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Tonight. 9PM to 2AM at the SF Eagle. Gear up. Join us. www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Join us for the November edition of #BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle from 9PM to 2AM; arrive IN GEAR before 9:30PM & pay no cover. Gear up, show up, get your boots serviced by the on-duty Bootblack. Read more: www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Tonight. 9PM to 2AM at the SF Eagle. Gear up. Join us. www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Had a great time representing BLUF San Francisco (@blufsf.bsky.social) this weekend at the annual backyard party! Check out the recap here: bluf-sf.com/2025/09/30/r...

Check out the recap for the Fifth Annual Backyard Folsom Party. Thanks to ALL who come out throughout the day; it was great to meet & greet folx familiar & new. See more: www.bluf-sf.com/09/30/2025/r... Next BLUFSF event: HARD on Friday, October 10th @ the SF Eagle

Regarding today's Folsom Backyard Party...

Join BLUFSF & On Guard Salon on Folsom Sunday for the 5th Annual Folsom Backyard Party! 11AM to 5PM 106 Landers Sreet San Francisco Stop by, take a load off & enjoy a cigar, bloody Mary, or brat. FMI: www.bluf-sf.com/events/special

#BLUFSF CUERO happened last week; check out the event's recap. Next & last edition for 2025: November 21st.

Check out the recap for this month's #BLUFSF HARD; next edtion: Friday, October 10th.

Your help is needed for #LeatherWalk2025; volunteer today! Safety/Traffic Monitors & Banner Carriers are needed. Sign up today @ volunteersignup.org/TEJF9

Join @blufsf.bsky.social Team & help fundraising! Join the Leather Community this Sunday for LeatherWalk 2025, register to fundraise or walk for fun. You can also volunteer; Safety/Traffic Monitors & Banner Carriers are needed. I'lll be helping as a Safety/Traffic Monitor. linktr.ee/SirAaronWolf

Tonight. 9PM to 2AM at the SF Eagle. Gear up. Join us. www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Join Us for the September Edition of BLUFSF HARD Join us for the September edition of BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle from 9PM to 2AM; arrive in gear before 9:30PM and pay no cover. Gear up, show up, get your boots serviced by the on-duty Bootblack.

On Vulnerability Embrace vulnerability to connect authentically and fortify your spirit despite societal judgments.

Check out the event recap with photos for this month's #BLUFSF HARD; thanks to all who geared up & came out last Friday: bluf-sf.com/2025/08/12/r... #BLUF #BLUFSanFrancisco #BLUFevents #LeatherCommunity #LeatherEvents

Meeting is wrapping up. #SacMAsT

Learned a new word: Limerence. #SacMAsT

Learned something new. NRE = New relationship energy. Pretty cool. #SacMAsT

Exit plans are best for life-ending situations vs. "divorces" within the polyamorous dynamic. #SacMAsT

Some polyamorous setups don't have exot plans in mind; rather, they address breakage if/when it occurs. The goal is to move forward together vs. have a plan for when things end. #SacMAsT

With the polycule, it might be necessary to distance a longer-standing dynamic to foster a newer dynamic but that doesn't need to have an exit plan. #SacMAsT

Exit plans can be a good case for polyamory in that others within the polycule can step in should the Dominant fall out. #SacMAsT

Exit plans are dependent on the level of enmeshment/entanglement & the amount of time that the polyamorous dynamic has been in place. #SacMAsT

How do we get you back to the point of getting back to standing in your own two feet? This is a point of an exit plan. #SacMAsT

From a 24/7 slave: Having an exit plan is SO important. Here's a support system & how it use it should the M go away. #SacMAsT

Having an exit plan from the beginning is important for the ending of a polyamorois dynamic. #SacMAsT

Starting w/ endings, when a dynamic has expired, learn to be like Elsa & let it go. #SacMAsT

Intros are done. The topic is now open for discussion. #SacMAsT

The Pup & I have been attending #SacMAsT meetings for a year now. That's pretty cool.

This month's #SacMAsT meeting has commenced; introductions are happening now.

Join BLUF San Francisco (BLUFSF) this Friday from 9PM to 2AM for BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle. Arrive IN GEAR before 9:30PM & pay no cover. BLUF is encouraged but is not required; ALL are welcome. FMI: bluf-sf.com/2025/07/25/j...

Full house tonight for tonight's #SacMAsT meeting...

Seated & set for tonight's MAsT Sacramento meeting; the topic - Power and Polyamory: Navigating M/s Dynamics in Multi Partner Relationships #SacMAsT

You Get What You Get SIR reflects on recovery, letting go of uncertainty, and shares insights about writing their journey while valuing authenticity.

Recap: BLUFSF 15th Annual IN GEAR Dinner On July 24th, 2025, BLUF San Francisco hosted its 15th Annual IN GEAR Dinner, featuring a successful auction, great food, and a special HARD event afterward, celebrating community support.

Recap: BLUFSF CUERO – Summer 2025 Edition The Summer Edition of BLUFSF CUERO was a success, featuring past titleholders and bootblacks, with future events scheduled.

From BLUFSF to you, have a safe, sane & sexy Dore Alley Weekend whatever you get up to.

"Do you know the difference between bad & good? If I wore a Leather hood, then you think you would?... "I will be your everything..." - #ColtonFord - www.instagram.com/p/DMOW8GpBcN... Yours In Leather, SIR Aaron Wolf

If you haven't grabbed your ticket(s) for BLUFSF's 15th Annual IN GEAR Dinner, you've still got time. There are still a few left. Tickets sales close tomorrow night at 11:59PM PST. Tickets: www.bluf-sf.com/events/in-ge...

Best quote: "I have no problem talking about anal hooks...and they go away." #SacMAsT

Setting up punishment provides transparency to the sub to know what to expect if/when a protocol is broken. What's going to happen & why can be good things is strengthening a dynamic. #SacMAsT

It might be beneficial to set up punishments for broken protocols when in the "contracting" phase of the D/s establishment process. #SacMAsT

"Thank you for giving me an order." Protocols can enhance a D/s dynamic by providing connection between the Dom and the sub. #SacMAsT

Using protocols in the vetting process can be useful in sussing out those seeking actual dynamics vs. chasing the "porn" version of D/s. #SacMAsT

There is a lot of interest in the whys of protocols in D/s relationships. We have newbies in the room tonight. #SacMAsT

sub answers: Protocol demonstrates respect & enables the authority control dynamic. #SacMAsT

Think about the reasons for protocols, the context. What is the goal? The intent? What does a protocol bring to you as a sub/Dom? #SacMAsT

Sometimes, protocols can start out hot but, as time goes on, they turn out impractical. I.e., the sub cannot take a bite until the Dominant does. What if the Dom is a chatterbox? When does the sub get to eat then? #SacMAsT

Introductions are happening & wrapping up #SacMAsT