"They really focused on the part where I was saying that Black men catcall more and not the part where I was like, 'Hey, maybe we should question our conceptions of catcalling itself.' And maybe there is a racist component to that. How much of this is just people being afraid of Black men?"

This is me! AMA about the details of any of these things (some of which are misleading)

As a kid, I read history stories of people who survived famines, or died from yellow fever, or celebrated being able to eat something with sugar at Christmas. I felt so grateful for the prosperity I had - a warm bed at night, sweets, medicine. 1/

New post - Women Are Low Status open.substack.com/pub/aella/p/...

new post out, throwing my hat into the ring of dating discourse aella.substack.com/p/the-diffic...

i think my breasts are too large for me to be autistic

im increasingly coming to believe that there's different spectrums in sexual desire that are just as defining, deep, and unmalleable as being gay or straight

why for the love of god is there no simple, easy service to just crosspost anything i post on twitter to bksy

new blog post - on the methods onlyfans uses to gain so many customers, and the techniques it uses to keep them (link below)

this is why i don't include consent forms. If I actually need someone to consent to something real then I'll just include a single line - "Is it ok if I do x with the data?" yes/no

interestingly, a woman's economic views predicts how many people she's had sex with more than her social views do

How many people have rape fetishes? This is the % of people who were into rape (and other types of dominance/submission) in my survey. 640,000 people, demographics are young and western

ok i surveyed a bunch of drug users to find out what drug is the best. here's the results for the best ratings aella.substack.com/p/the-best-p...

where tf can i get pure lidocaine hcl solution on 48 hours notice

but there's no polls??? what am i supposed to do

am i cancelled here

Looks like you can block people on bluesky now, so I'm checking it out. How's the scene? What's it lookin like?