Don’t think you owe it to anybody to maintain connections with non-reciprocating, non-responsive, & un-supportive people. Reclaim your energy & cut them ties.

You glow different when you stop overthinking & obsessing over shit that’s gone, in the past, & out of your hands, & when you finally accept that “it is what it is” & focus forward.✨

Affirm:📣 "I AM: DONE with self-doubt DONE letting people treat me like I’m ‘less-than’ DONE feeling like I am not enough DONE accepting less than I deserve DONE undercutting my own self-worth" 💜✨💜

Speak it into existence: 📣 “I am in receiving mode. I am open to receive everything I’ve been praying for & manifesting. I am attuned to the frequency of well-being & prosperity & I KNOW I am worthy. I AM vibrationally aligned with & actively attracting the life of my dreams.”

If you’ve been giving and giving and OVER giving to non-reciprocating, non-appreciating people. . . It’s time for you to step into your season of receiving. Start by giving to yourself, being generous with yourself, and affirming that you ABSOLUTELY deserve reciprocity from others.💜

If it’s meant for you, nobody can stop it, block it, or take it. What’s yours is YOURS. What’s meant for you is on its way & it will find you.🌟

Allow your healing process to be what it is and what it needs to be. Allow without judging yourself for feeling the way you feel. Allow without pushing yourself to “snap out of it.” Allow with self-compassion.💗

I think it's incredibly healthy to pause, celebrate, look back & say, "I just DID that!" Spend some time feeling good about our accomplishment before jumping to the next thing. We deserve to congratulate ourselves, to acknowledge our hard work, and then rest a little too. 💗

Detach from outcomes. Release the need to always know what’s next. Stay open to life’s MAGIC.✨ #spiritsky #blacksky

When you’re undergoing transformation, be patient. You wouldn’t rush a caterpillar’s transformation within the cocoon, so don’t rush, push, or force your process. Allow your new self to emerge gently, at your own natural pace. 🦋💗🦋

Some of the most challenging & irritating people come into your life to accelerate your evolution. (But once you get the lesson, let ‘em go! 👋)

People are always telling on themselves. We just need to watch & listen, believe what we’re seeing & hearing, & stop feeding into any idealized projections we may have created in our heads.

Ask for support. Ask for signs. Ask for guidance in the physical realm as well as the non-physical. Speak to your guides and ancestors. When support shows up, accept it if it resonates with you and express gratitude.🌟 #spiritsky #blacksky

When they start questioning your boundaries, you should start questioning the friendship.

Time is an illusion. Send healing back to your past self, forward to your future self, way back to your ancestors. And watch the ripple effects heal you in the present. #spiritsky #blacksky

Define Success for yourself.🏆

You Honor your ancestors when you listen to the whispers in your heart and do what you came here to do.

Much of what I used to look for outside myself I’m now finding within. 💜

That one friend who gets your whole vibe and knows what you’re trying to say even when you can’t find the words >>> 💜

Be careful allowing people to get close to you who always seem to want to humble you, lower your sense of self-worth, & control you. Nip it in the bud. It’ll only get worse.

As I heal & evolve I know I’m not going back to who I was before the trauma. I’m becoming someone I’ve never been!

Have you ever dismissed your first impression of someone, especially when you picked up a bad vibe, only to realize months or years later that you were 100% right? TRUST your intuition!

You ever felt a whole fresh new anger over old sh*t you thought you’d healed from & forgiven? Healing happens in waves over time. Layers of wounds we didn’t even realize were there may surface months or years later, after we’ve evolved enough to confront what we previously couldn't understand.

If you want to heal it, you gotta allow yourself to feel it.💜

When you’re authentic & self-validating, the right people are drawn to you, they FIND you—your soul family, partners, mentors, clients, customers. When you’re true to yourself, your unique kind of SHINE vibrates at a frequency that calls out to & ATTRACTS them.✨ #spiritsky

Reminder: Even if no one else is celebrating & congratulating you, celebrate YOURSELF! If you’ve hit a milestone or a breakthrough, don’t downplay it or just keep grinding; PAUSE, take a moment to say “I DID that” & Celebrate! We need balance, we need breaks, we deserve to celebrate! #blacksky

✨Reminders for the New Year✨ Take full, deep breaths Ground yourself Stay hydrated Eat high-vibe foods Check in with your body & listen to it Release all that’s not yours to deal with Clear & protect your energy field Send LOVE & Gratitude to every cell in your body Mind your business Stay Grateful

Time for some cord cutting, chakra clearing, & calling back all the energy I wasted on b.s. in 2024. Lol.

Speak it into Existence: ✨“I attract exceptional friends & partners. We celebrate each other’s successes. Enjoy each other’s passions. Comfort one another thru difficulties. Uplift, cherish, & inspire each other. Believe in & help each other live out our dreams.”✨

Where do you start your shadow work? Look to the patterns in your relationships. Look where you feel triggered. Ask yourself questions & journal your thoughts. Focus on understanding & root causes/motivations, not blame. Re-read old journal entries for insight.

Some people feel like they’re not progressing & growing if they’re not constantly moving and hustling. Growth happens in stillness & quiet too.

Spiritual awakening is neither linear nor a once-and-done occurrence. It happens in waves and phases over time. There are always new levels of awakening. #blacksky #spiritsky

Gratitude raises your vibration✨ Gratitude makes you more magnetic✨ Gratitude brings you more to be grateful for✨

Ever had somebody REFUSE congratulate you, act jealous of your accomplishments, then turn around & BRAG about you behind your back? Don’t get it twisted, people can envy & mistreat you while using your shine & your achievements to flatter themselves.

Gratitude makes you glow!

Reminder: You can show compassion & hold space for friends who are in emotional pain without moving into their emotions, lowering your vibration, or draining yourself. It’s a delicate balance that requires strong boundaries & prioritizing self-care above running endless empathy.💜

Reminder: You ARE making progress. You might be laser-focused on all the goals ahead of you & the transformative changes you still want to make. But be sure you don’t downplay or ignore how far you’ve come. Look back on your progress. Celebrate your successes & small wins!

If they refuse to make you a priority, don’t drain yourself trying to convince them that they should. Call back your energy, take back your power. Save your energy for someone who matches it.

Flowing with it >>> Forcing it

Be gentle with yourself as you go through challenges, growth periods, discovery periods, etc. Give yourself grace. Speak to yourself lovingly.💜💜💜

If somebody wants to leave your life, let ‘em go. Period.

Toxic people are in your past for a reason. Leave ‘em there. Stop entertaining reconciliations & re-connections with people who clearly haven’t changed & who refuse to work on themselves. #blacksky #spiritsky

When I see "Take the 'L'" the Pisces in me sees, "Take the Lesson!" It's all about perspective 😂

If it’s truly yours, it can’t be taken from you.

A second petal mandala I made, this one from garden flowers. Day 9 👩‍🌾🌷🌱📷 #ArtAdventCalendar #gardening #flowers

You find out who people really are when you start enforcing healthy boundaries.

You don’t have to stay in that draining, toxic friendship just ‘cuz y’all go waaaaay back. #blacksky #spiritsky

Spiritual awakening is neither linear nor a once-and-done occurrence. It happens in waves and phases over time. There are always new levels of awakening. #blacksky #spiritsky

We might leave the relationship, but if we don’t get the lessons, heal, & make REAL change, we just attract the same-old problems in a new person. It’s how repeating patterns work. We gotta CHANGE ourselves.

Speak it into existence: “I attract relationships with genuine, like-minded souls who “get” me, who are willing to grow with me. I attract souls who see my worth & cherish my light & in turn whose shine brings me joy.”