Midnight tonight, this is gone. December Digital Escapes: me showing up 15 times when you need it most. No scheduling. No pressure. Just someone thinking about you during your busiest month. Last chance. leijlafoss.me/december-dig...

You spend December making everyone else's month easier. Who's making yours easier? December Digital Escapes: 🎙️Voice notes to encourage, not to ask of you 🎥Videos for nights when you can't sleep 💙Permission you didn't know you needed 💌 15 December emails right when you need

None of these things cost much. Some of them cost nothing. But they're the things that make my week feel good. That remind me I'm paying attention. That someone else is paying attention too. Small things. Heavy impact. What are your small things? Comment below.

It’s that time of year where everything comes all at once last-minute work to-do's, travel needs to be booked, gifts to buy, year-end review, navigating family dynamics I know how this plays out You'll take care of it all, you always do But who takes care of YOU? P.S. Keep an eye out for 11/22

Last week I was sitting in questions & feelings about my exclusive arrangement starting in 2026 However I realized *these aren't fears about making the wrong choice* These are natural thoughts about making ANY CHOICE What’s scarier is seeing regret staying the same when I’m ready for an evolution

Real luxury isn't about flash. It's about a man who knows the difference between expensive and valuable And then invests in the latter.

What separates the man who books from one who keeps thinking on it? Knowing 'someday' won't always be there After December 31st, 2025, I won't be available. That's not a sales tactic: it's the truth So if you've thought 'maybe next time', I need you to understand there is no next time after December

We have until December. That's it. Come January 2026, my availability disappears. If you've been waiting for the perfect moment, this is me telling you the perfect moment is NOW. Because after December 31st, there is no 'next time.' Let's make this happen while we still can. 🌐 lejilafoss.me

I'm stepping into something exclusive starting in 2026. An exclusive arrangement with a client and I’ll no longer be seeing other clients for the foreseeable future. So if you've been thinking about it, this is me telling you that 'someday' has a deadline now.

Decadence isn't just about what you consume. It's about knowing when something rare is in front of you and not hesitating. Some things don't come around twice. I'll explain what I mean in my next post.

I've been thinking about the men who've trusted me with their time, their vulnerability, their presence. Every appointment and every moment of letting the world quiet down. Thank you for showing up. For being exactly who you are. I need to tell you something about what's coming next. (More soon.)

April in Miami taught me something I keep coming back to. I showed up to the *wrong airport*. Completely wrong. The woman at the counter had to rebook me on a different flight, leaving from where I actually was.

I almost didn't post this photo...wasn’t sure if the pose was right. Then I realized that's exactly what this quote is about. Make your move. xoxo

Found this last week (while endlessly scrolling). Can't stop thinking about it. The cicada doesn't wait to be ready. And neither should you. Ready to go deeper? Start with my website. xoxo

You're allowed to want beautiful things. Beautiful experiences. Beautiful moments. Without justification. I'm curious: what's holding you back from what you truly want?

You are worthy. I'm telling you that because the men I draw in— ones with refined taste and quiet power—sometimes forget.

It took me years to understand: worthiness isn't about what you've achieved. It's about who you already are. I'm curious: what would you do differently if you knew you were already enough?

The man who gives proper notice isn't just being polite. He's showing how he handles everything valuable in his life.

Consider your favorite restaurant—the one you reserve weeks ahead. Imagine if you could walk in every night. The impeccable service would become invisible. The perfectly composed plates, mundane. What was once an event you planned around, thought about, dressed for...

You can have your favorite whiskey delivered in two hours. But you still prefer the bartender who makes you wait while he crafts it properly. Some things are worth the beautiful inconvenience.

Does immediate gratification give us anything memorable? Reply and give me your opinion. 👇

One of the most attractive things about a man isn't what he's achieved, but how comfortable he is in the spaces between achievements.

A poem about the happiness we don't celebrate enough. Happiness can simply be found in appreciating the nuances of life. #fmty #datedc

Let me tell you a secret about this dinner… Plot twist: this dish from a $400 tasting menu gave me and my date both food poisoning 🤢 But what happened next taught me everything about real experiences. I realized that bonding happens when we stop performing and start being human ✨

The best things require proximity to fully appreciate. Some men understand it instinctively… that true sophistication reveals itself in layers, not announcements.

I take a pause before choosing who I want to be today. I’m intentional about the choices I make The most magnetic people understand this: how you show up matters. #datedc #gfe #datevirginia #fmty

Self-discipline isn't just saying "no" to everything. Sometimes it's saying "yes" to: - Morning workouts - Watches that make your outfit - Virginia back roads - Creating instead of consuming What are you saying "yes" to this week? Perhaps it'll involve me...

unfortunately I do love: vacations in Hawaii, books I buy but never read, Krispy Kreme on Friday nights, artisan whole-bean coffee, pretty candles I won't light, MotoGP, cashmere in the fall, Lewis Hamilton, my 5-step skincare routine, plants I'll definitely kill 🤷

A man who reads poetry and thinks about sensation isn't soft. He's sophisticated. The same man who orchestrates complex deals has everything he needs for meaningful connection. Right now, as he is. No preparation required, no perfect timing needed. #datedc #dateeastcoast

"Stop thinking, just enjoy it. // And like that, thoughts froze." The moment when analysis gives way to pure sensation. When the mind finally surrenders to what the body already knows. Link in bio for more of my writing.

Everyone else complains. You create. That's what I admire about successful men: decisiveness. You build thriving moment by moment. Connection works the same way. Not random, but curated with intention. Ready to go deeper? Check my website.

Decision fatigue is real. Except you've mastered decisive action. 5 a.m. gym sessions. Thoughtfully paired bourbon. Soul-feeding getaways. Thriving isn't accidental—it's intentional. Connection works the same way.

These flowers don't last forever. Neither do opportunities. But I'd rather spend my morning creating beauty than compromising boundaries for quick money. Some things can't be rushed. I'm one of them Ready to create something beautiful together?

One was a last-minute request that ignored my boundaries. The other was hot yoga that honored my time as sacred. I chose myself. Because saying no to the wrong opportunities creates space for the right ones. Exclusivity isn't a sales pitch. It's a way of being.

$1,300 or $29? One was a last-minute request that ignored my process. The other was yoga that honored my boundaries. I chose myself. The man who gives proper notice isn't just being polite—he's showing character.

There's something about a man who can handle a manual transmission that suggests he understands the art of control and release in other areas too.

Four things that defined my summer: 1. Caviar at golden hour. 2. The lean into a winding corner on my GSXR. 3. Live music that made me forget my worries existed. 4. The discipline that makes all of it possible. Quality recognizes quality. In experiences, in choices, in people.

The way a man treats his watch tells me everything about how he treats his time. And mine.

What turns me on? When lovers are thoughtful in small ways, like remembering my coffee order or bringing fresh flowers

Wanting can feel dangerous. I wrote this poem during one of those low moments, when my protectors got loud. Instead of giving into them, I just listened. Our guard dogs always retreat though. And when they do, I can't help but wonder what might take its place...

Guys from TER won't screen due to discretion, but then will send you this: "Are you still sucking d*ck for a living ? I ask because it has been over 2 years since you were reviewed on TER" SMH

Do you love sushi and Japanese whisky? If so, comment below what your favorite is 💙

It’s that time of year again. Sunlight lingers past dinner and the air feels a little flirtier. Let's take advantage of warm days. Now's the time to take action on your summery urges. ☀️ I'd love to fill the summer with al fresco dinners, rooftop drinks, or sunny walks. leijlafoss.me

“I had a fascinating conversation with Leijla,” says Bruce the adult site broker, host of the podcast and CEO of Adult Site Broker. “She is interesting, intelligent, and witty. This is one you’ll all enjoy.” adultsitebroker.com/podcast-epis...

*ATTN SW* Are you looking at your business in 2025 and thinking: “Wait... this isn’t quite what I wanted” We've all been there. Scrolling aimlessly. Emails dry. You're questioning everything: rates, branding, photos, ad copywriting. That's why I'm announcing: ⭐ 5-Day Branding Challenge ⭐

What turns me on? When lovers are thoughtful in small ways. Like remembering my coffee order, bringing fresh flowers, etc.

RT if you love sushi and Japanese whisky 💙

Let's watch the sunrise together this weekend 🌅🥐☕️

Ugh, I remember the food from Italy It was *chefs kiss* 🤌

What are you reading this week? I'm reading a book called SPIN Selling, a recommendation from lover I met in Vegas