone, I want everyone to have a support system through the process